Introductory resources for prostate play?

Does anyone have simpler resources? That is, resources for the "common man", not necessarily hetero, which present prostate play without too much technical terminology, in a concise 10 minute maximum read? This would not be a guide for how to use the toy, but more of a hook to convince the reader that they do want to learn more, that they want to spend 2 hours studying the wiki page.

I'm afraid moving prostate massage out of the taboo, niche sexual fetish activity realm into mainstream human sexual practices is a long slow process but people like you and the other members of this Forum are making small incremental progress in changing the world view of this healthful practice, so kudos to you!

For what it's worth, years ago I authored the thread Ideas for Spreading the Word... as a location for members thoughts about disseminating information about Aneros usage and demystifying anal/prostate play. Perhaps you'll get some ideas from reading that thread. More recently I added a Blog entry (Rumel's Ruminations - Part V) with URL links to various resources I've found helpful and interesting in my Aneros Journey. Perhaps you will also find some of those resources helpful as references as well.
Good Vibes to You !

@rumel I should know by now that it isn’t possible to re-invent the wheel on this forum! Thanks for that thread full of interesting ideas (i only have read a few pages so far). It is disheartening to hear that the few people who have preached prostate play (I call it prost-elytizing) have had as little luck as I do. But it makes sense. Actually one thing I have learned from my preaching is that most people just don’t really care that much about sex. The fear of anal play is a major issue for straight men, but there is also just the issue that few care to put aside 2 hours of their time, even once a week. Most people are just happy with simple sex— penetration, orgasm, basta. The gay men I told about prostate orgasms were put off by the effort/time, not by the the anal penetration aspect (though I learned through my conversations that some tops in the gay community can have as much aversion to being penetrated as hetero men).

And that is of course fine, though I truly think the world would be a better place if all men knew the joys of anal penetration. I think men would become much more aware of consent if they understood the implications of being penetrated and the inherent vulnerability involved. And as this practice opens up our bodies’ erogenous zones, men can learn a lot about how to please their partners via their newfound pleasures. For example, I had never heard of nipple orgasms before, and now nipple orgasms are commonplace in my partner play, for me and my partner. Because I learned how to have them, and thus how to give them. In short, this practice turns men into better and more compassionate lovers. And also most people love seeing their partner react to stimuli. How often I have talked to women who complain about how simple and boring the sexual palette is for men. That is, penis=pleasure, and don’t bother with the rest.

i like the idea of aneros stores that was brought up. Did it ever happen? also great commercial ideas! If I were a film maker I would gladly make one. And if there were ever opportunities to sponsor aneros in my neighborhood I would gladly volunteer. (Again I haven’t read all of the two links you sent me yet... maybe I'll find something in them?)

I also am starting to think that aneros might stay a fringe practice for a long time. Even if men start accepting anal penetration (which doesn’t seem like it will happen soon) the dedication required for prostate play, as well as a desire to attain a higher state of sexual pleasure, seem like the greatest hurdles. I think the amount of time necessary is probably much less for men who are already familiar with the vast spectrum of non-penetrative sex, like everything from body/sensory exploration to tantric practices to BDSM. But those are also fringe practices which require tons of time as well.

I am rambling here but these are topics I think a lot about. I even wrote a short essay on the matter that I tried to get published... to no avail! I should probably give up hope and spend my effort on my own bettering (butt-ering).

@divine_oblivion You are right about that most people don’t care that much about sex or is satisfied with the sexlife they have. Straight guys are afraid of analplay (most of them, I actually have one friend that admits he loves it). But I think the time to read and the fact that you have to use it 2-3 times a week for several month before you get anything from it is the first reason to not start with it. If i havn’t been this stubborn for over 2 years now we hadn’t been here today. My husband said in the beginning: nothing will go in there and now he loves it (still doesn’t use it on his own because lack of time and satisfied the way it is and he still doesn’t put it in or take it out or clean it himself). He doesn’t want to read about it, I have printed out hundreds of papers about it and showed him this forum.
Something short and with comic just to catch their interest would be good to start with, if they get interested enough they will read more about it i think. ( There must be someone here at the forum who works with such things so we could spread the word to the rest of the world in an easy way).
And yes I’m sure the world would certenly be a better place if moore men learn about prostate play.

The stubborn wife