help! in need of words of advice or encouragement

Well Obieguy, I have the opposite problem. I was once a frisky youngster such as yourself. Now in my mid-twenties, I find it almost impossible to get all that turned on anymore. I have to go like a week without touching myself in order to be "in the mood".

So I guess my suggestion to you (and this is totally experimental, i'm not saying it will work) would be to completely wear yourself out sexually. Maybe masturbate traditionally a few times in one night, watch porn, just really go overboard with it. Then the next night see how you feel...? I don't know it just makes sense to me. Hope it makes sense to you.

Good luck.

- Emp

(this post was edited 2006-08-31 14:01:39)

Hey Obieguy,

For what its worth, here's some advice from an older guy: Why not try to slow down things down? When you get too excited, get into a more comfortable position, stop contracting, close your eyes, and breath deeply. You will find that by relaxing your body and mind, you allow your sexual energy to build to a higher level from which you will experience stronger, more explosive non-ejaculatory orgasms.

Realize that you are on a journey of self exploration, and that you will miss many of the pleasures of this journey if you race to your old destination. Good luck on your journey

Charlie