Just can't get it!!! help!

Simon24,

Welcome to the Forum,

I suggest you read the WIKI to get a good foundation in Aneros usage. You will be much better informed from that resource than from reading isolated reviews.

Simon,

One thing that tends to help is going into the session aroused and relaxed. The sensations you'll receive are very subtle. Pay close attention to your body and what it's telling you. When you notice those slight sensations, focus your mind on them in the same way you would if an intimate partner was doing something you enjoy to you. You achieve these sensations and feelings using your mind, the Aneros is just the frosting on the cake....it just adds that extra kick. If your mind leads, your body should follow. One thing I see that tends to hamper progress is peoples expecations. Reading reviews and stories are fantastic...however, expecting those results will only slow yours. You really need to go into every session with absolutely NO EXPECTATIONS AT ALL!!! Go into them with the mindset that your willing to accept pleasure, whatever it may be. Keep your mind aroused, but remember just having an erection does not equal arousal. Use your imagination and memory of pleasure, that could help you keep from feeling restless and bored. Some people finish by masturbating and ejaculating...if you don't you may feel more aroused throughout your day or evening after the session (which would be nice if your involved in a relationship). Some of my friends used their Helix during sex and experienced dry O's.
I hope this is helpful and may give you ideas to start with. I wish you well.

Enjoy! 😉

Hey Simon,

How many sessions is this question based on?