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Involuntary muscle clenching getting in the way?


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(@jim_malone_1234)
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Ok. So, in my journeys I've found that for me, the way the experience feels the best, is now when I squeeze or contract, but when I find a good sensation as a specific contraction level and then just hold that. So, I start contracting my muscles, squeezing them a tiny fraction more than I was. VERY slowly increasing the contraction until I hit a point where it feels really good. Then I just stop there, concentrate on the pleasurable feelings and let that just wash over me.

Ok, I've been having this problem, where I'm trying to hold a contraction, and my muscles keep having involuntary contractions which keep throwing me out of the spot where I'm feeling really good. They don't feel bad, but they don't particularly feel more pleasurable. The only way I can think to describe it is like someone holding you by the shoulders and shaking you as you're trying to draw a picture. You know what you want to do, it's just that this shaking is preventing you from getting it done.

Does this happen to anyone else? Any thoughts?


   
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i find something similar actually but its different in one regard... i find that when i find the 'spot' and the pleasure rises my penis becomes so super erect that all my insides swell and muscles tighten in the same way as yours seem to.

I find this causes me to no longer know where the point is and where the contraction needs to be held. The ONLY thing that works is to relax as much as possible when this happens. Then repeat the process.
Perhaps you should try this too. One of my best sessions is as a result of doing this and is very close to the 'quick and dirty path to the super o' guides aka the 'Tug O War' its a sort of contract then release motion that even when done slowly gets a great sort of 'release' feeling and building to 'something'


   
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Yes, it is that involuntary muscle clenching that brings me to orgasm and I can't get there if it doesn't happen. Do you let the involuntaries continue and wait to see what they lead to, or do you make them stop and start over again?


   
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Yes, it is that involuntary muscle clenching that brings me to orgasm and I can't get there if it doesn't happen.

That clench stops orgasm and for me also stops the entire session dead quite often.


   
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Hi. There is the other thing too that is the tightening of the abdomen muscles as a kind of pushing out...the opposite of contracting. If you do find that special contraction level and hold your breath to push out , hold for a few seconds and while holding the "push out" feeling, very gentle tweak the contraction. I find that this increases the pleasure waves and also hardend my penis. Also, involuntary contractions, like ejaculation pulses occur and are really super. Keep on the path.


   
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