Hey, I'm the new guy in town who has a few questions.
1) What does prostate stimulation feel like? I just ordered mine recently and am super excited to try it out when it arrives.
2) What does a prostate-O feel like? I heard that it's way more intense than a traditional penile orgasm.
3) Is it true that a male can have multiple orgasms from his prostate?
4) How do I insert the aneros if my butthole is too tight? I'm afraid there might be pain since my butthole is super tight.
5) And last but not least... is EVERY male capable of having the earth-shattering prostate-O?
Please help me out. I'm an 18 year old guy who is trying to learn as much as possible!
Hey, I'm the new guy in town who has a few questions.Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers.1) What does prostate stimulation feel like? I just ordered mine recently and am super excited to try it out when it arrives.That's great to be excited, curious and adventurous but understand this, it is difficult to describe the pleasurable feelings associated with prostate massage, it is a bit like trying to describe the flavor of chocolate to someone, the best way is to experience it for yourself, as you will. The experience is unique for every man and though you will read about a great variety of different feelings described by members of this community, know this, your journey will be your own so please do not try to make your experiences correspond with others. Allow yourself the freedom to have your individual experience. 2) What does a prostate-O feel like? I heard that it's way more intense than a traditional penile orgasm.Intensity of experience is very dependent on one's mind set at the time. Some prostate O's will be more intense than a typical penile based ejaculatory orgasm but they are also qualitatively different so it is a bit like comparing apples and oranges.3) Is it true that a male can have multiple orgasms from his prostate?YES, it is true when they are dry-O's, for most men once you have an ejaculation (wet-O) the male refractory period sets in and subsequent orgasms stop.4) How do I insert the aneros if my butthole is too tight? I'm afraid there might be pain since my butthole is super tight.Use plenty of lubrication, more than you think is enough and then some more, learn to relax your anus, go s-l-o-w-l-y. Initial insertion attempts may be psychologically discomforting but there should never be actual physical pain, if there is pain, STOP and resolve any issues that may be causing it. By all means please thoroughly read the Getting Started section of the Aneros WIKI.
5) And last but not least... is EVERY male capable of having the earth-shattering prostate-O?IMHO, not every male is capable of enjoying this activity. Some men may have physical abnormalities, congenital or medical conditions, traumatized or missing (surgically removed) prostates which preclude them from being able to physically enjoy this activity. Other men may be psychologically incapable of making the necessary paradigm shift in thinking about their sexuality to enjoy this activity as well. Fortunately, the majority of men will be able to fully appreciate their prostate's pleasure potential, whether it is "...earth-shattering..." is impossible for me or anyone else here to predict.
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Thanks Rumel!
The information you gave was extremely helpful! 😉
Just keep in mind this doesn't work like a traditional orgasm. You can't force yourself to orgasm through extra stimulation. You have to pay attention to subtle pleasures and let the feelings build. This means giving up control, opening yourself up to new feelings, and accepting what ever pleasure you have without the desire to push for more aggressively.
Which aneros did you order? If it is a smaller one such as the helix, then I couldn't imagine you having too hard of a time inserting it as long as you used plenty of lube. The larger models such as the Progasm may be a little more difficult if you are a novice when it comes to anal play, but still should be doable. Just take your time and relax as if you were going to the bathroom. Once you get it half way in, your butthole should just suck it right in if you are relaxed. You may feel some discomfort if this is your first time with something in there, but there should be no pain. If you feel pain while inserting it, evaluate what you are doing and make adjustments.
Enjoy!