it arrived...and the first time

!!!WOW!!!

i will reply to my own initial post with a follow-up.

so i found some fine time alone to experiment again--and it all happened. it's literally a lifechange.

i began again to rehearse excitedly what i had tried earlier with similar results, but i decided not to do the back thing with the pelvic motion. i wanted to experience it in a calmer way so i really spent some time relaxing after i had lubed up plenty and inserted my friend. i decided to follow the online instructions as closely as i could. i just lay on my side and breathed and waited. there were pleasant waves as before. i finally gave up expectations and just lay there. i almost forgot it was in, forgot about what i was doing, when something started happening that i had not felt earlier. it was like butterflies in my bum, that's all i can say. at first i thought i might have gas or have to move my bowels. it grew and spread warmly to my perineum and then to my balls and then to my dick. it became a huge involuntary contraction as if i were going to cum huge, but it just lit my dick on fire and kept getting more intense. it's like the initial contraction of orgasm that doesn't end, just keeps on going higher and higher. it was really enlightening in a real sense. i felt really at peace and overwhelmed by this orgasm. it was a different kind of orgasm but it was definitely intense orgasm. i can feel it as if it's going to repeat even now many hourse later, just thinking about it. what had been really pleasant waves during my first experiment became real now. i am not sure how long i let this happen? i am sure it happened about 10 times. each time was different as it seemed to spread to different parts of my body. new experience in life is so rare and this was new and incredible. i began to feel and understand what my body was doing playing with what was in it down there until butterlflies would start and then contractions. my rectum seemed to know exactly what to do and all i had to do was respond subltley. if i did too much too soon with my anus it stopped the buildup.

after a while i started to roll over onto my back but it was too intense. i stopped halfway over with one leg extended and one leg tucked up in the "seated" position that i had been holding on my side. the biggest erection ever happened and very light touching was enough to drive me insane! i was touching one end of my dick and was aware that something was playing with the other end of my dick down in the root. i brought myself almost to shooting off several times each time stopping it from happening with some anal contractions. these added strength and intensity to the whole buildup. i still can't believe what was happening. i decided to let it shoot off and then i caught it and made it happen with hard anal contractions. no thick semen, no shoot off, but a lot of clear prostate liquid pouring out of me with each anal contraction, ending with some thin milky stuff. a whole lot of this stuff.

and all i can say is WOW! this was new and wildly intense. it feels like it has changed something in me, awakened my prostate, anus, perineum and other parts of me, got them all communicating. and i am a different person. does that make sense? to be different in some real way after this experience? it is as if i am sexual all the time now with this inner conversation happening? that's how it feels. it also feels that some type of congestion has been cleaned out physically and mentally. i am still wondering what happened and how. like this is a huge secret! i feel pretty privileged. i want to tell everyone but it also feels very personal and private. not sure how to describe a lot of my thoughts and feelings about what i experienced.

so...for those newbies like me who wonder whether this all works--be patient. it's worth it. i am expecting newer and different horizons as i experience this regularly. as a newbie, if i could give frustrated newbies some advice:

be patient. enjoy what it is while it is.

let it happen. i feel like it is something new to learn that for me was foreign to my previous sexual experience. it doesn't feel like something that you do, it's something that you experience.

learn to respond to subtle things happening and they may just surprise you by becoming way more intense than expected. it's like sex for the first time in a new way. i look at myself as a student of the experience, not the teacher. it's not just jerking off, making my body do something. it only really happened for me when i gave up and gave in to it. don't work at it. play with it.

relax, relax, relax. putting something up my bum was new to me, so strange, even if i was willing. for me the one thing that still hurts is taking it out though. not nice no matter how much lube there is. i must have a really small anus is all i can say? soft rhythmic breathing and forgeting about my expectations seemed to be a key.

this has become pretty long but i could write about it all day and hourse later still feel it happening like echoes.

see ya.

at the risk of turning guys off i really want to write about the inner things that seem to be associated with this experience. i thought a lot yesterday about this. like all day. life possibley changed for me in real ways after my first experience with this thing. maybe it's just me, and maybe it's just about being a somewhat typical asshole male? i wanted to talk to someone and finally got the nerve up to talk to my life partner/wife about my experience. she was very understanding.

