I want to reach an SUPER-O ! help me !

hello Aneros users worldwide,

last year I had bought 2 ANeros, the MGX and Maximus,

just like the user-manual, I followed the instructions, but not with too many results.
as an matter of fact NO Result at all. I threw them away after some time, cuz I gave it up.

now, last week, I bought myself an Helix, and decided to give it another try! because after reading all these testimonials its gotta be AWESOME reaching an SUPER ORGASM. much better as the penis-orgasm.

now, last night, I decided to try again, a new session with the Helix.
once again I followed up the instructions and did everything as it said.

I try to watch porn or pix from women that turn me on and stuff.
but unfortunately not too many results.

I had the Aneros in me for like 40-45 min. but really no results at all.
I try to inhale, breath in breath out etc. but nothing.

can anybody please help me out ? the Aneros costed me 58Euros! which is not cheap. and I really really wonna feel the BIG O and explosion etc. but I dont know how. I also kinda feel ridicolous with that aneros inside of me. I am hetero, but still try to imagine that it is all perfect and stuff.

am I doing something wrong here ? what am I missing? or doing wrong ?

For many people - including myself - this isn't plug & play. Many of us have to go through a rewiring phase that may last months!

Nargaroth1,

Welcome to the Aneros Forums,

Your frustration is a common reaction from new users expecting explosive results as if these devices were simply 'plug 'n play' toys. For a rare few men this may be true, but for most men there is a learning curve to go through.

Please read "Nothing Happens" then read 'Cockadoodle's Penis, NOT! thread and then 'rook's - Whole Body/Whole Mind --the mental side thread for a little insight.

P.S. I sent you an introductory PM with some additional hints and tips to get you started.

Hey, Nargaroth1. This is a long training process often lasting several months or more in which you will completely separate orgasm from ejaculation and traditional penile stimulation and sexual arousal. I'm straight and married and it took me almost a year with sessions 3 to 5 times a week, but well worth it for the health benefits to my prostate and improving sex with my wife. Some guys feel porn helps with arousal, but I don't do that and feel as with some other guys it would be distracting.

My approach is to prewarm it and relax fully with it in for 10 minutes or so then do gentle PC contractions (the contraction you use to cut your urine off midstream) and get fluttering feelings in the anal area to start then use light nipple stimulation to amplify them. With practice--again this can take months--you can get these fluttering feelings to bring about involuntary contractions of the rectum that pull the massager inward against the prostate in such a way that with continued practice, these involuntary contractions will bring on orgasmic feelings that spread through your pelvis and eventually into your penis to the point you'll feel you are ejaculating, but nothing comes out, i.e., a dry orgasm. The relaxing total body feelings most guys experience with this is often described as the "super orgasm" you hear written about.

For me, it's more a process of relaxation and connecting with the sensations created within my body than a matter of sexual arousal. Hope this helps.