Intercourses using aneros

Hi and welcome to the forum!

You don’t state if you have been using the toys on your own, without your partner. By using the toy exclusively with a partner you certainly will feel exciting sensations and have the results that you stated above.  But by using it alone, you can learn so much about your body that you can then bring to the bedroom with your partner in exciting ways.  Thus all of the techniques I might refer to you require a solid basis of prostate awareness and rewiring, garnered through regular solo use.  For example, use the prostate massager while your partner gently touches your body all over, bringing you to dry orgasm after dry orgasm.  Or do aless steadily and almost unconsciously while with your partner. Or transfer things you've learned to your partner, such as slow sex and sensoriel play.

So while I wouldn’t say don’t use it in the bedroom for now, I highly recommend a few months of biweekly solo sessions using the advice presented on the Wikipedia page and on this forum. And you might find, as I do and as many others do, that this regular use and accompanying progress leads to an enhanced sexuality, with stronger erections, stronger orgasms and stronger sensations in general, even when you don’t use the toy.