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Novice60
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I’m less than a week in with a Peridise and have a question on what I’m experiencing.  I’ve done kegels often in the past, so use to some anal and prostate pleasures, primarily the voluntary waves I can feel after extended kegals.  After less than a week with the Peridise devices I’m experiencing even more, but not sure what to call it, or expect going forward in the future.  

I usually start with voluntary kegels after inserting the larger Peridise.  It feels good, with pleasurable sensation coming first in my anal opening, then up in the cavity.  Today I relaxed in my home office for the first hour, on a video conference and doing work emails.  After that I lay down on the floor for 30 minutes on my back, knees up and started some Kegels again.  Quickly I started feeling these waves of pleasurable sensations, starting at my anal opening and then pushing slowly inside me up to my prostate.  After several minutes the waves became more involuntary and I didn’t need to focus on Kegels, just the waves of pleasure.  This built up over 30 minutes, at times my body responding by either arching my pelvis or tightening muscles.  My penis got very hard during this and then my nipples.  My nipples have always been wired to my penis, but now felt tied to my ass and prostate and after diddling them the waves pulsed even more, a continual pattern from the anal opening up to my swelling prostate.  While it felt like my prostate might explode, plus my cock head felt like it could also explode, I never did.  The waves came more frequent and stronger in pleasurable sensations.  My whole body was tensing as though i was going to have an explosive orgasms, but that never happened. 

After 30 minutes I was disturbed by a phone call.  Once back to riding my Peridise (I love that term ‘riding’), I sat in my office chair and leaning back as my ass was literally riding the Peridise and within minutes I was pulsing waves of pleasure inside my ass and my prostate was throbbing slighlty.  Maybe another 10-15 minutes of pleasure waves, but not big orgasms.

My question is what is this,mini-orgasms, just enjoyable p-waves or ??  I’m so horny to try more tonight and going to use the smaller Peridise possibly overnight (which I did last night to similar but not as intense pleasure waves).  Orgasm or not these anal pleasure waves are amazing, and such intense sensations.  But not sure if I’m just to enjoy them and should I be trying to push to bigger waves, and super O’s or what.  

I welcome some mentoring on this.  
Thanks,

 

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Posted by: @novice60

My question is what is this, mini-orgasms, just enjoyable p-waves or ?? ...  Orgasm or not these anal pleasure waves are amazing, and such intense sensations.  But not sure if I’m just to enjoy them and should I be trying to push to bigger waves, and super O’s or what.

Welcome to your brave new world of expanded sensual awareness hosted by your Aneros devices. The experiences you are describing are, IMHO, pretty common for open minded men exploring their sensuality/sexuality. I think you are awakening aspects of your pleasure potentiality you have not been aware of heretofore.

"...trying to push to..." something more is likely to be a fruitless endeavor leading to frustration and/or 'dud' sessions (please see "Just Let Go !"), whereas allowing your body to be your guide as you employ complimentary practices is more likely to produce pleasure/orgasms.

IMHO, orgasms exist along a continuum of combined physical and psychological states of being. P-waves, mini-O's, traditional O's, prostate O's all the way to Super-O's and perhaps beyond. As I proposed in my thread What's an Orgasm?, where you draw the distinctions between any two 'labeled' experiences is totally arbitrary and unique for you. In the final analysis does it really matter?

Good Vibes to You!


   
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Yes I agree with everything @rumel Said.

I think what an orgasm actually is will change for you as you move forward, because you will create your new definition.

you are very fortunate to have so many sensations in your first sessions. If you read this forum a lot you will see that it is not always the case.

Going forward I recommend separating this activity from your work (unless you’re a sex worker??). Time spent with the toy should be time fully concentrated on the sensations, preferably naked or dressed in a very comfortable way allowing for your hands to caress yourself, and in an arousing environment (eg a bed). There should be no distraction of work and definitely no possibility of phone calls cutting into sessions. I personally only insert my toy in these conditions, and I turn my phone off.

Since kegels seem to work for your, i recommend trying what worked for me early on. It is a combination of enjoying the sensations light kegels bring me and pushing my kegels further. However pushing the kegels further doesnt mean squeezing tighter. It means fine tuning the combination of contradictory pc muscle tension until I find the spot that feels good, using the tug of war method. I recommend reading it and applying it (I will post it below). You can try squeezing tighter and tighter with brute force but you will probably find, as many of us do, that that kills sensation.


   
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Here is the tug of war method:

https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/quick-and-dirty-path-to-the-super-o

I recommend reading the forum a lot, and not being fixated on one single method. Because there isn’t one single goal, except pleasure.


   
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@rumel and @devine_oblivion, thank you both for your advice.  I may be just FYI to push my progress too quickly, but the Peridise(s) felt so good!  

Last night as an example, I went to bed with the small Peridise in and used some active kegels at first and then tried to relax and just enjoy the sensations.  There were involuntary waves of increasing pleasure over the first 45 minutes until both my penis and nipples were hard and tingling with similar feeling I have right before ejaculating.  My anal cavity was pulsing slightly in pleasure waves up to my prostate, the pleasure up to the tip of my penis was like I wanted to explode, but never progressed.  It was a wonderful, pleasurable experience, but did feel like I should have had either stronger prostate or anal waves or spasms at the end, but I didn’t.  Several time during the night I woke up to similar experienced, but never peaked.  I even leaked precut in one of those times I woke up (and I never produce precum).

I tried to just relax and enjoy to sensations, the involuntary, internal anal squeezes.  As long as I’m going the right direction in my early days, I’ll continue with current approach.  Just hoping I get more of a release because these anal and prostate sensations are still buzzing about this morning without the device inside me.  It’s like I’m in a constant state of partial arousal, but full horniness.  I feel like there should be a release, but as long as I’m just in retiring process and going toward the right direction.  
thanks again for your great advice,

 


   
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