Twice!
This morning I'd set aside a couple of hours for some me-time with my Aneros. I prelubed and settled down with a hypnotherapy recording. Everything was going well, my voluntary contractions were just starting to become involuntary when the Aneros popped out. This put a bit of a damper on my experience but I tried again. The involuntaries were just starting and out it fell again. After this attempt I gave up and finished off by hand.
I've never hat this problem before. Why did it happen? Will it happen again? Can I prevent it?
Douche? Really relaxed?
Stressors? (plenty of sleep the nite before -- although it was to be a "couple of hours" were you facing a deadline)
Diet irregularity? Gas etc.
I think though that everyone here has probably ejected an Aneros at one time or another. I'd not sweat it unless it happens frequently.
Douche?
I haven't done for the past three or four sessions. I haven't found that it made that much difference.
were you facing a deadline
Yes
Gas etc.
No
I think though that everyone here has probably ejected an Aneros at one time or another. I'd not sweat it unless it happens frequently.
Thanks - you've put my mind at rest 🙂
What model? Early on, I had the Helix pop out during sex with my wife, but now that one jabs the P-tab so hard, that it's no longer a concern. The Progasm, however, just naturally wants to fall out unless you are clamping down really hard, or have something like underwear on to keep it from popping out.
What model?
MGX
(I'm not posting this for any reason other than the forum is set not to let me post a message of less than 10 characters!)
I have been able to keep the Helix in during intercourse and it did help with erection. However, like above, the Progasm wants to come out.
I've ejected my progasm clear across the room like a flying projectile. 😀 It happens occasionally for me. Usually if i feel it about to pop out i reach back and push or hold it in for a few seconds which drives me crazy!
If I reach back to touch it, any progress I've made up to that point is lost, seldom to be regained. So, for me, it's "no touchie!"
Jeeze, guys...haven't we all had aneros-ejectus from time to time. Just means you're enjoying the pleasure of aneros movement.
Here are the simple steps you need to follow if this happens:
1. Reach behind you, or wherever the Aneros has landed and
2. Put it back in and
3. Get back to your session
There. We have all the answers right here. All you have to do is ask. Amazing how we "Senior Members" know, ain't it?
Seriously, mrkpnh, if this is a persistent problem, changing models may help, along with continued development of your anal sphincter muscles. Clenches and Keegles will help you to keep the port hole closed. Persist in your practice. It'll help.
AW is right....when you feel it's gone too far, reach down and hold it with your hand. If you're ejecting it across the room, then maybe you need to learn to control your enthusiasm a bit. I'm not kidding. Make your session more about getting the most feedback from your prostate with the LEAST amount of movement you can muster. Lie very still and just barely move the aneros back and forth across your prostate.
Sometimes, less is very much more. This is particularly true when using a Eupho which is very light and mobile.
Get another model, Helix perhaps or maybe Maximus. These are shaped differently from your MGX (which I think is the least effective Aneros model, personally) and are longer. Besides, having other models will really enhance your experience. Each gives its own joy.
Good luck. Don't worry about it. Put it back in and get in gear.
Cockadoodle