I am a first time user of the Aneros and I'm pretty experienced in anal play. However, I have read the forums and all the sticky's, and I can't even achieve involuntary dry orgams so to speak.
I have the helix and the progasm, and have stuck to the helix because it's for a novice, but still not one involuntary "dry" orgasm yet, or even a wave.
Anyone have any ideas?
Yes, try adding to your diet fish oil, dark chocolate, and ginko biloba. Forget about 'normal' sex or anal play as Aneros use is different and much more seemingly passive. It will take time to get used to this passive approach and initial feeling. Do not be orgasm target driven. Be patient, relax and experience / learn your growing feelings and sensations.
excellent advice, OH. To it I would add try to go without a traditional orgasm for a few days, and also to try a position of kneeling, with your arms and head resting on a bed. I would also try visualizing your prostate as an upside down bird flying inside your abdomen.
Ok I'll try those and see what happens thanks.