I think I missed or skipped a step.....?

As far as I know, watching porn triggers a subconscious need to ejaculate. Try nothing, or your own fantasy. I think that when everything is in your own mind, you will have more control.

Veterans, please correct me if I'm wrong on any point.

EDIT
Do not masturbate before a session. Normally the need to cum will go away after a couple hours, but it's MUCH harder to resist when you have an Aneros inserted. If you're getting to that point, take it out. Resist the need to cum, with every fiber of your being.

You are correct @Wandering_Smoke, you want to disassociate your brain from connecting prostate stimulation with the need to ejaculate! The more you do to disconnect the two, the less your body will automatically make you feel the need to do so during an Aneros session. You want to help your brain learn to appreciate only the prostate pleasure, and that's when the bigger and more intense experiences often occur!

yes i agree also with not connecting ejaculation with aneros use and I kinda think thats why my success has been very spotty. I havent ejaculated in over 6 weeks now while continuing my aneros use and I can certainly tell things are progressing quickly, but may take a while to unlearn the connection I've made.

So I need to switch my brain over to prostate n not my wanger.

Yup! You got it!

Sound like you had your first hfwo congrats

Guys,
I think it's worth noting that if you can dissociate Aneros MMOs, (Dry Os or whatever), from ejaculatory orgasm, the rewards are worth their weight in gold.

I have found that, while I still have refractory periods lasting some days from a conventional ejaculation, even during those periods (often within a couple of hours, possibly less), I can happily resume Aneros activity with no lingering effects from the conventional orgasm! There is no way I could manage an erection though.

I believe this confirms the principle that there is no link between Aneros arousal and penis erection.