Hmmmm it just stopped.

You changed lubes recently, maybe that might be a factor??????? 😕

@braveneworld I switched to Shea Butter for a little bit then went back to Vaseline and Probe Thick and Rich. How would the lube change thing so drastically?

@xtimedt69I doubt that the type of lube you are using would make much difference in this case. Very many "Aneroseans" use either Vaseline and/or shea butter with success.

I have used both with equal success. Mostly, I use shea butter and reserve Vaseline for travelling or if I decide on an impromptu session early in the morning. The only problem with shea butter is that it does require a little preparation before going to bed at night.

Seems to me that you have just reached a dry spot and that this will pass. Try not to get too hung up by it and keep regular sessions going. I have been through this experience too. It seemed to last for a while but by keeping the faith, I came through it.

Good luck!

@xtimedt69, i agree with @pommie, probably just a couple of dud sessions. I had a string of duds last for almost 2 months! It happens, just dont get hung up on it. Everyone's different too, so it might only last a couple of sessions, the important thing is to just enjoy what you have and not let yourself get frustrated.

@xtimedt69 I only mention the lube because if it all went wrong shrtly after that then you go back to what you know works.Have you tried using the aneros audio challenge audio in case it is a stress thing, mind noise.
I do agree you can just go through a dull period.

I am not frustrated as much as curious why it just turned off.

@ineverknew @Pommie I just raleted this to @braveneworld
When this all stopped was right after this (I don't talk about her much here anymore because some guys are not as lucky as I am and I am sensitive to that) :
The wife gave me a BJ with it in, then a couple of days later she decided she wanted me to do her with it in and I did. Both were incredible. Then I didn't have a session at all for two days. Once I started having sessions again, that was when there was nothing. I was wondering if you can overstimulate the Prostate causing it to got into a state where it doesn't respond for a while.

@xtimedt69 just a idea maybe try a session and what ever the out come try a super T at the end. leave it in and relax for a hour and see what happens and if you can manage it wank another super t out.

Long shot but it might work like a reset switch you may have flipped your circuit breaker dude! 😀
I dont give a rats what other dudes might say about your wife your are a very lucky man and she is one in a million.
I for one would love to hear how much pleasure you receive from your wife and not get upity about it coz I was not lucky enough to get the same. I am sure most guy here would. Some guys are just jealous.


I went through a dull patch at one stage and after a super T i would get the ghosting feelings which helped my brain remember the, oh that feels good feeling.
Your journey has been different as we both know but it will come good, trust me ( I have not let you let yourself down yet, have I) 😉 My dull patch resulted in the purchase of the eupho but in your case you have other models anyway.

Man I can only imagine how hard the aneros was thumping you as your wife gave you your BJ and then you did her with it in. Poor prostate.

@braveneworld It was THE BEST BJ I have ever had in my entire life. The Aneros was going from start to finish.

Sounds like a dry spell. It will pass. Did you encounter any new stress before things stopped? I've found that can be a real damper. Otherwise, enjoy with your partner and don't worry, let us know how things go.

Make sure to show the appreciation she deserves!

Xileh

@Xileh @braveneworld I think brave hit on something he told me I might have bruise it. Tonight it felt bruised I do show her appreciation.

Update: Still not getting much feeling. I can detect a little tingle every once in a while. I will continue to try. I imagine I will be forced by circumstances to refrain for a couple of days then we shall see what happens.

@xtimedt69 when your not feeling the best i have found it is best to give it a rest.

Hey man!

I think you`re right. I think you overstimulated it by the movements while having sex 🙂 I haven`t had a session for three weeks, just got tired of it I guess 🙂

Went to Spain instead 😛

Spain. That is just great. I went to shivery , Kentucky. Anyway some feeling is coming back. Oddly during sex it is better.

@xtimedt69 clarify Oddly during sex it is better.

Whats better? what is "it" with aneros, without. What is dude? 😕

@braveneworld without the device. My orgasms during sex last long feel deeper and produce more liquid.
BTW - a tingle is returning. But it sure feels different than before. Not as intense.

@xtimedt69 intensity comes with time and practice. fear not!So then it looks like a rewiring event has taken place for you, thats not so bad and certainly good for your sex life (if it could get any better) 8-> Looks like wifey will get more of a mouthful too =P~

Well I started this post almost a month ago. I still am getting almost nothing. I get some little tickles occasionally and try to build on them, but not like anything I was getting before. I will sometimes get a deep contraction, but there is no sensation at the end of it, just pressure.
I have tried the PS-New, Maximus and Progasm. I suppose I will just lay off of it completely for a few weeks and see what happens.

@xtimedt69 when your ready to get back to it you know where i will be: here right where you left me.

Well I started this post almost a month ago. I still am getting almost nothing. I get some little tickles occasionally and try to build on them, but not like anything I was getting before. I will sometimes get a deep contraction, but there is no sensation at the end of it, just pressure.
I have tried the PS-New, Maximus and Progasm. I suppose I will just lay off of it completely for a few weeks and see what happens.

Good call..

I ain't going anywhere. Just not doing the sessions.

@xtimedt69, just remembere its a journey, not a destination. These periods of nothing happening are normal and will pass. I just got done with a long one, now things have improved immensly. Take a short break and come back refreshed.

@braveneworld, you crack me up! lmao

@ineverknew I realize it is a journey. I am puzzled why the sensations stopped. I can have regular sex and start stimulation afterward and get sensations.
@braveneworld cracks me up too! He has become a good friend.

Now THAT is a good question @xtimed... Why? Why for the love of god can it just stop all of a sudden? Any thoughts? 🙂

Goddamnit...

@Alex_xxx nobody knows how it starts what it stops is a mystery of biblical proportion!

Not only that it mysteriously stops and starts, but why do your sessions change and sometimes become more intense after the dry spell?

Xileh

Not only that it mysteriously stops and starts, but why do your sessions change and sometimes become more intense after the dry spell?

Is it perhaps a period of learning, reflection and consolidation?

How long should I wait? I don't know why but even without the "BIG" events I still like the feeling of it.