HEALING! Healing! Healing! this experience of being penetrated where i least wanted or expected it previously has seemed to open up emotional and psychological floodgates, uncomfortable memories from teenage sexual experience, the need to be in charge during sex all the time, the performance aspects of sexual experience, my inability to be "under" anyone, anger, my depressive nature--a lot of things, psychogical congestion, came up during and after the experience with the aneros and seemed to benignly start to dissipate. no wonder men so commonly get prostatic cancer! that thing seems loaded with more than just precum.

i have felt more tender, more open to my wife in many ways. this morning we made real love and i didn't even have to worry about cumming. just being there with her-- WITH HER ON TOP, and i know she knows i have hated that. so maybe this was on the way anyway, whoknows, but this experience has done more than just massage my prostate. i am a better person for the experience. i am not pretending that it's a solution to the world's problems, but it may well be a facilitator in the arena of men (who mostly happen to be in charge) becoming human in a broader sense. LOL! tender bastard that i am!!! dammit! who wouldn't want to not feel the ecstasy of getting there. i mean this lifted me off the planet for a while!!

i have begun to think of several friends i want to get one for. yeah right! their wives would thank me though...LOL! sure! stick it where?! but, all men might do themselves a favor and experience the other side of being male. and maybe there are a lot of men who have, but for me this facilitated a personal breakthrough.

sorry if what i wrote here is too squishy--thanks for reading this through of you did. i had to talk (--at times the internet does its job good).

see ya.

(OKOK so i'm writing too much! just an excited newbie whose found that i myself am my best new toy ever.)

a couple more things that were keys to my success so far:

keep those balls tucked down between your legs. playing with the tightness of my legs on them really helped bring it on and pushed me over the edge. not sure why? i was a little afraid to do it initially fearing that it would be uncomfortable or hurt, but that was not so. it felt great and immediately supercharged the process. pulled my dick up straight against my belly and pushed them down. whoosh!! i played on the edge it seems forever without NEEDING to do one thing or another. although the orgasm was more deeply powerful and felt than i had experienced, there seemed to be no rush nor the frantic need i always have to shoot off? i stopped and started without going nuts as i have in the past. i guess i just knew it was still there any time i wanted it--not done and over with--like it's not a pass/fail test like sex has always been. nothing to prove at all. i am still high!!

and the lube really made a difference. lots of it, even some inserted up my bum with a baby syringe. and while astroglide worked as did the sample stuff, good ol' KY jelly seemed thicker and more protective, plus gave me a longer time without having to add more lube.

and again RELAX, RELAX RELAX!!

and enjoy.

Art to me it sounds you are lucky or you are trying PROMOTE the product.

Art,

Congratulations!! What a tremendous experience! It was exciting reading your first several posts in particular; it really brought me back to the whole “breakthrough” experience. I can totally relate to your sense of excitement about sharing this with others as well. You feel like you want to tell the world, … right? It is this feeling that began and has since sustained my own participation in this forum. Yes, it is definitely life changing and empowering. It redefines things for you, and as you have learned, not only from a sensory perspective. It is such an intense physical (an almost metaphysical) experience that one naturally has a tendency to reflect and evaluate on life in general. It's funny, two years ago I was a married guy in my 40's that thought he knew it all; how fantastic it is to learn that life still has such surprises. Yes? The point is, it is all good and it only gets better! Stay open, and other things will reveal themselves to you as well.

If you are able to post to the area at the top of the forum MY FIRST SUPER ORGASM, I strongly encourage you to do so. If it's accessible, you could just paste your 8/13 comments in there.

I'm a little short on time today; otherwise I would gladly give your comments the more lengthy response that they deserve (more to follow). In the meantime once again I wanted to congratulate you and also thank you for posting and sharing. If I can be of assistance let me know (sounds like you’ve got a handle on it though)

Cheers,

B Mayfield

P.S. Just curious, exactly how much experience did you have with anal play going in to this?

hey rayvega,

i am just a stoopid schmuck like the next guy wonderin' a couple of days ago whether this was really true, going to work for me, etc. i had no idea what this was until last week. i am a true newbie. never played in my bum before with nothin'. don't know what half of all of the references are that some of these guys make. i am a true newbie to this type of exploration although open to it. i'm not a prude. just never felt prompted to do anything about it until i read some of these posts in the forum. you have to admit they are enticing?

i did go about it the wrong way at first. i know some of what not to do. i tried to DO something. i have realized that this is the way i have lived my life too, always trying to control the universe. i guess i am a fast learner, but i had to learn to give in and let things happen. i have thought a lot about this in the last two days. it honestly only works when i give up trying too hard. like i said, this is nothing like a good jerk-off session. i am not out to prove to myself or anyone that i'm a man or that i can shoot it to the cieling. it sounds flaccid (for lack of a better term) but i had to give that all up to experience what i experienced which is something new. i had to be really open. which is a tall order.

i can honestly say that i have been so content with what i now know--that i own myself, that pleasure ( i could say ecstasy) is endless and innate to me as a person, that cumming in order to be a real man for my wife wasn't important this morning. i was so interested in helping her to feel loved and so passive about wanting my blast-off. i finally just loved her without expectation. believe me i am a newbie at this too. i mean for me, if i didn't beleive that i'd get to make my big deposit eventually it was difficult to give freely. so--what does it mean to know that the deposit isn't necessary? that i'v e got as much as i'll ever want in the bank for whenever i want? it really changes things.

this thing taught me that i am one helluva sexy machine without even trying, whenever i want it. it's just there. it's me. so i get to rethink life a little now. i guess i am writing so much because it is a HUGE relief to let go.

hey, just enjoy whatever happens as it happens. i think that's the key. it really is cool just to be alone naked thinking about life, breathing, letting the stress go, i mean when was the last time i took the time to do that? so incidentally i've got this thing up my butt, yeah, so just be there wherever that is and it will happen for you. i think it's who we all are. i'm not any different than you. definitely not working for this company. i don't even know who they are.

relax and just do it.

