How important is penis size to women?

PIV isn't the only way to pleasure a woman. There is oral, digital, and toys. There are a lot of women who can't have a proper orgasm from PIV. As a gay guy, there is much more I look at than a penis when I'm shacking up with someone. More important stuff like if they take care of their body, involved in risky behavior, or just in general are nice. I've never rejected someone, or made disparaging comments about someone's penis. That's not to say it never happens, but if it did, then that person is a POS. If you can't say something nice then don't say something at all applies here. The only exception I could think of where I would reject someone based on their penis would be if they obviously had some sort of std. So unless you have a micropenis, I wouldn't worry about it.

I think you have some real fears and insecurities about this and you shouldn't. Porn has a way of warping your sense of reality. First of all, porn stars do not accurately represent normal women any more than porn reflects normal dick size. You might want to stop watching porn for a bit, because it seems to be having a bad effect on you mentally. You seem to be judging women based solely on porn, which isn't a good measuring stick, pardon the pun.

There is a lot of good things people have said in this thread you should listen to. For one, the vagina adjusts quite easily when she is turned on. Just because women have the physiological potential to accommodate very large dicks/objects doesn't mean that all women are into that first of all, nor that women need that to get off.

I think as long as you don't have a micro-penis, you really shouldn't be worried too much about size. As mentioned before, she probably will be more interested in hygiene, physical condition, confidence, etc. When you are in the realm of normal, being a good partner in other ways will be far more notable to the average woman. You should be thinking about how to be a stud in those ways, not the one way you can't do anything about and are overestimating.

Look, if your dream is to be a porn star, bang emotionally damaged porn star chicks, and have them talk to their friends about how big you are, I'm sorry, maybe in the next life. If you want to have a good looking, cool, fun chick AND make her cum, having a normal size penis won't stop you. Your attitude and fear will, though. Raise your game, step into the REAL WORLD and look for chicks without issues, you'll be fine.

By the way, the kind of chick who is a total size queen and will mock you for being normal? Throw the scorn back at her. She is trash. Have some confidence and self respect.

like Asolo said, those girls are bitches anyway!!!

My friend a bit of advice with a comeback should the situation ever present itself:

I have unfortunately had the situation where a little tart decided to make a snide comment about my member. ( i am of average length if you must know, I often have stated I don't have the LX or GT model, but i don't have the economy model either, just standard equipment) It was in front of a bunch of my friends as well at my fraternity in college. She was a well known hosebag and everyone knew her reputation. So when she threw a statement my way about size i merely said. " I don't think my inability to touch the sides is necessarily my problem in YOUR situation!!" She ran off in tears as the entire bar erupted in laughter.

Keep that one in your back pocket in the unlikely event you ever need it. Although if you ever do I'm sure as many above have stated she will no doubt be the type of chick that isn't worth keeping around anyway.

@omgwtf
That is NOT nice.

Besides, everyone has preferences, why should it be any different for penis size?
Is a preference for big dicks for sex worse than white or black, size of wallet, etc for sex?

@omgwtf I don't get it, inability to touch the sides??? but if it makes them cry I might try and remember that one

I think he meant her vagina was so loose from fucking everyone, he could stick is dick in there without it touching anything. :))

SHE wasn't nice. She said i was little, i said she was big. You hit the nail on the head Orgazmo.

Like a hotdog down a hallway.

The other day, I was going down on my girlfriend and I said, geeze you have a big pussy, geeze you have a big pussy. She said, why did you say that twice? I said, I didn't.

🙂