Just a few questions from a newbie

Originally Posted By: mrdogcat

1.How often do I have to clench the muscles in my bum (e.g. every second two seconds)?

2.How long does it take on average for people to start to get the pre-cum signs?

3.How long does it take on average for people to start to get involuntary convulsions?

4.How long does it take on average for people to get the "big O"? If you do in fact get the "big O" at all.

5.What's the best positions people seem to get results?

Since everyone's experience with the Aneros is different, its hard to say what may trigger an orgasmic experience for you, but here's a few comments on your questions. Also be sure to check out B. Mayfield's extremely helpful "Keys to Backdoor ecstasy" for some great info on the Aneros experience

1. Go by feel and I'm not so sure you should be clenching anything right now. If a full on PC contraction is 100% then start with 50% or less. Two seconds would seem way too fast for me, but everyone is different. Experiment with different timings and strength of contraction. Once you orgasm with the Aneros its likely you will "clench" and it won't be voluntary either. : )

2. With me, this depends on degree of arousal and how long its been since my last ejaculation. Some times I get pretty wet with pre-cum and other times, even though it may be a super intense session, the pre-cum is only slight to moderate.

3. If you mean in a session, again it depends on your arousal level. With me they can start in less than 5 minutes and sometimes not for 10-20 minutes.

4. There is a huge variation on this. In my case it was 9 months to a year from when I first tried the Aneros. I'm glad I was very stubborn in questing for the "prize", as the pay off has been unbelievable in terms of sexual pleasure.

If you mean in a given session, I probably average 7-10 minutes before my first orgasm, but sometimes quicker. As the session progresses, the orgasms typically get much more intense.

5. No one answer on this, as the possibilites are almost endless. Just keep experimenting and you'll discover which ones work best for you.

Enjoy & Good luck!