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07/21/2016 12:30 pm
Hi!
Its my first post, and I have read a lot of stuff in the forum, and even if I find alot of usefull stuff, I still am looking for the best way to continue my prostate voyage.
It started maybe 5 months ago, when I heard on a podcast about the prostate multiple male orgasms, and started researching it. I saw stuff on prostate milking, and of course the aneros.
At first i tried fingering myself, witch was pleasant, but not amazing, then I asked my wife to milk me, and the second time she did it, i had the biggest ejaculatory orgasm ever. All she could say was that she had never seen so much semen ever!
I live in a country where selling sex toys is illegal, so i had to wait to 3 weeks ago when I went home and bought the aneros helix syn.
Now, the Helix has been a mixed feelings voyage. I read in the forum and in the wiki that the whole idea is to go away from penile stimulation and pleasure, and move to a new idea of pleasure coming from the prostate. I always follow the not touching the penis rule, but the arousal, and the prostate pleasure always routes there, and when i get aroused, I get a hard on, and just the dick growing makes it bump into something, and i get a jolt of pleasure from it, and start fighting the penis arousal. Of course this takes away from the prostate feeling.
The nice thing is that the pleasure i take from it is amazing, kind of like hands free edging, most time with involuntary movement of the aneros that milks me very hard, but if I don't concentrate really hard on not cumming, i end up doing it.
So my question is, how to avoid the erection? i have read that using numbing creams is not the way to go, but when i get aroused, i always get hard.
Another issue I have noticed is that the aneros kind of moves into a tilted position, the p tab stays in place, but the aneros gets kind of rotated or skewed inside me, like when i am on my back in the bed, the aneros instead of being in a vertical orientation, always gets rotated a bit, and always to the same side... is my anus skewed?
07/21/2016 4:37 pm
I remember when I was starting out with Aneros. I had many MORE erections and ejaculations for the first couple of months. I wouldn't worry about it. I feel it is part of the re-wiring process. Just continue with your sessions normally (hands-off the penis!) and I'm sure things will settle-down. I can't comment on your second issue except to ask if you've tried side positions?
07/22/2016 12:45 am
Hi Starrk, and welcome!
As far as the aneros skewing, I would check to see if the curved tail is coming in contact with the bed. This could cause it to rotate, even if just a little pressure is applied. If this is the case I would try putting a pillow under your hips (but not under the butt so that you can leave the tail untouched) or like I have done, trim a portion of the tail off and sand the end smooth.
Goldenboy brings up the last strategy, the side positions, they eliminate the above issues, and I have found more pleasure in them as well, you just need to meditate past erections possibly hitting the bed or your stomach.
Cheers,
time.
07/23/2016 10:02 am
Let your cock get hard on its own and feel wonderful while it happens!!! You say that when your cock touches something it starts to feel good, which takes away from your prostate sensations. But does it make you feel more horny and more sexual? When your cock accidentally touches something, doesn't it feel good? It might be "taking away" from your prostate stimulation, but it's adding to your overall sexual stimulation, and that's good, at least to me. You might find that you have hands-free prostate orgasms depending on what your cock is doing: if it is 100% soft, half hard, or fully erect. When your cock gets hard your prostate does not really stay the same. Mine gets bigger and harder when my cock gets hard. Just keep doing what you are doing and don't worry about the "rules" I've found after 12 years of using Aneros that the "rules" are just guidelines for men to take advice from. Try LOTS of different things!! Just because your cock is getting stimulated once doesn't mean it will ruin all following Aneros sessions afterwards.
Lastly, have you had a traditional ejaculatory orgasm with the helix inside you yet? I'd recommend using the Helix hands-free and after you don't think you're going to get anymore our of your prostate, start to work your hard cock and make yourself cum with the toy in you. If you haven't done that yet, get ready for the BIGGEST orgasm of your life!
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