How does Sweet spot feel like?

The "sweet spot" usually refers to an area on the perineum, where the p-tab makes contact. I don't usually feel anything from that area, except when my prostate is really activated. When that happens, my sweet spot appreciates some gentle massage from the p-tab. I've been surprised how little movement is necessary when the sweet spot is awake, I always assumed I needed a big stabbing in-and-out motion, but a tiny backwards and forwards motion is all I needed to feel nice there. It's almost like it's on the surface of the skin, rather than something I needed to dig in for.

When the sweet spot action is at its peak, it seems to merge with the prostate pleasure, almost as if there's an electrical current running in a line between them. I never imagined it was possible to experience pleasure coming from two places at the same time... I've always been so focused on a single source point, that it really surprised me... it's like it defied the laws of the universe.

Unfortunetly next session didn't give same nice feeling.

I find it fairly typical that one session will be different to the previous one. To avoid frustration, I'd say you should stay open to a different experience every time. When you go into a session expecting to feel a certain thing, you might not be open to pleasure from other areas... and there are a lot of different areas, types of pleasure, and general vibes to explore.

@clenchy

Thanks,

Today my body was more "electrical" than ever before. My body  from knee up to my  shoulders had a warm,tingly feeling and of cause nerves between were stimulated, felt like there were no meat between bones(trembling nerves) in the area below my belly. I also got my firsth orgasm (dry) with Aneros. You were righ, every time is different.     

• Regards, Buttin

Good job on your progress ! As for the perineum "sweet spot", I believe it can help enhance the experience for a lot of users but getting feelings there is not absolutely essential for all men. I have sensitive skin and need a lot of padding under the tab to avoid irritation so I feel very little pressure on the sweet spot and get Super-Os nonetheless. 

I do stimulate and get pleasure from the perineum outside of Aneros sessions, so I'd say experimenting is key to see if it will enhance your sessions OR cause discomfort OR be "neutral" for you at that particular point of your journey.

Posted by: @zentai

I do stimulate and get pleasure from the perineum outside of Aneros sessions, so I'd say experimenting is key to see if it will enhance your sessions OR cause discomfort OR be "neutral" for you at that particular point of your journey.

@zentai , I too spend a lot of time stimulating my perineum which gives me great pleasures but no orgasms.  Can you share more details on your perineum pleasure experiences?

@ggringo

Yeah sure ! I'm sorry to say that's it's nothing revolutionary, but here's what I do : 

For me it ends in an ejaculatory orgasm each time, I can't get MMOs this way, so either I stop before orgasming, or I get a wet orgasm with refractory period etc. I use two different methods. 

First one is laying in bed on my side, with my arm behind me I'll massage the perineum / sweetspot using two or three fingers with pretty firm contact. I'll press and go in a circular motion. The key is to relax all butt / quad muscles. I would have to check on an anatomy chart to confirm, but the way I feel it is that there's a lot of small muscles, tendons, etc. that are in the way, and being relaxed gives you more access to directly massage the prostate externally. So if my arousal level is high enough and my muscles relaxed, I really feel it, but it's not as powerful as internal stimulation. Sometimes I'll orgasm just by doing this, sometimes pulling back on my cock for about 10 seconds will trigger it. Kinda hit or miss and not really better than a traditional orgasm but the build up feels good. I mostly do this when I'm very aroused after playing with a wand or dildo for some time and want to finish without the toy. 

The other method is sitting upright on a chair that has some padding. By relaxing all butt and leg muscles and angling my upper body a little, some of the weight gets directly on the perineum / prostate. Now I gyrate slowly and with both hands free, can caress my body as much as I want. If everything is right, this will get me close to the feeling of a traditional orgasm except that I can sustain it for a long time without ejaculation. For some reason in this scenario my penis is less sensitive and I can masturbate at a medium pace and I don't have to "hold back" like normal edging. I found that I can do this while browsing the web or reading (normal stuff, not erotica) and just get this continuous "almost coming but not quite" feeling, which is pretty good in itself. 

When I decide I'm done I just increase the gyrating and stroking speed and stay relaxed, at that point I'll come almost instantly. 

Hope it helps ! 

My sweet spot isn’t a sensitive area in and of itself. There are no nerve endings on the skin there that generate pleasure. The only sensation I can attribute to the spot itself isn’t pressure. And when I put pressure on it it helps me have an orgasm, when coupled with prostate or other play. It is strange, because it is like an invisible sensation, that I can’t feel but that acts as a catalyst for prostate or testicle or anal orgasms (they are all connected for me, but depending on where the stimulation is the orgasm can be located elsewhere).

If I am using a dildo or toys or fingers that don’t have a tab, often times I press my sweet spot to put me over the edge. And with toys that do have a tab, I like to put my fingertip on my sweet spot and let the toy dance around on my fingernail. This creates imbalance and also allows me to press harder on my sweet spot while letting the toy move freely.