4 tries now can't seem to get it. can't really feel anything hitting prostate. use tons of lube.
how dom i get it to hit the spot?
The "tons of lube" may be part of the problem...the saying of "too much of a good thing" comes to mind... Too much lube could create more of a "barrier" than a "film" for lubication...
Also, "tons of lube" may be bad for your body since the rectum absorbs liquids into the bloodstream. The facts on this issue are still unverified but common sense would suggest possible negative effects...
Also, it takes a long time to get those neat sensations...practice, muscle development, patience, etc. may be needed too.
Hope this helps.
you should be able to feel it...just do a hard contraction and hold it for 30 seconds or so...am not understanding what u mean? you are inserting it the right way?