How important is penis size to women?

They give birth to babies bigger than any cock, so I can believe it. I'm average length but my girth it's not, I always get comments on this from women, especially when receiving a blowjob.

How much girth do you have?

Is this going to turn into a penis comparison thread? 😀

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I thought I read somewhere that the average penis size is between 4.5"-5.5", so if you are 7 or 8" then your kinda special lol. As for women taking large cocks, well the vagina can enlarge when the woman is turned on, so its really not that difficult for some. I've tried larger dildo's with my wife and I think one was 7"by 2" and she said it was kinda painful, so each to their own I guess.

each to their own I guess.

That is a pretty safe and sound guess.

I know no such thing as "women". Women have too little in common.

On another thread there was reference to pictures of MRIs of sexual arousal and of insertion. The position of the erect penis in the woman was interesting and the way the uterus swivels to follow the end of the vagina allows for the differences in erection sizes. Average is good - that is why it is average.

I thought I read somewhere that the average penis size is between 4.5"-5.5", so if you are 7 or 8" then your kinda special lol. As for women taking large cocks, well the vagina can enlarge when the woman is turned on, so its really not that difficult for some. I've tried larger dildo's with my wife and I think one was 7"by 2" and she said it was kinda painful, so each to their own I guess.

I read that awhile back too. Not sure if I believe it since I've only seen one in person that was around 5". To me average is 6-7" fully erect. I'd consider anything above 7" large and above 8" rock star status lol.

Thought I would add a woman's opinion here. The fact of the matter is, size does mean something. But it is a bit of a Goldilocks situation. Too small can be a disappointment, and too big can, you guessed it, be uncomfortable. It's that one that is jusssst right. And yes, women do talk about these kind of things.
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Girth matters more for them. The average 'erect' girth for men, if I recall, is around 4.5 ~ 4.8 inches.Saying this, I'd wager that the ideal average for some women is 5.0 ~ 5.5.

But even in amateur porn all men have really huge cocks. This is depressing.
I mean if huge cocks were that rare then how come even in amateur porn the men
have huge cocks?
I used to think everybody with a huge cock automatically ends up in the porn business
but now I think even totally normal people out there have huge cocks and you don't even
know it. This makes it even more depressing when even "normal" people have huge cocks. 🙁

But even in amateur porn all men have really huge cocks. This is depressing.
I mean if huge cocks were that rare then how come even in amateur porn the men
have huge cocks?
I used to think everybody with a huge cock automatically ends up in the porn business
but now I think even totally normal people out there have huge cocks and you don't even
know it. This makes it even more depressing when even "normal" people have huge cocks. 🙁

Because porn business is still show business. Lot of women in amateur porn can also look pretty attractive, so all women are pretty attractive right? Of course not.It's just ways to make it look gaudy, exciting and loud for the viewer's interest. Unrealistic is probably a way of describing it.

Similarly to a lot of Aneros videos out there, guys typically shake violently and moan loudly. That's not really what happens on average, yet it's more exciting than just watching somebody relax there for 30 minutes.

It really comes down to how important is it to you.
To me its irrelevant, whatever the perceived notion to some women might be that bigger is better is up to them.

On another thread there was reference to pictures of MRIs of sexual arousal and of insertion. The position of the erect penis in the woman was interesting and the way the uterus swivels to follow the end of the vagina allows for the differences in erection sizes. Average is good - that is why it is average.

Oh! Was it in my thread or somebody else found more of these?

Even drawings seem to be rare.

Thought I would add a woman's opinion here. The fact of the matter is, size does mean something. But it is a bit of a Goldilocks situation. Too small can be a disappointment, and too big can, you guessed it, be uncomfortable. It's that one that is jusssst right. And yes, women do talk about these kind of things.
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Thanks for bringing your angle in. Nice to read you again. I hope you made some interesting discoveries since last time.

But even in amateur porn all men have really huge cocks. This is depressing.
I mean if huge cocks were that rare then how come even in amateur porn the men
have huge cocks?
I used to think everybody with a huge cock automatically ends up in the porn business
but now I think even totally normal people out there have huge cocks and you don't even
know it. This makes it even more depressing when even "normal" people have huge cocks. 🙁

Bro wtf! Porn is completely unrealistic everyone knows this! Nobody tries to make love by savagely stabbing a girl's sweaty clam to death with the biggest dick they can find. You think normal guys want to have their normal 6/5/4 inch dick on display? If a guy has something special he wants to show it off so naturally this type of guy is more likely to get it out on camera even (especially) at an amateur level.

1. Be proud of what you've got
2. Know how to use what you've got
3. Find a girl who's compatible

I've got 5 inches and sometimes I just let my girl straddle me and do her thing, just over half way in she can grind my tip against her spot, back and forwards not up and down, she can get off like this no problem. This does nothing for me, I just love watching her have fun like this. I have no doubt she could do it with a smaller dick and I won't get into details about her "capacity" but she's not exactly restrictive so even the whole compatible thing isn't as important as knowing how to use what you've got (for both parties) I believe.

But what if a woman has had bfs before which were 7 or 8 inches then her vagina will be used to this and having a small cock in there will probably not feel that good. It's not like she has no comparison. A woman who only had sex with 1 guy who has 5 inches at least cannot compare.

I also imagine that for women a bigger dick is also more attractive when they do oral sex cause they have more to hold on to and more to suck on.

