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(@thou_shalt_eat_cake)
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So basically I have been getting into prostate stim more and more. The only toy that consistently feels good for me is the njoy wand or my fingers, which have been feeling better and better with each use.
What I feel: So, on the front wall of my butt there is a spot that feels really good to rub. After I have been playing for a little while and I am getting more and more turned on the front wall (which sort of feels like a far back part of my penis) to the front and back of my prostate reacts better and better to stimulation.
The things that feel best are fast strokes over my prostate and occasionally rubbing it with more pressure/pushing on it repeatedly and hard. This continues to feel better and better the longer I do it and in no time feels better than anything i have ever felt before, but the pleasure doesnt come in waves, it is constant, and only stops when it becomes so much that i clench and can insert my toy anymore. I only need a second or two to relax and then i can continue, and I pick up right where I left off.
The last session I had built in intensity for about two hours and at the end of that time I was pushing my kegels out so hard just to allow myself to keep going that at a certain peak of pleasure I peed. I did smell it and it was pee. I continued and again I began to pee after I reached a certain point.
The cause of my confusion was that I never had any waves of pleasure, no peaks or valleys, just a constant, really, really good feeling with the movement of the toy. Because of this I am still not sure if I have had an orgasm. I would almost prefer that it peak somehow, although im not sure what that would feel like.
Any advice or experiences that you can share would be hugely appreciated.


   
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My experiences have only been with Aneros devices, the Helix and the Eupho and I can honestly say that once I became rewired I have never needed to use hard and repeated kegels to help me achieve multiple orgasms. Once the device is inserted the light pressure it puts upon the prostate is usually enough to set the stimulation process going and once the involuntary shaking and contractions start you will begin to experience orgasms of varying intensity. Ihad two sessions today, starting wit an A-less session in the bathtub. For this I needed to maintain continual light nipple stimulation in order to keep going. Then later today I felt that my body needed something more, so I lubed up and inserted the Eupho. Almost immediately I began to feel pleasurable sensations and with the help of a few very light kegels and mental focus I began to experience a series of orgasms which I could relax and enjoy without any further input. The climax of the session came when the Eupho felt as if it were dancing over my prostate setting off sparks of pleasure and I was trembling, shaking and moaning, overwhelmed by the feelings welling up inside me.

This sort of thing is what I hope you will be able to experience once you have had more practice and become fully rewired, but I would caution against trying too hard as you seem to be doing.For me the secret has been relaxation, mental focus and letting the Aneros work for you, which it surely will if you allow it.


   
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(@smudgefish)
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BREATHE, and concentrate - 'mental focus' as @wulff says.

Try very deep breaths pulling the breath up into the back of your nasal cavity, experiment with breathing deep into your abdomen and expanding your chest. I find that if I breathe correctly the orgasmic feelings start quite fast and then it's just a matter of building that until you tip into an orgasm, don't fight it; and once you are orgasming don't forget to keep breathing right, that together with proper mental focus makes it get stronger and stronger.


   
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