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03/14/2022 10:40 am
It’s tough for me to figure out how unique people are in terms of achieving (or making a good effort to achieve) Super-Os (or really, any non-ejaculatory multiple orgasms). I’ve seen articles referencing 1 prostate/penis owner in a 100, but I can’t tell if that’s just a saying and is backed up by any sort of research/survey. So if anyone knows, or can think of any resources, you can post here if you would like. We could go down the list of milestones that I remember from the Aneros wiki (I just tried to find it but couldn’t, if someone knows where it is could they post it?), but in general, I find that multiple male non-ejaculatory orgasms are at least somewhat in the public sphere but maybe not widely practiced? I know some of that may stem from people’s reluctance to talk about sex, but I would think that someone could extrapolate a general figure over time.
For at least some reference, here’s the instances that have sparked my attention over time:
1. Non-sex focused entertainment: The most mainstream I can think of is during an episode of the most recent season of You on Netflix, where a wealthy influencer type talks off-handedly at a party about a “45 minute orgasm”. This was an example of the show looking down on/making fun of this character, which I didn’t take offense to, I just thought it was interesting. Also a brief mention of prostate pleasure in the second season of “Special” on Netflix. For other mainstream, non-sex focused entertainment, I can only think of what I remember hearing about with mentions of pegging in Broad City and Russian Doll (I think, someone can correct me if I’m wrong).
2. Sex podcasts: they’re talked about there somewhat, certainly. I’ve enjoyed Forrest Andrews’ interviews, especially on “Sex with Emily” and “Shameless Sex”, as well as one or two other podcasts. When he’s not on there, these podcasts sometimes mention prostate orgasms, but usually just in passing, and if they are discussed, I usually hear “try it, and if you don’t like it, then you can stop”. I feel that this is a little too simple, and doesn’t discuss how you need to take some time and energy to discover these feelings and rewire. There’s discussion of how anal sex should not be painful regardless of gender (use plenty of lube, etc.), but not too much in terms of the time and energy it might take to achieve this orgasms. This is similar to how I imagine vulva-owning individuals often need to work/rewire for g-spot orgasms, cervical orgasms, etc.
3. Sex you-tube channels: the one I saw that was at least okay (in my opinion) was Shan Boody about the prostate orgasm. In a group of 5 guys, one said he had experienced a prostate orgasm, but I was skeptical since he basically said it happened once and wasn’t anything he really took too much time to foster. But at least the guys were open to trying to explore.
4. Articles: certainly a good number, and probably the best source of information overall. But maybe I would say the least mainstream(?)
Porn I want to get into in a later post, but I feel that the above shows that there are at least some places that shows that the prostate-orgasm/super-O/non-ejaculatory orgasm (I pretty much use these terms interchangeably) are heard of in the mainstream, but again, I have a hard time figuring out how widespread the practice of these orgasms are, which is weird to me because they have really revitalized my life in a lot of ways and I feel like practicing these orgasms have been a pivotal moment in my life, and it seems like it’s been at least somewhat that way for a lot of people here and on other forums. It just seems strange to me that I don’t hear more in entertainment/educational resources about these practices.
To end this post, I feel like I should take a (pretty much blind) guess and state how unique I think I am in terms of being in the category of: achieving Super-Os on a regular basis and being able to have multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms during sex or masturbation. That’s the category that I would say I am most interested in in that it most correctly describes me while being general enough to cover a group of people that I would identify with if we were to freely talk about sex in say a group therapy like environment that you would see on a TV show, for example. So my stab in the dark is: 1 in 10,000 for prostate owners. Not much to base this off of. Again, some articles reference 1 out of 100 for multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms, but I think that’s high. I just looked and saw 15% of vulva-owners have reported multiple orgasms, but that’s not on a regular basis that I can see. About 18-20% of vulva-owners can achieve orgasm through penetrative sex alone according to a recent episode of Sex With Emily.
