I'm bringing hope to Newbies and Beginners! I just had my first Super O 3 years in!

[USER="39719"]kmal1128[/USER], congratulations on your first Super-O after three years in your Aneros journey! I too experienced my first Super-O three years into my Aneros journey on the morning of July 4, 2015. At the time, it seemed subtle, but the pleasure expanded many fold for the rest of the day. I began my journey with Helix Syn, early Sunday evening June 3, 2012. I too like Progasm Classic!

I can't seem to calm myself down during the shakes, how did you do that? I end up TRYING to stop them and that seems to have a negative effect.

@kmall, congratulations on your first Super-O! Great post; this gives hope and something to look forward to to everyone who have not achieved the gran-stage (including me).Persistance does pay off. Thanks for sharing.

Congratulations, I wish I could get it too (strong multiple orgasms would be fine for me too) 🙂

So whats your advice for those that are a decade or more in? harder to remain as optimistic as you when they have had 3 times the journey, wouldnt you say?

Yes, just as The_Fury said, I've been on my journey for almost a decade. The most I've gotten are possibly light P-waves. Not even weed enhances the sensations. It may be My Low Testosterone, it may be my stress, it may be my weight, it may be my own mind but SOMETHING is holding me back...

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Hello All, I wanted to address each one of your posts with discussing the major events of my journey and offer the best advice I can offer to help you.

1. Listen to Fiona Clearwater Hands Free Orgasm Hypnosis video on youtube.
- I offer this advice as I definitely think this really helped me get in tune with my body and mind increasing the pleasure that is created from her words and your own imagination. For this to work though you really have to give in to it and believe that you're feeling the pleasure that she is saying you're feeling. This I found really helped the rewiring process for me.

2. Embrace your Feminine Side
- Now what do I mean by this. Well for us guys, especially if you're a straight guy like myself this could be damaging to your ego to get in touch with your feelings and your body, but I think it is a necessity in order to achieve a Super O. I mean obviously that's probably not true for everybody, but for me I think it really helped. How I did this was approach my aneros sessions with a completely different mentality than sex or jerking off. As a male sex is a usually about accomplishing a mission of reaching a powerful orgasm release that we know will come if we are aggressive.

Women on the other hand usually need to be in the right mood to achieve orgasm, they need to feel safe with their partner, and they know whenever they have sex or masturbate that there isn't an ejaculation orgasm that will come for them. Therefore, for them to achieve a really powerful orgasm their body and mind usually needs to be in sync. A women's pleasure is also longer in duration than a man's and builds until it plateaus and leaves them in some lucky women several seconds of full body pleasure.
I will never have a vagina or clitoris to know truly what its like to have a female orgasm. However, my goal when I got an Aneros was to get as close as possible to the pleasure i get to see first hand exude from my girlfriend when she cums.

Therefore, I thought the best way to duplicate a woman's orgasm with aneros was to put my mind in the mindset of a woman when she is having sex. I take a nice shower, I light candles and put myself in a good relaxed mood. I also only do sessions when nothing is stressing me out or when I have a short time window. It's really important your mind isn't focused on other things except the pleasure you're going to feel. I also think another important step to embracing my feminine side is to look at myself in the mirror and feel sexy. I have always had a huge turn on for thongs and so I'll put on my girlfriend's thong and imagine I am her in the mirror about to have the best orgasm I have ever had. Once I am ready to go I lay on my bed and just relax let the progasm in my case do it's thing, with subtle helps by me flexing my butt muscles. When the pleasure starts to build I start imagining it's not my butt that is creating this pleasure, but that I am my girlfriend when she rides me and that my ass is her ass and it's amazing how much that helps add more pleasure. I swear sometimes your brain is the biggest obstacle to obtaining pleasure and also the biggest assistant if you can train it right. In order to put myself in the head of my girlfriend I have also tried to mimic her riding movements by acting like I'm bouncing up and down on me. This won't probably create an orgasm, but what it will do is trick your mind into thinking of orgasms that don't come from thrusting and jerking a penis, but from something else creating the pleasure in you and you're along for the ride. A really important thing though about this part is that you can't feel bad for embracing this feminine side of yourself. When the pleasure is happening I moan and make whatever sound feels like exuding out of me as why should I be embarrassed since nobody else is there. I also announce aloud to myself that I'm about to cum and then when it fully kicks in I proudly exclaim that I'm cumming!! I may be crazy, but being this free I swear also helps increase the pleasure because I think as close as we can get to being like women during sex when using the aneros is the closer we will all get to achieving regular Super O's.