Art, you seem to be lucky compared to others I have read here. I guess I have been lucky as well in that my experience has been similar to yours...pretty much successful out of the package in terms of the wild side. It also made a similar impression on me as far as my relationship with my wife and making love goes. I followed your story and then...nada...zip...big bang and then quiet.

In that I bought this thing for therapeutic reasons for my prostate, I was more than surprised by the dramatic pleasure response. Who created this tool anyway? In a way, it's kind of like Tantric training wheels. But this all seems rather personal as it was a very meaningful experience to me...the big healing you talk about. You seem to hint at that as just a few others do but then go on to splash your personal big bang experience here in a forum that seems to be on the less than personally psychospiritual side...and now nothing. You are silent.

For those wondering whether this is all real...of course it is, but there seem to be a couple of very different avenues to take. One leads to better explosive "SEX" and the other seems to lead to much more than that although including that. This forum here, and you, seem to mix the two together without much discernment. This is the internet afterall...I am sure that I couldn't discuss here what I have surprisingly experienced with this little piece of designer plastic. There obviously isn't a fitting forum for that discussion. I guess that's enough from me...just my 2 cents.

Take care,

FatAlbert

Originally Posted By: art
i was looking forward to it and it arrived today.

so, not as smart as i should be, i decided to try it out as soon as possible, in spite of the probability of interruptions. "hey! i am taking a nap. leave me alone." i did have almost an hour. !!!! i am still not knowing what to think !!!!!

interesting and uncomfortable putting something that far up my bum. no matter how slippery it was it didn't just slip in. i had to give it a little push. i guess i have a very tight rectum and anus? it felt normal enough and pretty good after a while. pleasant feeling. i just stayed still on my side for the first 10 minutes, then couldn't help it, i started strong contractions. dammit i wanted to make it work. overachiever type. so i tried it doggy, over the bedside, on my back, standing, walking, sitting and finally decided that on my back was the best with a pillow under my lower back so that i was arched just a bit. it really seemed to engage then. so i moved a bit. little thrusts. squeezed the cheeks, and then after about half an hour of feeling it in there--it started!! uncontrollable crazy pelvic movement! vibrations!! first small and then big, then the shakes! and what shakes they were! incredible! i was all over the place making a whole lot of noise! the bed was smashing around and couldn't have cared less about the neighbors or anyone hearing. i couldn't stop and something unbelievable was building. i slowed down and then stopped for bit, started again and got higher. i did this about 4 times each time going into wild convulsions that were unbelievabley intense. i kept thinking that i was going to cum big but nothing but some precum dripping. it was intense and getting more intense as i flopped and groaned putting my head under the pillow. i couldn't stop it. something seemed really too big to control. i just let go!!!!

just then the phone rang me into consciousness. i pulled it out. rinsed it off. cleaned up the mess. and there was a mess so i am glad for the towel. not a poo mess but liquid and lube. i am not sure what it was but there was even a clear odorless liquid that came from my bum? is that normal? at least a teaspoon of it which made a wet spot all the way through the towel. it couldn't have been the lube. i didn't use as much as came out. and it seemed to come out during one of my squeezing convulsions. i felt it happen.

so i am looking forward to a calmer time when there will be no phone and no one around when i can just let whatever happen to me. it seemed to happen more and more as i let go into it, let my body take over.

strange sensations about connection to the universe if that makes sense. a different kind of sensation that left me feeling empty and cleaned out--even if i didn't have the big "O". it left me feeling sexy and happy. kinda silly. i am feeling really light and strange after all of that and anticipating another session as soon as possible.

i'll be posting about it if it is interesting. i think this could be habit forming?

see ya.

Something similar to your experience happened to me. I don't really think
I had an orgasm but after writhing around and getting the most out of the great feeling the aneros gives you while its up your bum I felt my prostate starting to convulse but I didn't think it was an orgasm.
That happened about twice and when I took out the aneros some kind of a fluid came with it. A little viscous and clear with not much of an odor.
That never happened to me before. It sounds very similar to the fluid that came out your bum. At first I thought I had some kind of a "reverse orgasm". After searching this website I found your article and so I didn't feel alone in this experience. Can you tell me more about youur experience and if you ever really had an orgasm with the aneros and no hand to penis stimulation?