So, to recap: in the category of prostate owners who achieve Super-Os on a regular basis and are able to have multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms during sex or masturbation, I’m guessing 1 in 10,000. Think that’s high? Low? Have your own category and/or number? Have any resources? Post them here if you would like. Thanks for reading!
03/14/2022 11:10 am
I would place it at 1 in 100,000. Definitely not based off anything other than my gut feeling. If only they knew! Life changing.
03/14/2022 11:17 am
I’m going for 1-30000. Half the guys here post a bit while learning,and never post again. I think a lot of guys give up when it’s not working for them. Sure there’s lots of guys who get fingered maybe,some pegging,but it’s not the same until you’ve learned the prostate game and gained experience of success.
I think nearly all men are capable,depends on issues and health etc. We are the ones who actually put the work in. Some don’t,won’t,can’t. I don’t know,I never give this much thought to be honest.
I have seen plenty of articles and ‘news’ type excerpts on my internet’s travels talking about how lots of men are getting into prostate play. Maybe they just write that stuff with nothing to back it up.
03/14/2022 12:49 pm
It’s tough for me to figure out how unique people are in terms of achieving (or making a good effort to achieve) Super-Os (or really, any non-ejaculatory multiple orgasms). I’ve seen articles referencing 1 prostate/penis owner in a 100, but I can’t tell if that’s just a saying and is backed up by any sort of research/survey.
I really have no idea what the percentage of the male population has actually experienced a prostate based orgasm. Given the general taboo nature of non-conventional sex acts, I can easily imagine that it is even less than 1% (1/100).
We could go down the list of milestones that I remember from the Aneros wiki (I just tried to find it but couldn’t, if someone knows where it is could they post it?),
The Milestones list is at the end of the Getting Started Section of the Aneros WIKI.
Good Vibes to You!
03/14/2022 1:13 pm
I think the first time I was exposed to any mainstream prostate orgasm was in the comedy Road Trip when Sean William Scott's character's gets his prostate milked at the sperm bank, that's a 2000 movie. In American Pie 2, one year later, another characters does semen retention / Tantra to achieve hands-free orgasms.
Before that, and I posted about this some time ago, it was in French women's magazines in waiting rooms. Things like Elle and Châtelaine always had these "299 new sex tips to make your man go wild" deals and no one would look twice at young me reading these at the dentist's office. They often had some little bits about prostate stimulation but not as a stand-alone things.
I've seen one bit about actual real Super-Os on national TV in my country, I hope the link works :
Point-G masculin. It's in French but I'm sure you guys will get it !
All in all, we're still a tiny minority, even if the world word is spreading slowly...
03/14/2022 2:26 pm
The stiffmeister! At the end of the movie he gives a girl a rubber gloves and she looks all confused hahahaha
03/14/2022 3:19 pm
I’m guessing 1 in 10,000. Think that’s high?
This is a very interesting question which I have often asked myself. Look at the number of regular posters here. Maybe a couple of dozens? That's for the whole world... at least the English speaking world. Look at the prostate play and aneros reddits. How many posts/likes/comments? I would be curious to know how many prostate massagers are sold every day, by Aneros or others...
I'm afraid that this is an extremely marginal activity, at least in the West, with super-Os being even more marginal. I would imagine that it is more common in the gay community, and hence in big towns. However, for straight men in small towns, it must be exceedingly rare. I think that 1 in 10K is probably optimistic.
I have been at this game for a year and a half now,, and I would not say that I have yet had a super-O. How many men are that patient? How many men are open-minded enough to even try? How many men these days simply have the time and privacy to do that? Sadly, very few I think. My guess is 1 in 30K.
03/14/2022 4:27 pm
I’m guessing 1 in 10,000. Think that’s high?
This is a very interesting question which I have often asked myself. Look at the number of regular posters here. Maybe a couple of dozens? That's for the whole world... at least the English speaking world. Look at the prostate play and aneros reddits. How many posts/likes/comments? I would be curious to know how many prostate massagers are sold every day, by Aneros or others...
