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01/02/2018 12:06 pm
'I'm Jealous of what that guy just experienced!'
'I wish I could cum when I use my Helix like that dude!'
'Holy crap, that guy is talking about out of body experiences and I can't even get a dry orgasm!'
'My dry orgasms are great, but NOTHING like the full-body convulsions and screaming like that guy wrote about!'
have any of these thoughts, or similiar, entered your mind while reading about the Aneros Journey of another man? I have to admit, I have thought these things, both online and in the middle of a session. While it is natural to compare, I need to remind you all (and myself in the process) that comparing is NOT HEALTHY NOR PRODUCTIVE for your pleasure, your journey, your life.
not comparing yourself to other men is very difficult, as we do it all the time: a guy may have more money, be better-looking, have a fitter body, longer penis, etc. Aneros stories are no exception. Especially if you are new to this sort of stimulation, you may become quickly discouraged if you start comparing your journey with another man. He may get hands-free wet orgasms that you desire to have, he may get full-body convulsing bliss that you have waited SO LONG to experience, he may have wave after wave of pelvis-crushing dry orgasms the minute he lays down for a session.
I know this can be frustrating at first. Heck, even after months or years, you may be very frustrated with the 'level' of pleasure you are experiencing. How could you not be disappointed? So many men are reaching levels of pleasure they can't even explain properly, and you are stuck at a pleasure plateau. Sure, it feels good, but you want it to feel BETTER!
Please... just take a breath. Know in some way, that we ALL have wanted more pleasure, different experiences. But for the vast majority of us, this journey takes a long time.
Regardless of where you are in your journey, every time you use an aneros you are
-massaging your prostate, which is pleasureful and releases stagnant fluids. Prostate massage is HEALTHY for you
-exploring your body in new and exciting ways. The anus, prostate, rectum are pleasure 'Easter eggs' that many men will never have the comfort or interest to explore. You already are so far ahead of the pleasure/orgasm curve just by pleasuring these areas!! Bravo!!
-connecting unseen pleasure pathways in your mind and body that are growing and changing even when you can't feel it happening. When you work out, your muscles grow when you rest and eat, not when you lift weights. Similarly, when you don't have an aneros session, your body is reacting to the 'what the eff just happened' from your previous session. Make sure you are resting enough between sessions so you don't burn out. I can tell you firsthand, this advice will help you immensely.
Please
ENJOY using your aneros. I can guarantee you experience things other guys have not achieved yet, even though you may feel like nothing is happening.
Will you have a Super-O ? Will you have a hands free wet orgasm? Will you leave your body, shake uncontrollably, have endless waves of mind-numbing dry orgasms?
I don't know. I cannot promise what you will feel because your body, your wonderful, beautiful male body is different than any other guy's. That's right, you are BEAUTIFUL. You are uniquely 'wired' and while similar pleasures may be experienced by all men, you will feel something that NONE of us will ever be able to, because your brain and body are different than any other man's. Embrace that! Celebrate that! When you feel a sensation, no matter how small, be thankful for that! You are a miracle, and what you feel is FN INCREDIBLE!!!!!
It really is.
So keep at it, keep enjoying, lose all expectations based on another guy's experiences, rest enough, share your wonderful sensations with the rest of us, as the guys on this site are sincerely cheering you on.
Love!
Rob
01/02/2018 1:12 pm
[USER="57195"]RoJackSYN[/USER] , 
I completely agree with you on the need to let go of expectations, jealousy, envy and competitive/comparing. They are traps which will only serve to stifle each man's unique experiences. Well said!
Good Vibes to You ! 
01/02/2018 1:21 pm
One of the best pieces of advice I got from a fellow journeyer was to "enjoy what you are given and not be discouraged by what doesn't come your way." I pass that along to guys who ask for advice from me. After being at this for more than 11 years, I'm always grateful for what does come my way. I focus on the good that is happening and not what I think is supposed to happen.
Well put thoughts, RoJackSYN.
01/02/2018 1:31 pm
A wonderful digression and a hearty "road-map" for all of us in the New Year!!
01/02/2018 2:33 pm
Amen!
01/02/2018 2:49 pm
When your lying at the top of a water slide you tell your self its going to be fun there is a pool of water waiting for me.Its the same when you feel a super O coming,you just need to "let go".
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01/02/2018 2:51 pm
When your lying at the top of a water slide you tell your self its going to be fun there is a pool of water waiting for me.Its the same when you feel a super O coming,you just need to "let go".
wheeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!
01/02/2018 3:01 pm
Plus OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHMMMMMMMMMMMYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYGOODNESS!!!!!!!!!!!
01/03/2018 10:22 am
Nicely said. Just sit back and enjoy the journey
02/22/2018 9:45 am
When you're lying at the top of a water slide, you tell yourself, it's going to be fun, there is a pool of water waiting for me. It's the same when you feel a super O coming, you just need to "let go".
Best description! That's the way it is!
Find back to your childlike curiosity and open anticipation and embrace what's coming.
Cause the best is yet to come! Yeehaaw! 😀
02/22/2018 10:59 am
I’ve never thought too deep about it, but this is a lesson on how life works. Even comparing your own aneros sessions with each other can be counter-productive. “Last time I did X and got a super-o and this time I didn’t, what’s wrong?” There’s something to “letting it come to you” that applies to many areas of life.
02/22/2018 12:40 pm
Very well written piece of sound advice! I would certainly have to agree on the getting rest part. For myself, I have recently (within the last 7 months)passed the hit or miss stage and hit about 98% of the time. I started my journey 11 years ago and I wish I knew then what I know now. I started having problems sleeping this past year, have some funky work hours, and can't sleep on my back anymore. About 7 months ago a friend recommended to me to start taking Melatonin to help me sleep. I found that 150 MCG was just right for me, not to tired when I woke up, and with much more energy and focus. About a week later I had time for a session and chose the 2nd smallest of the Peridise line. Things started to happen right away (they most always do) and I kept waiting for them to start to fade, but didn't happen this time. I had excellent focus on where the Peridise was touching on my prostate and it just kept getting stronger/better! I was awake and focused yet relaxed, in a way I couldn't ever remember myself being in! I started to just shudder in orgasmic pleasure! My whole core was alight in orgasm! I had orgasmic feelings all the way from the root of the beginning(my prostate) to the top of my head! Pure pleasure! I could vary the strength just by focusing and relaxing into it! I enjoyed the state for 20 + minutes! I let it go but felt and knew that I could bring it back if I wanted to. I was so satisfied and mellow in the afterglow, I didn't have the want to do so.
That was just the start! It's been progressively getting longer and stronger each time with an average of 2 sessions a week. I can say that the Melatonin is definitely a contributing factor as I ran out for 2 weeks and my focus on my sessions suffered from it. It hasn't mattered what massager I've used either(I have most of the old line, none of the Tridents). Some of the line, ARE more intense, some aren't, but ALL that I have used (since starting the Melatonin) have taken me to orgasmic heights of one level or another. Maybe it really is something as simple as sleep. I know for my own self that the high speed, fast paced world can and most often does, take it's toll on my and my wife's, down/pleasurable time. Hope this can help someone else.
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