The last few months, I haven't had much alone time, so it's been maybe just once a month I have a session. I've tried yesterday and today, and once about a week ago, and as soon as I start feeling the build up, it just feels like I get too hyper, and can't focus. Both times, I ended up just masturbating to finish it, and didn't go the whole time I planned out. I just wish I could get back to where I was around August or so.
It's an ebb and flow thing with me. I'll have some great sessions for a while then some lackluster sessions. This can go on for some time.
Usually though, when the lackluster passes, things are better than they were before. Guess my body rewires further.
Patience.
Understand the value of just relaxing with it and not requiring a big finish. Just notice what feels good. It really can be an ebb and flow. Not like riding a bike...if I lose my mojo, I can just about bet on the womanizer premium on autopilot on my nipples for 5 min to an hour bringing right muscles back into service and reconnecting the hot wires.
I have the same way of progressing. I'm at a certain level, the sessions are fantastic most of the time then I have a few sessions that aren't so good and I take it to the next level. It seems like I'm taking a step back to take a bigger leap!
This is where A-Less comes in. There is an element of use it or lose it attached to the journey. There’s no reason why you can’t have a few A-Less sessions a week to keep things ticking over. Do them fully clothed if necessary. And stop jacking off man hahahahah patience is rewarded! 🙂
Semen retention really does work...the hard part is keeping your hands off your cock for those first two weeks! I also get a bit frustrated in my sessions and want the pleasure to ramp up, making me us more manual stimulation to get aroused; it never ends with anything other than a TO. And this summer I've been averaging 7.5 ejaculations every month, too many! I'm trying to go for longer periods so I can prepare for Lent! Incidentally if you want to join me for that particular journey I'm going to start talking about it in the New Year.
I also get frustrated with my (perceived) lack of progress sometimes so know you're not alone. Two steps forwards and one step back is still progress though! I get the feeling of "I don't have many opportunities so I need to make the most of the ones I have," but that can really lead to too much pressure on the sessions you do have. I'd agree that if you can swing it, Aless or KSMO practice would be a good idea as there is very little setup time so that should give you more time for practicing the act of self-love between when you can have "real" Aneros sessions.
Thanks everyone for the replies. I always hear to try and not push yourself during a session, but the strangest thing, that I didn't mention, is when I do have the time for a session, it just seems to start fast and intense. This last one I had I became very hot and bothered during, and when it happens like that, I can't help but not feel as if something big should happen. I guess I just need to cool it, and be more patient. I'm sure you guys know the same feelings too, so I know I can trust your word.