22m/gay here, and I have a fair amount of experience with receptive anal intercourse, but I haven't done that in about a year.
I recently bought the progasm, wanting to experiment with it, but in my roughly half an hour of using it, the blessed thing refuses to stay in properly. It may be that my rectum is oddly shaped, but the device shifts itself backwards, so the k-tab is hanging about an inch away from the skin, and the p-tab is jammed up against the taint. The device will only go in a bit over halfway, and then it won't go any further without manual coercion.
If I let go, it will pop out halfway, with the initial knob still inside.
I have double checked that I am inserting it correctly, and I am. It got to the point where I gave up and just jerked off, and once I let go of it, it just popped out completely of it's own accord during orgasm.
I am willing to keep trying, but if it won't stay in, it sorta defeats the purpose a little.
You're not the only one. I've tried the progasm, but it won't stay in. Much prefer the Helix or the Eupho.
When you first put the pro in, make sure you put it all the way in and it should not fall out
Agree with bandit - make sure it is in all the way. Had the same experience initially as it would slide out. As things progressed and I developed better control I could feel the Progasm "hook" itself into place. Now it does a number on me!
When I first got the progasm I had the same problem...took a couple sessions to realize I wasn't inserting it all the way. I find that inserting it in a "scooping" motion works best. Basically insert the front part until the bend, then "scoop" it in the rest of the way.
@thejojopatch, developing anal muscle strength is helpful for mastering use of the Progasm. I have found that the Kegel Exercises very helpful for developing anal muscle strength, both with and without the Progasm.
Here is a regimen of Kegel Exercises that I developed for myself in August 2016 which spurred me on to my first bonafide Super-O's and MMO's a month later:
https://community.aneros.com/community/for...lly-with-aless
Also I commend for your perusal and study @GGringo's Kegel regimen:
https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/kegel-workouts
Cheers!
Thanks all, I'll keep trying! It's definitely worth doing, and it's not like it didn't feel amazing too
@thejojopatch, I believe you will succeed quickly with Progasm! 😉
@thejojopatch I had the same issue with the ProJr. I eventually discovered that by making sure my rectum was completely empty helped it to stay-in. Yes, it is a bit tricky to insert but that "scooping" maneuver recommended by @logik does work. Good luck to you!
Most of the time I could use it as a tow hook.