I'm afraid that this is an extremely marginal activity, at least in the West, with super-Os being even more marginal. I would imagine that it is more common in the gay community, and hence in big towns. However, for straight men in small towns, it must be exceedingly rare. I think that 1 in 10K is probably optimistic.
I have been at this game for a year and a half now,, and I would not say that I have yet had a super-O. How many men are that patient? How many men are open-minded enough to even try? How many men these days simply have the time and privacy to do that? Sadly, very few I think. My guess is 1 in 30K.
Guess I must be very unique as I am a straight married man in a small community who enjoys Aneros and Aless activities! The pleasure and orgasms are experienced on a regular basis. Have many anal toys which enhance the pleasure!
03/14/2022 4:34 pm
they have really revitalized my life in a lot of ways and I feel like practicing these orgasms have been a pivotal moment in my life, and it seems like it’s been at least somewhat that way for a lot of people here and on other forums
Me too, my friend, in many spheres, and I'd be happy to talk about these. Luckily I have had time to process this... still processing..., often times in forum posts, and have found it ceaselessly absorbing, almost as much as the pleasure itself. Happily, recently, my marriage may be at the start of a revitalization of closeness and communication, although in a somewhat indirect way.
these podcasts sometimes mention prostate orgasms, but usually just in passing, and if they are discussed, I usually hear “try it, and if you don’t like it, then you can stop”. I feel that this is a little too simple, and doesn’t discuss how you need to take some time and energy to discover these feelings and rewire
Yes. Perhaps mention in this way is done to protect against litigation, so no one can claim they were advised of a course of action and make a specious claim of injury. Leastwise, it is "lazy reporting". It does a newcomer the disservice of priming him to fail quick and never return. Had it not been for "resources" I found, like the fine people of this forum, I may well have quit after my first attempt. My main forum post, was initially named "HST disagrees with tight butt post session" after all.
Estimation of this is like the Drake equation "the number of civilization n our galaxy with which communication might be possible" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drake_equation . lol. But I agree with the estimates of users above. Unless I just happen to know all of the wrong people in my in real life, which is possible.
I would be curious to know how many prostate massagers are sold every day, by Aneros or others...
Excellent analytical thinking, @lanoix, for a route to a back of the napkin estimate. Were it only possible to obtain an industry-wide figure.
05/22/2022 5:36 am
I’m guessing 1 in 10,000. Think that’s high? Low? Have your own category and/or number? Have any resources?
We had this discussion earlier, but I'm too lazy to search for it now. I said back then: 1 in 1,000,000, so I' aiming way lower. I have nothing to back this up - it's just my gut feeling.
Yes, a lot of men are open for butt play and a lot engage on a regular basis. But like @helghast said: how many give up fairly early? How many are in for "smaller" reasons: the taboo, the kink, the general enhancement of the sexual experience? I was into butt stuff long before I heard about the Aneros. And back then, I never developed to a point even remotely compareable to my skills today.
So I'd guess, that the number of men who truly master butt stuff to the point of reliable orgasming (not to speak Super-O's) is fairly small.
In absolute numbers, this forum is big. Add reddit and it becomes even bigger. But in relative terms, compared to the number of men on the planet... not so much...
The thing is, this is a skill so complicated, that it's unlikely anyone would just stumble over it and keep it a secret for himself. I bet, that the vast majority of men who eventually are able to have MMOs needed guidance and advise through some form of community. And these communities are
- visible
- far and in between
See, achieving this is a huge turnover in ones life. Even if there is taboo around it, it's hard to not speak about it. Especially for the kind of open minded people who start this kind journey to begin with. I deem it highly unlikely, that there is a silent majority of MMO practioners that stay in the dark. I never met anyone in person speaking openly about having this skill. And I live in Berlin, where all sorts of sexual deviants move to in order to live out their kinks openly and unashamed.
05/22/2022 8:04 pm
The percent of men who do P-spot play is unknown but far as i can tell its a newer taboo in the sex scene even though the practice is very old. I wonder if its like the female G-spot which has high numbers of those who can achieve super-o/Squirt ect.
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