Hitting the right spot

Gauging my experience it took awhile before I really awakened to t he experience. About 16 months. Felt ok/good. Since then it had ramped up. Everyone is different. Key for me was not to feel the tool but feel what he tool was touching. That opened up my world.

Whats the device youre using @disposeof?

Whats the device youre using @disposeof?

@Sorena_ I have the Eupho Syn, Helix Classic and Progsam Classic the other device is a generic device but I cant remember what its called or where its from as i bought it a long time ago.

Getting somewhere with the Aneros is like building a bonfire. It takes time and preparation and persistence. The vibration device is like using gasoline on a barbecue, it gets things going fast but isn't usually sustainable. Imagine a survivalist starting a fire with no matches or dry wood. That's how one must start using the devices to build toward the Super O and beyond.

To get fire you need: Fuel/Dry wood (relaxation), Heat/Ignition (arousal), Air (breathing). Like blowing on a piece of smoldering tinder to get a flame, using the Aneros to amplify arousal toward orgasm is tricky and experience helps.

For the longest time I couldn't get anywhere with either "do nothing" or a lot of PC contractions. It took rereading the Wiki for me to realize that I'd missed a step. I needed to start with relaxation then gently progress to some deep breathing and very light contractions. I had to focus on arousal and the "ache" that would appear in my pelvis. That was when the first flames appeared.

Getting somewhere with the Aneros is like building a bonfire. It takes time and preparation and persistence. The vibration device is like using gasoline on a barbecue, it gets things going fast but isn't usually sustainable. Imagine a survivalist starting a fire with no matches or dry wood. That's how one must start using the devices to build toward the Super O and beyond.

To get fire you need: Fuel/Dry wood (relaxation), Heat/Ignition (arousal), Air (breathing). Like blowing on a piece of smoldering tinder to get a flame, using the Aneros to amplify arousal toward orgasm is tricky and experience helps.

For the longest time I couldn't get anywhere with either "do nothing" or a lot of PC contractions. It took rereading the Wiki for me to realize that I'd missed a step. I needed to start with relaxation then gently progress to some deep breathing and very light contractions. I had to focus on arousal and the "ache" that would appear in my pelvis. That was when the first flames appeared.

Would'nt you also say it was teh regith device as well, @Mo_Bosco? or have you had this same success with your devices? have you had subsequent sessions since your breakthrough?

Yes, absolutely, the right device can make a big difference. I am currently using the Eupho cause it generates the most sensations.

Currently far more success A-less. Had a mind blowing multi dry O, A-less session yesterday. Started quite prostate aroused, that helped big time. Chose to add direct, light penis stimulation. That became a short cut to the O's. Tried to limit ab contraction when the O's hit. Relaxed into them. Had some involuntary body shaking. Lost track of time for the first time :^) I'm hooked.

Shaggy answer:

A few thoughts on 'finding the right spot.' Not knowing whether this "spot" is a place in time or a physical "spot" I'll assume that it's physical rather than meta-physical.

Put another way, when did you last get out the marking pen and mirror, or have your partner carefully mark your 'sweet spot' And, if that was recently, have you checked to make sure your p-tab is stable on that spot 10 minutes into your session. Or, do you have p-tab 'migration' from misplaced or leaking lube?

Many times I've gravitated toward just the elements that produce the most immediate pleasure and I ignore some "crumbs of past learning" that contribute to a stable and balanced session.

First off... a question about "how balanced are the session elements ?" ... Is this particular toy emphasizing just the "sweet spot" on my Perineum? Or, do anus, anal canal, and Cowpers stimulation along with a heavy flow of pre-cum and a pesky erection compete for attention--yielding a big WOW-factor that fades quickly or overpowers the subtle tickling of the nerve endings on my prostate.

Each of the Aneros Prostate tools has a different shape and offers each man a different balance of feelings. In my first year I recall playing that sort of "toy of the week" game with myself. After 9 months I got back to basics with just one toy (Helix Classic) and one consistent p-tab location. Two months later I experienced more consistent auto-f u c k contractions and "Upper Chakra" energies along with my first whole-body Super-Os.

The Aneros Wiki is a comprehensive instruction manual that deserves a through reading a few days after a man lubes up his first Aneros Prostate tool. This document has over a decade of focus and content feedback by thousands of men. Authorship and Editorial work has been shared by small cadres at times and individualized rewrite at other times.

Somewhere around the 6-week point in one's "journey" the PC muscle sub-groups will be bulking-up and regular Kegels will influence their delineation. Perineum engorgement during the session may cause the p-tab to wander and the session to fade. This is a good time to get back to the Wiki section on "sweet spot" location and marking. I've used both the mirror and marking pen routine in the Wiki as well as having my spouse find my sweet spot and mark it for me. We prefer to use a 'pre-surgery disposable marking pen,' available from the local pharmacy for a buck or two. (you can also con one from your Uro-doc on your next visit) The Gentian-Violet dye will be visible for several weeks of gym-sweat and routine scrubbing with soap and water. Even though these pens are cheap I use an alcohol wipe to clean the pen of bacteria or fungus spores before and after each use.

So...

1. Read the Wiki every month or two until you Super-O. Then reread it annually.
Open the wiki to the section on sweet-spot marking and get to work ( http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Understanding_Your_Body#Sweet_spot )
2. Mark and occasionally re-mark your sweet spot location with some regularity. (It will drift as you muscle up). It may also drift slightly as your autonomic system adjusts to a better neutral position for a given tool.
3. Use the Wiki's two-finger "V" to position and re-check your p-tab location.
4. Until you Super-O with some reliability, stick with a single "orgasmic tool". If you want an Aneros to accompany your sexual foreplay, a BJ, or hand job pick something other than your primary orgasmic tool.
5. If you must "finish-wet," swap toys after you 'cool down' at the end of your orgasmic session(s).
6. Once your 'muscle memory' develops you can pay less heed to marking and re-checking. I've found that about once a year, the static (at rest) position for Eupho and Helix changes a bit. @Rumel once suggested that some of this "drift" may be more apparent in men like me who have BPH.

Even with a diverse array of anal play tools in my 'toybox' I've found that I do best when I alternate between just two "orgasmic toys" (Helix-c and Eupho-c). They make uniquely different contact with my 'sweet spot.' Other Aneros and "off-brand" toys serve other purposes ranging from anal support of nipple play to exploration of Kundalini effects. Some like SGX support sexual foreplay and MMO. Others are for 'clearing the fog of horniness' with a quick jerk.

When Eupho-c or Helix-c slides inside and engages my sweet spot, my brain and autonomic nervous system "know" what's in store and how to behave.

Enjoy.