An older dude that I work with could not say enough about this thing. His doctor recommended it for his prostatis, but he soon realized what great orgasms he has. His wife is past menopause and does not want sex anymore. He said he does not care now; the Aneros is better!
Since I am gay, he thought I knew all about prostate stimulation. However being a total top, this was new to me. I have seen a few guys who can get off with only anal stimulation but they are few and far between. I have unsuccessfully attempted being on the bottom. but it hurt way too much.
I thought I should try this thing out. I went on-line and ordered the small one (maybe a mistake). It said it was made for the Asian market and I am half Japanese and know I do not like things in my butt, so it seemed like a good choice. Also, from experience.I know that that Asian guys have tighter butts.
I was so excited when I picked the package at lunchtime at the post office, I called in sick a half a day and went home. I followed the instructions and lubed up. I used K-Y natural which could be a problem. It is great for jacking, but may not be good for anal things since it is supposed to feel like a “woman’s nature moisture”. I was surprised that it slid right in with no discomfort. I waited for 20 minute and then started the thrusts. I thrusted for about 10 minutes with no results. I did not even produce any pre-cum, like when the doctor does it to make a slide.
I left it in and went to computer. I read stories and watched guys on x-tube using it. I duplicated every technique i saw demonstrated and read about with no positive results. I felt a combination of the need to shit and blue balls. After two hours of this, I decided I needed to get off so I used my hand. After three stokes I shot but it was like ejaculation without orgasm. I felt kind of like I just emptied my bladder, not shot a load.
The fluid was also runny like pre-cum, not normal ejaculate. It did feel good to get it out of me. I was also glad it came out clean.
Boy was I disappointed. Even the straight guy I read about .who did it on dare, with a real aversion to things up his butt got off and plans to do it again.
Any suggestions!
j_ethan,
Welcome to the Forum,
It is very rare for a bi, gay or straight man, to experience a Super-O right out of the box. It most often takes a period of time learning about your body and tuning into a whole new group of sensations associated with prostate massage. This period, called “re-wiring”, is highly variable in length and I believe greatly affected by one’s attitude.
Most of the videos you may have seen on X-tube are merely men using their Aneros massagers to achieve enhanced traditional ejaculatory orgasms, also called “Super-T”s.
I suggest that you do a lot of reading, starting with an excellent resource right here, the Aneros WIKI - http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Main_Page as well as information contained in the “LEARN” tab from the Aneros HOME page ( http://www.aneros.com/default.php ).
I would also suggest that you reign in your level of expectations, as the “re-wiring” process is not linear in its progress but takes place on numerous levels in your mind and body at differing times. It often takes some time for you to make the necessary psychological adjustments to begin to fully appreciate your body’s response mechanism to this new device.
Thank you so much. I will keep trying.
I think I was more disappointed that the st8 dude had a super O when he
was so grossed out by the whole thing. It is so cool that guys like yourself are being so supportive! EJ
Hey J_ethan,
Welcome.
I've had my Helix and Progasm for around a month or so and I'm still this side of a Super O but getting closer (see my post "Not a Super O but one hell of a Mangasm) http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2882
Just try to relax and not think about it (very hard for me to do) and just enjoy.
Nodak
Thanks for the reply. I will keep working on it!
I tried it for the second time, knowing I have to be patient. Later, I masterbated the tradition way. I had a normal orgasm and went into the bathroom to clean up and experienced something new---after shocks. I think I read the term somewhere on here but I did not imagine it. I have been through many earthquakes and it was just like their aftershocks. I had to sit on the edge of the tub to keep from falling down. That has never happened before. Thanks for your advice guys.
I will keep you updated.