I did it!

That's fantastic ! Congratulations on you success. Nipple play is wonderful and a powerful tool, no wonder it helped you, to me it's one of the cornerstones.  Oh, and welcome to the Forum !  

@zentai

Thanks! I was just trying again, and while it felt good, it didn't feel the same. I've heard before that it might not always happen. Is that true? I was thinking about waiting a few more days, and not masturbating. Think that will help?

It could help, maybe your body needs a short break after what happened, all those small muscles take some time to get really toned, maybe they were not rested enough to perform like last time. How much time elapsed between the two sessions ?

One opinion that's shared by a lot of users, and for good reasons, is that expectations about the outcome can get in the way of success. Since you achieved something amazing, it's possible that you were prepared for the same thing to happen, that could be enough to miss some other sensations that were developing and would have taken you in another direction. Or maybe you did everything right, and it just did not happen, sometimes it's like that. 

I think an important aspect is to keep it simple and not overthink this, you already know you can achieve the Super-O  and that's a huge step, and you also got there pretty quick, May is like, yesterday, so don't put pressure on yourself, you already achieved a lot here. So think of your first Super-O as removing pressure on yourself, you know it's real, you know you can do it, and you know whatever technique you use can bring solid results. Don't go adding pressure by trying to outdo yourself right away, or trying to reach the same height during each session, give it some time. 

Posted by: @bogusbro

I've heard before that it might not always happen. Is that true?

@bogusbro, I too welcome you to the Forum. With regard to your query, Yes, please don't expect your Anerosessions to replicate themselves. Some sessions may seem quite lackluster compared to the very intense sessions. There are many variables in the combination to unlock Super-O's, it is unrealistic to think you can control them all every time you have a session.

Posted by: @bogusbro

I was thinking about waiting a few more days, and not masturbating. Think that will help?

Yes, IMHO it will help increase your arousal level and arousal is key in triggering these orgasms. Please see Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention for more info.

Good Vibes to You!

@zentai

I feel today wasn't a total loss, since like last time, I felt great after the session. A very amazing relaxed feeling. It's been two days though, so I probably did rush it a little. It is weird though how quick I got here. A lot of people seem to take way longer than I did. Actually, the first day I used it back in May, I remember I could barely feel it. Suddenly, a little while in, I remember my body went crazy. It looked like I was having a seizure. It was fun, but I definitely know it wasn't a super O. I just find it odd How quick it did that to me. Anyway. I'm gonna try to relax a few days before I try again. Thanks for the help!

@rumel

Thanks for the link! I'll try to relax a bit more before next time. Still, even though I wasn't quite there, It seemed like at least a mini super O. It still had intensity to it, and I felt just as relaxed and peaceful as my first. Can't wait for my next one! Thanks!

Welcome, and well done. You are off now, the real fun part has begun.

I cannot stress what good advice both @Zentai and @rumel have just given you. Expectation is the mother of disappointment. Each session is its own, to be enjoyed as such. I say this as much to myself as I do to you.

@bogusbro 

Congrats man and welcome to the forum. Now is the time to just be cool. Orgasms are often slightly different and get produced in different timeframes with different techniques. It’s easy to fall into the trap of expecting a carbon copy,trying to repeat exactly what you did,which actually works against you. You gotta get in the zone where you just take what your given and say thank you. Not all sessions are mend bending. Orgasms come in varying intensities and number. Just explore and have fun and don’t get too serious. 🙂

Hi @Bogusbro, welcome and congratulations for your success.

It's true that it's hard not to expect a good session once you've had your first successes. Not having expectations is one of the most tricky aspects of this process.

But the good news is that this is all a learning process and things only get better with practice over time.
The good sessions will repeat and the unsuccessful sessions will eventually almost disappear.

@rickr

Yeah, I was nervous to try again so early, but just wanted to know. At least I know I'll have fun either way!

@helghast

Yeah, sometimes I think I get too worked up, and it makes it hard. A little personal, but I got a little worked up the session before my super O, and I just couldn't get into the zone

@morexp

Thanks! I'm hoping for good sessions! It wasn't a waste, I still had fun, but I really wanted to experience that super o again. Oh well, always next time

@bogusbro

Youve already done it bro so you know it’s possible and real,take that with you on your journey and see what else is out there is all I’m saying,don’t get caught in the trap of trying to do exactly what you did before,funny,it mostly doesn’t quite work like that lol.

On a side note,every time I see your name,I see bangbros…I must have a filthy mind. 😉

@helghast

Yeah, hopefully I can find something. I know nipple play at least helps, so I'll keep trying that. And I have no idea where I got the username from. You probably do need a dirty mind to want an orgasm like I had lol!

@bogusbro just enjoy your sessions mate,you be fine. No need to be nervous 🙂

There is something I ask of... the Universe (?) at the beginning of each session and it is: surprise me!

@morexp

I should now start expecting anything with it now. Now that I've had one, I've heard each session can be very different, so I guess I always have something new and exciting to look forward to!

There is something very interesting in nipple play...wish I realized this many years ago. Today, I recommend every guy here own a womanizer premium and spend a fair amount time using it alone with no other devices. 

It is difficult to say how it would affect each one of us as each of our journeys are different, but using that thing on my nipples activated all manner of pleasure points. I like the premium model because it has the autopilot feature where it randomly selects intensity and changes up constantly.  

Posted by: @bogusbro

Back in May, I finally bought my first aneros. After playing with it for awhile, it was fun, and gave me some new sensations, but nothing prepared me for the other day. It started normally, but my penis got larger than usual, and leaked way more precum. I finally realized how nice nipple play is, and I think that's what through me over the edge. I was yelling and screaming like no tomorrow! My body thrashed around, and the afterglow was amazing! I can tell I am going to have quite the journey ahead of me! For anyone having trouble, it will happen, trust me!

Congrats man! You have given me hope

@mb574

Happy to help. Have you had any success? It's been about a week since you posted this, so I figured I'd see if my post helped anyone