Boy I sure do see the role of that refractory period in nature. I think I came harder than I've ever cum in my life last night, it felt like I was ejaculating endlessly, kind of like that old multiplying handkerchief magician's trick. I kept focusing on my breathing, and the continual feeling of ejaculation doubled in intensity. I tried to breathe and stay focused, but I lost my momentum shortly thereafter. If intercourse felt like this, and you could do it with no delay. Holy moley, you'd have a lot of overpopulation and probably little else happening besides sex. LOL.
@Spanishguy69 congratulations on one of your new level of pleasures! This pleasure is a great feature included in your Aneros journey and there are several more coming your way. Enjoy!
Tell you what, why not tell us your technique? your tools used? I dont hear often that it feels like 'continual ejacualtion' s please do share your quite obviously unique experience.
Sure. I'm still learning of course. I have, at the moment 2 types of lube, neither of which I feel is ideal. KY, and Vaseline. I've tried injecting them, putting Vaseline in with a finger, and coating the helix with KY, KY with a finger, Vaseline on the helix, and just about every combination. So far what has worked best,is Vaseline on the toy, and in my rear, and a few ribbons of ky, especially in the grooves of the toy, so that it doesn't get squeegeed off. I use toilet paper and clean after the toy is in, especially at the p tab. Actually, I clean the handle of lube completely, and hold it with toilet paper while putting it in, so as not to get lube on the t handle or p tab. It's doesn't get stuck.good to have some lube in your butt cheek area, so that the unit doesn't get stuck. I lie down on my left side, with a pillow between my knees. I like to keep my left knee and right knee together, and my left knee on the bed. No matter how I lie, on my left arm and shoulder, completely on my left, or on my back, on the left side, kind of lying back, I keep my lower half mostly stationary. When I first started I tried watching porn, and the problem with that, is that if you are getting some good momentum going, and the scene either ends, or something happens that just breaks you trance, i.e the pizza guy comes in "hey, who ordered the sausage!" bow chicka wow wow... it can throw me completely off the track. So I have decided to watch porn when I'm not using the Aneros, and if something hot catches my eye, I put it in the memory bank, and fantasize and think back to it during my session, which is way more effective. Ditto with erotic audio. When it gets dumb, or stops, it can mess me up, so I just say no. One thing I do is put some sexy pics on my computer screen, I'm a sucker for tight spandex, so I put in a google search for that, and just hit the image button, and voila! Tons of hot pics. They can't do anything dumb, or stop while I'm getting excited, being just pics. So that works way better for me. (Sorry so long). Ok, the unit is now in position and I'm ready to start. I do light contractions of my anal sphincter, to where I feel like a tickly feathery feeling in my rectum. Then I relax and focus on the p tab. Eventually doing this long enough, alternating with total relaxation, I start to feel a buzzing in my groin, as if I am using a vibrator, but I am not. Once that happens, I move into a cadence with my breathing, slow in, pause a second, slow all the way out, pause a second, all the way in, pause etc etc. With every pause, the buzzing gets stronger and stronger, till I feel it move, to a position that seems deeper under my testicles. It's a sensation like rolling waves of vibration. If I keep the cadence, the buzzing enters my penis. I try to contract my anus lightly, and get the p tab where I can feel it on the sweet spot. the buzzing keeps traveling further up, to my stomach. So now my penis is buzzing, and about then it feels like I'm going to cum. I feel a whoosh whoosh whoosh buzzing in my penis, and the feeling of semen is present, despite it being dry. I feel intense intense ejaculatory pleasure, and if I relax, and keep deep breathing, the whoosh whoosh becomes WHOOSH WHOOSH. The intensity ratchets even higher, and it feels, at least to me, like I'm getting great oral sex, and I'm cumming, and she just keeps going and going and I just keep cumming One cool thing is that I just realized that my nipples can actually jump start the buzzing, and even when I thought the feeling and momentum was lost, I can get it back with some nipple massage. So there's my newest discovery. Sorry this was so so long, I hope it's at least a little helpful to someone. Thanks everyone!
An addendum. I had a great session yesterday, so today I thought I would be slick and break my self imposed rules. I watched some porn at the start of my session. At first it worked ok, but when the clip ended, and I couldn't find anything else as exciting, at least not quickly enough for me to keep my momentum, my arousal went into the toilet, and as such I'm pretty sure the rest of today is a bust.`
You get me all excited reading this. I wish I had a feeling of ejaculation with the P spot orgasm, but so far all I feel is like orgasm without the ejection feeling, and only once so far. For me the best porn is looking at pics of good looking young small breasted thin girls with nice flat bellies and their groin area. I use a screensaver, but I don't have the computer in the bedroom so I'm on a office chair and that doesn't help. Movies are too time sensitive, there's usually only a few spots that are exciting enough and the good parts don't last long, so I've given up on movies as just too distracting. Actually when I get to the point, I usually close my eyes and fantasize anyhow, pretty much like when I was able to have real sex. Serious ED here that's why. Doesn't' mean I don't still have sex drive though.
Yeah one of my biggest problems sexually has been anorgasmia because of ssri medication. It's never made me unable to get an erection, just unable to cum. I haven't had any problems with the aneros however, but Zoloft (my current med) has never held up my orgasm too bad anyway. Not like paxil did. That pill was borderline chemical castration to me, lol. Had to get off it to get off lol.
Movies are too time sensitive, there's usually only a few spots that are exciting enough and the good parts don't last long, .
Very well put, sir.
It's not ssri for me, I'm 73 next month and been taking 3 heart medicines for at least 15 years now. When I complained to my GP about ED he mentioned all the heart medicine I'm taking, but at least I'm still here enjoying sex when I can. The ED medicines don't work for me any more, they did for about 1-2 years. I was hoping the P massage would work, but I'm worried about messing with my P too much at my age too. I don't need any more problems than I have. At least I can still get my wife off once in a while with the toys, that's satisfying. Good luck with your adventures and I do enjoy reading about others adventures, even if it's a bit vicarious.
Hey Dogger
I started this action when just a few years older than U are now. It has been all good and the massage has let me reduce my Cardura dose for BPH by half. ED meds work better also.
Just pick your lube with care and enjoy. Rook
Thanks rook, that's good to know. I didn't even know about prostate enlargement until an acquaintance of mine had it. I talked to a few other friends and apparently it's pretty common and some of them had some fairly serious issues with it. My GP says I'm lucky and don't mess with it if it's working fine. As far as lube, I use mostly vasoline, Lynx lube, and recently I've been experimenting with Eucerin which is a body moisturizer my wife uses. It's also good for those spots that get itchy in the winter. The Lynx and Eucerin don't seem to stain the sheets or towels too. Maybe a combo of those 2 would be good, I especially like the moisturizer, it's nice on the skin and doesn't seem to get very sticky at all. Vasoline is not bad for the lasting, but is a bit greasy.