Even if there were no women on earth I'd still want a bigger dick. Jacking off with a huge dick must be much more fun cause you can jack it with 2 hands. A huge dick also have a bigger surface. Bigger surface means you have more tissue to feel something. I bet that a bigger dick also offers more sensation for the man than a small dick.

@dunz, I think the contents of your paragraphs 1 an 2 are incorrect. Length can be a real problem and hurt.
Your paragraph 3 does reveal what is really troubling you. Some of that is probably incorrect as the are only so many nerve endings. So size just dilutes the sensation.
Try a Bathmate, it may work for you.

I'm gay so take this fwiw. Not sure if a gay man's perspective on penis size is different than a woman's or not. For oral sex I'd rather have smaller, but for anal sex I'd rather have larger. Although not too large. Anything over 8" is pushing it for me. I have had larger than 8", but it took some doing. I think somewhere between 6.5-8" is ideal for me. For oral sex, I'd rather not my jaw ache and end up gagging on a huge one. The one thing I would change about my penis is being circumcised. I always find myself wondering what I'm missing out on. Never understood why that is not considered genital mutilation in our society.

Is the anal canal more accepting to larger penis sizes than vaginas? Is there a certain depth where you hit a wall?

@dunz serious question are you insecure? What kitsune says pretty much sums it up. If you are worried about your partners past get a virgin. I think you might watch too much porn or are very young or something. Porn is not real. .... any if it. The white guys dicks are often not as big as they seem. Camera angles clean shaven etc help create the illusion of length and girth.

Oral in a huge cock is tiresome. Women don't focus on cock size incessantly, We think about it talk about it but in the end a reasonable woman will choose other qualities over that. Porn is just that, people being paid to make the average person think it's normal and they are inadequate.

@dunz serious question are you insecure? What kitsune says pretty much sums it up. If you are worried about your partners past get a virgin. I think you might watch too much porn or are very young or something. Porn is not real. .... any if it. The white guys dicks are often not as big as they seem. Camera angles clean shaven etc help create the illusion of length and girth.

Oral in a huge cock is tiresome. Women don't focus on cock size incessantly, We think about it talk about it but in the end a reasonable woman will choose other qualities over that. Porn is just that, people being paid to make the average person think it's normal and they are inadequate.

Amen, Deva!!!!

I'm not super hung but larger than most. A majority of women that I've slept with or messed around usually say the same thing. Visually it is exciting but marathon sex gets painful.

Also be content with what you have. Sure we could always be larger but it doesn't really mean the sex will be better.

Perhaps it's oversimplifying on my part but I think the sluttier the woman the more she will crave a big dick

Yes I am insecure. I mean women have so much "power".
Women do not have to be afraid to get naked cause there is no surprise like in men.
If a woman has huge tits or small tits is visible even with clothes and breasts can also look good when they are small and they are not necessary for sex. But it's much different with the penis.
And women can also make the man feel bad about himself when they say that his dick is too small. They have a lot of power and this is not good.

Being of a generation raised by single mom, I don't think that women are the answer to all your problem. Have you ever had a woman tell you that your dick is too small ? That would be so tactless in an intimate situation that is so freaking unlikely to happen, whereas the contrary can and do happen as it's flattering and more befitting of the situation.

@dunz, your last post was really scary. I would seek some guidance.

@dunz, your last post was really scary. I would seek some guidance.

This is the state guys can end up in after a few weeks/months of failed Online Dating.

A woman might say "oh my god you're tiny!!" if you have micropenis or anything under 3" inches. They might do it with 5" inches, but they would probably be a super slut and have seen a lot and that's probably why they are seeing you naked: they get it on with men a lot and are about to get it on with you. But honestly, if you are in the average range or even a little under, most women aren't going to laugh you out of the room.

@dunz it is not a one way street, girls attacking guys over penis size. A man can just as easily get a woman naked, and like you said there "are no surprises with women" that's not true and also very judgmental. You could say "oh my god your clit is like a penis!" or, "do you have a penis?!?!" if she has a well endowed clitoris. Imagine that! She's a woman for crying out loud, and a man has the potential to claim she is a different sex. As a man, you are a man, you have a penis and testicles. You don't have a vagina. No surprise there!! So don't go claiming this "women can attack men because they have 'nothing to hide'" crap because its not fair and you're putting yourself in the women's shoes of those who you think hold the "power" to dick-shame men who are small. You could even say she was boy-like if she has very small breasts and uses a padded bra to hide that fact. Dude, women are sensitive over their bodies, every part of their bodies. It's not just having a cock that makes you self conscious of what you have or don't have, get a grip dude. In that case, then men have all the power if, to a man, it doesn't matter what a woman has going on: she can't be shamed according to your definition. That's not fair.

Breasts can be very necessary for sex depending on the woman. Some women may need nipple stimulation to cum...believe, I know from experience 😉

@ isvara

What do you mean with guidance? You mean a psychologist? Tried that already and they all sucked. And I'm not going to talk to a psychologist about small dicks lol.

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Okay, if a woman had gigantic labias then it would also be awkward but if she has a normal vagina and normal breasts then she really doesn't have to worry. But for men it's different. Women can always say that they are used to bigger cocks and that they are not satisfied or cannot orgasm or don't feel full enough.
And especially if a woman looks really good then I am sure she also demands a lot and she will not accept it if the man has only an average penis.