How many times?

https://community.aneros.com/community/community-polls/1824-frequency-of-use

My work and family schedule pretty much determine my frequency. Moreover, more than that might be counter productive. I like some space between rides. Build anticipation among other things.

I've had mine for a couple of months and, like I mentioned in another poll, I've only used it once. Damn, I've got to try it more!

I can’t help myself.

Gotta take a break
Gotta take a break

I’ll take a break tomorrow.

No regerts.

@visexual you do. Inbox me, I’ll send you something that will show you what you’re missing..

@Roland Htg Im sure many men will sympathise with being addicted to masturbation! I promised myself a day or two off, I’m new to the journey and haven’t had any discernable pleasure from it but, after realising last night that I was basically forcing it, I swore to myself when I was done I’d take a few days and let it build so I’m properly aroused..

wanked this morning before the shower. OOPS.

@Lth0ms0n, it's quite amusing how excited you are. Perhaps at your age it's totally impossible to calm down a bit due to your testosterone level. Although you are gay it mignt be a good idea to watch and listen to Serena, a skilled Tantra expert, eplaining orgasms and how she prepares for a session. Although she is a young woman and you already mentioned to be gay, I believe you could learn a lot watching her.
Oops, you wanked this morning. I think you will not have stopped before the happy ending? You're in your lower twenties, right? That means you already have enjoyed masturbation towards an ejaculation for ten or more years, programming yourself to get exactly there, finding the best technique to stimulate yourself to reach one aim, your ejaculation and the orgasm coming along. BUT, what if the more intense orgasms are hidden secrects along this straight way and you can't find them without being patient and not in a refractory period from your last ejaculation? That could be the biggest hurdle for you. I won't recommend to try a 40-days-off-time I coped with some time ago, although it might be helpful to read my blog posts about it, but consider that not trying to separate orgasm from ejaculation might be your biggest hurdle on your further journey.
To answer your question, I'd suggest to keep your arousal high by wanking whenever you like, BUT denying yourself the ejaculation, stuff him back without, feel the arousal the whole day, then have your next Aneros session BUT STOP before your ejaculation and call it a session. The dumb buzz you will learn to know this way, located in your abdomen right behind your penis, is your awakening prostate you're feeling and this buzz will teach you orgasms you never believed possible - without any ejaculaton, but earth-sha-king.
You already asked about Aless (Anerosless sessions). At your age you might be able to at least try one day off? It will help a lot, I promise. One day Aless, one day Aneros, perhaps that's a shedule for a young man at your testosterone level. A lot of us 50+ men here feel like in their teenage years again. Nevertheless it is difficult to give recommendations. Consider my signature*. Good luck and good vibes, keep us posted!

Don't know, why my signature appears to be hidden from time to time, what I meant was: Your best expert is you! 😉

@SOwithoutAneros Oh god, there’s so much in this response, let me try and break it down in response.

So, close, late twenties, which probably means my body has slowed down a little since then.. I’ve been masturbating since age 11, so I’ve had a good 17 years of making myself cum solely by jerking off, so that’s a long lesson to unlearn in response to what I’ve found here but in a way, it shouldn’t be as bedded in as some of the gents who have overcame this!

I’ll definitely give that video a watch, I’m here to learn after all!

You’re right, I didn’t stop before I blew my load and I have to say that I don’t think I’ve ever felt aware of my prostate expanding or swelling when I get horny. For the most part, masturbating is pretty habitual or routine. I don’t think I’ve ever gotten off in response to ‘feeling horny’, I’ve decided I could do one and thrown some porn on or whatever, or I’ve slipped my hand into my pants after I slide into bed to help me drift off to sleep every night..

I think you’re right that I’m very much programmed to feel that ejaculation and orgasm still go hand in hand with each other. However, I will say, my excitement is probably coming from (partly) being maybe younger than most who find this method of sexual stimulation pleasurable but also with it being new and my hunger for a new, exciting, potentially more intense experience. Plus, who’s not going to want to arrive at a point where they can super-o over and over and over?

I’ll definitely take your tip on board with regard to stroking myself without finishing... That’s a sure fire way of leaving yourself full down there without suffering as a result. Are you suggesting that I jerk off without finishing and also don’t let myself ejaculate with my Aneros inside, either?

[USER="56283"]Are you suggesting that I jerk off without finishing and also don’t let myself ejaculate with my Aneros inside, either?

Yes, indeed, I'd suggest to separate your ejaculations from your Aneros usage. It will help you most with your awareness of your prostate.

I think you’re right that I’m very much programmed to feel that ejaculation and orgasm still go hand in hand with each other. However, I will say, my excitement is probably coming from (partly) being maybe younger than most who find this method of sexual stimulation pleasurable but also with it being new and my hunger for a new, exciting, potentially more intense experience. Plus, who’s not going to want to arrive at a point where they can super-o over and over and over?

First, as I mentioned in my introductory PM to you, I encourage you to view these two videos by Dr. Joy Davidson discussing "Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms" (Part 1 & Part 2). While she doesn't mention the use of Aneros massagers as one of the methods a man may employ, the information presented was accurate and informative for men seeking this level of experience and is completely in line with the techniques we discuss on this Forum everyday.

Second, Please read @Cockadoodle ’s thread Penis, NOT and @rook 's thread Whole Body/Whole Mind - the mental side & @SteelColdiron 's thread Aneros: The Essential Mind State for a little insight. It might also help you to read @neros 's post The truth behind how to "rewire". Exercising your ability for self discipline with regard to frequency of masturbation sessions leading to ejaculation will empower you in ways you do not yet perceive but you have to exercise that ability yourself, we can't do it for you.

Third, I'd suggest you learn how to perform a true prostate 'milking' wherein you actually drain your prostate of fluid without inducing an orgasm. Unfortunately, Aneros devices are not the most efficient for this practice, the best tool I've found for performing a real self "milking" is the Njoy 'Pure Wand'. I suspect having a professional masseuse do this would be much more pleasant as you could really just relax into the pleasurable release to be had. The reason I suggest this practice is to help you make the break between ejaculation and orgasm and learn the myriad of sensations which accompany prostate stimulation separate from penile stimulation. If you are interested in more information about this practice PM me and I'll link you up to more. Good Vibes to You !

@rumel, usually I love your advices for putting things in a nutshell, but to give you an honest feedback concerning that first video you recommended, I admittedly just had some of my most boaring 12 minutes watching Dr Joy Davidson running off at the mouth about only two tips to help with multiple orgasms, 1) pressing the shaft at its root or on the perineum to avoid an ejaculation, 2) focusing on subtle sensations while envisioning them as vibes spreading out bodywide. Highly esteeming all your short and crisp packed profound wisdom, I venture to suggest to go without the backing of conceited people with doctor's degree who seem to get paid by word, you're not in need of that. Cheers! Mart