3. Always try new techniques, times of day, positions, and new models.
-I have never had a session with my Aneros toys where i have stayed in the same position or haven't changed things a slight bit. I started off my journey for a year with the progasm jr and then in the last year I have switched full time to the progasm red ice as I feel it is the closest thing I could simulate to what a penis is like inside a woman. In terms of not shaking or convulsing I honestly don't have tips to avoid that if your body is forcing it, but I think if you approach it more from a female approach to sex then I think your body shaking might not happen as violently. When I'm getting the pleasure I feel like I am the woman and the toy is not a guy, but a presence that wants to make me feel amazing. If you are aggressive and try to conquest an anal orgasm it will not result in a Super O in my opinion as I have never had powerful orgasms with that approach. When I had my Super O the other day one thing I observed with the pleasure when the Super O was happening was that I had a choice to let it fully wash over me or stop it. The closest thing I could relate it to was deciding to go down the big drop of a roller coaster or deciding at the last second it's too much for me. There is a pleasure plateau where I honestly felt I was going to explode and I didn't know if I could handle that much pleasure at once, but I was like screw it and I got over the big wave and it then enveloped my whole body for probably 20 to 40 seconds. My advice then is when you feel like you're reaching that point of no return just embrace it and don't fight for it, but let it flow through you. This again is where I point out the difference between a male orgasm and a female orgasm. Women are used to this as their orgasms have always worked like this, but for us guys it's not a choice when we get to the point of no return, but a mandatory release that is needed or else. Therefore, approaching a Super O with aneros to a Super Orgasm in a woman is my best piece of advice.

I hope this has helped!

[USER="39719"]kmal1128[/USER]
I don't want to sound negative but I always tend to...

As far as #1 goes, I do appreciate you trying to give advice for me but... most erotic hypnosis videos are generally made by women. Now I'm not saying I can't still enjoy it; but as a gay male it's just a little... off. Like imagine if the video was by a male for you straight men. Wouldn't be as into it I'd assume. That fact makes it a bit more difficult to fully get submerged into the hypnosis.

I don't think I have much problem with #2. I guess as a gay, I'm more in touch with my feminine side than most straight men?

#3... Good lord #3... It's been 9 years. I have the MGX, Peridise, Progasm, PS-New, Helix, DeVice. I have 3 Butt plugs of different sizes. The NJoy Pure Wand, a Vibrating Bullet, a Electrastim E-Stim anal probe. I think I have models covered. I've tried all sorts of techniques. Breathing techniques. Do Nothing, 25%PC hold, 50% PC Hold, Light Kegels, Hard Kegels. It just doesn't feel like anything. It's just a void of nothingness. Not uncomfortable, not pleasurable. Just...there. Vibrations feel "good" but... it's vibrations. After a few minutes of vibrations, I'm numb and it's not enjoyable. It seriously feels like I'm being trolled. Like someone saying rubbing on your earlobes will cause you to cum for 15 minutes, and everyone else is posting of their success but I'm sitting here confused and jealous.

[USER="39719"]kmal1128[/USER] , you touched on several points I experienced over time and you have put them in an order that brings it home. Some of these thoughts were brief in my sessions but from now on, I will have to pay more attention.

Thank you.

[USER="39719"]kmal1128[/USER] and other respondents in this thread,

I believe guys in sexual relationship with understanding and loving partners have an advantage over non-attached men as myself. Because they have a companion who enter into the experience of an Aneros user. What do you all think? [USER="39719"]kmal1128[/USER], you are speaking out of your experience as a straight man. As aging confirmed bachelor who happens to be gay, I try to enter into your experience which you have described. However you provide insights of the Aneros experience especially your achieving your first Super-O through the Progasm (which I love). These insights are universal and beneficial.

Any progress for anyone is encouraging and exciting to hear. The Aneros, and other devices/toys, are tools that only help to generate sensations that the mind can recognize. The mind must embrace those sensations as pleasurable then willfully amplify them to the point of unbridled ecstasy. If the mind is unwilling or unable to fully engage in this focused self sex then little or nothing will occur.