How do you NOT Super-T and Super-O Instead?

Not sure, for me super t with an aneros inserted I would need to mastubate or tense really hard inside to make that happen.

no penile stimulation whatsoever? If so, that's a HFWO like I am able to get. Its a great feeling but not quite where I want to end up. Enjoy the Journey!

Hey @Spectre ,

I hoped some of the veterans would jump in because your question is so fundamental. @rumel usually throws in a plethora of good threads and proven advice.

However, it seems like right as I'm about to achieve something great, cum starts leaking out and I have a traditional orgasm. This results in what feels like a bruised prostate

Jeah, the contractions during a traditional wet-o can be quite forceful. I remember the same discomfort when I had my first wet orgasms with the helix in.

I understand the concept of contracting my PC muscle just enough to trigger involuntary twitching in other areas, and I get a partial erection (just in the base of my penis), but beyond that I'm lost.

Yes, no... kind of. The involuntary twitching is often described as the driving force behind the super-o, but I find this to be just a self-fulfilling prophecy. The twitching is a clear sign of (deep) arousal. It's more of a symptom than a cause. See, woman (often) show the same signs on their way to climax (moving hips, twitching pelvic muscles) without them being the actual cause for the ascent. The idea that the twitching will start an automatic cascade of building arousal comes from the fact, that the aneros is moved by the muscle twitching and thus can create new arousing sensations. And here comes the catch: the key is the ability of your brain to receive that sensations and turn them into arousal. It's not the involuntary twitching that gets you off. If that was the case, every vibrator would be good enough for the job. It's your brain being super aroused by the sensations that are generated through the twitching.

If I continue down that path, I just climax and that's it.

Hm, that sounds like you are ascending on the "wrong" path indeed. @JD05 already asked: is there some penis-touching involved? If not: are you cut and may have a too little skin left on your shaft? If that's the case, the erection puts strain on your frenulum, which is directly hardwired to your prostate & seminal vesicles. Stimulating the frenulum (a tightly pulled back foreskin is enough of stimulation when you are super aroused) puts you on the classic ejaculatory path.

Help?

Hm, I don't want to start re-inventing the wheel. I'll just give you some proven buzzwords to search the forum for:

• kegels (activates the sensual abilities of your pelvic floor)
• try the peridise (it's too small to give a "beating" and forces you to build sensory awareness instead of just adding stimulation)
• tantra & kundalini (the concept of chi and chakras, get in touch with your nervous system)
• KSMO (orgasmic breathing)
• amygdala clicking (the ultimate proof, that it's not the prostate that's magical, but your brain)

You may also:

• try a different massager model
• work on your mindset: go into the session only with the goal to relax (like in a jacuzzi)
• read more: like this entry from me or this book

I hope, I could help a bit.

Cheers, Unfug

Nice, thanks. The answer is no, I don't touch my penis when the device is in ever.

OK, , @Unfug unintentionally goaded me into trying to find some previous threads addressing the issue of retarding unwanted ejaculations. Here are a few threads I thought to be most relevant, Does the Aneros make you ejaculate?, Avoiding ejaculation during orgasm?, Hands free ejaculation being an obstacle and in the thread How to avoid ejaculation? I posted five ideas toward achieving this goal. I hope you can find some useful information from your fellow Anerosians in these threads. Good Vibes to You !