My last session. I put the progasm in. After the first 5 minutes, I felt like I was pre-cumming, but I did not see anything come out.
After the next 10 minutes, I had a "build up". It is hard to describe. It basically felt as if my lower stomach and rectum were warm. But it was not pleasurable, nor was it painful, so I did not mind it. It just had a warm feeling to it. But my penis felt as if it was being gently stroked. You know that feeling you get when you masturbate, you can feel the some feelings along the shaft of the penis. This is how I felt. Those feelings were not intense but it did feel like there was an invisible hand gently holding my penis.
After a few more minutes it felt as if there was some kind of "build up". It was as if the progasm got larger, or something, and expanded in me. I was able to feel more of the progasm. The feeling around my penis also intensified by a lot. But then it went away.
Is this a good sign to progress? And also, why did I not precum?
Sounds good. That's pretty much what I feel before I orgasm.
I would try making sure you concentrate on that feeling in the penis and hold on to it, breathe into it, build it, don't let it slip away and you will probably orgasm.
I only get precum when I orgasm, but even then not always.
yes, this sounds quite good. enjoy what you felt, and try to stay as relaxed down there as possible. let your mind wander.
darwin
Do I cum when I orgasm like that? And is the orgasm more intense?
No, you shouldn't ejaculate. I'm not sure if everyone is the same, but for me very often the trigger to actually orgasm is a feeling in the penis or balls, and sometimes I can transfer the sexual energy there if I want to trigger an orgasm (doesn't always work, they are fickle things). I also find perineal pressure helps as a trigger, but not everyone does. Nipple stimulation is also very popular.
As for the actual orgasm they vary a lot and it can be WAY more intense and very different to a traditional wet orgasm, and they can last much longer. You may have one that is very intense or it may not be, with time you learn how to 'grow' an orgasm and build the intensity with concentration and breathing very much like a meditation. The thing is to just enjoy what you get and relax about it, everyone finds their own way and is very individual.
Today I used the aneros and had a different experience. As last time, the warm feeling in the lower stomach were the same as before. But that itself was not pleasurable. This time, however, I had a different sensation. I would feel the progasm inside of me. And the feeling originated from the tip and went done along the shaft of the progasm. So it felt as if the progasm was slipping out but it was not, and after a few seconds, I was able to feel the full progasm inside of me. I would not say that this feeling was pleasurable, but I did not mind it, and it was a little enjoyable.
The pleasurable part was something else I did not experience before. When I had the "fullness" feeling of the whole progasm, it involuntary contracted in a thrust motion. As it moved back and forth, I was able to feel it move inside of me, and when it came back it, I felt something quite pleasurable.
The pleasure was felt inside my anus. And I wanted to experience this thrust pleasure again. But unfortunately, after that single one thrust, I did not feel anything like that afterwards.
Again, all sounds good. I still think you need to learn how to hold on to hold the feelings. They do come and go to start with as things build remember it's all in the mind, if you get a pleasant feeling even if it disappears try to look for it again. Difficult to explain: once you get it you will be able to do it again.