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10/09/2025 1:38 pm
Just bought the blue MGX Syn Trident which is my first anal device. Some backstory to my reason for buying it.
Several years ago I had to have an emergency fasciotimy on my right calf due to compartment syndrome from a blood clot. My rt calf is now completely numb from the knee down, stays swollen and I have permanent nerve damage.
Ever since this has happened, I’ve had issues with erections and ejaculation. I’m under the care of a urologist and they’ve prescribed the tadalafil, which does nothing for me, and a few months ago prescribed Alprostadil which is an injection. They also prescribed a pump. I’ve never had luck with the pills, the pump works to fill the penis with blood but that’s about all it does. The injection is great for my wife but I’ve still got very little, if any, sensitivity in my penis and rarely do I orgasm. I will sometimes go weeks without an orgasm and when I do, most of the time it isn’t an extraordinary one. My wife doesn’t like to give oral but will sometimes do it but not to the point of orgasm. I’ve started eluding to how it feels when she’s rubbing around my scrotum about how good it feels in the Peronism area and around the anus. Not sure yet how she’d feel about dabbling there. I know she’s adamant about me not touching hers, although I have started kissing and licking that area more so over the past few months.
I’ve recently been curious about the prostate and wondering if my nerve damage and possible circulation issues from my leg are affecting my prostate which is in turn, affecting my sensations during sex. Sometimes I’ll lose the erection mid sex and sometimes I won’t even get one. Even though I’m excited and love pleasing my wife orally.
Prior to the leg thing, I was always one to make her orgasm first because I was over sensitive and would orgasm within minutes.
I bought the trident yesterday while out of town and have used it a couple of times. I’m not quite sure what I’m supposed to be feeling. There’s no overwhelming feeling nor a sensitive feeling. There is some leakage but nothing like an orgasm and I’m still flaccid.
Am I on the right track to think there’s something messed up somewhere with my circulation and nerve issues?
Not quite sure how to break the news to my wife either about buying the Trident.
Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
This topic was modified 2 months ago by gdhoward
10/09/2025 4:59 pm
First let me welcome you to the Aneros Forum. If you haven't already done so please read through the Sticky threads in the Newies Nook forum.
I’ve recently been curious about the prostate and wondering if my nerve damage and possible circulation issues from my leg are affecting my prostate which is in turn, affecting my sensations during sex. Sometimes I’ll lose the erection mid sex and sometimes I won’t even get one. Even though I’m excited and love pleasing my wife orally.
This is something you need to discuss with your doctor
II bought the trident yesterday while out of town and have used it a couple of times. I’m not quite sure what I’m supposed to be feeling. There’s no overwhelming feeling nor a sensitive feeling. There is some leakage but nothing like an orgasm and I’m still flaccid.
Prostate play often does NOT cause an erection so don't expect that. You may cycle through erect-flacid states, this is quite normal. New users may take awhile to start to tune into the subtle sensations these Aneros devices generate, you need to learn to be patient with yourself as you learn the process.
Am I on the right track to think there’s something messed up somewhere with my circulation and nerve issues?
I doubt it is a circulation issue but again talk to your doctor about your concerns. New users of prostate massagers often have unrealistic expectations of effects and sensations due to reading various hyped stories, just set the expectations aside and concentrate on learning the fundamentals of use. I'll bet you'll do just fine going forward.
I Not quite sure how to break the news to my wife either about buying the Trident.
It is best to be completely open and honest about your reasons for trying this device. A loving wife will be more accepting with your honesty than trying to hide anything from her.
Good Vibes to You!
10/09/2025 8:10 pm
Prostate play often does NOT cause an erection so don't expect that. You may cycle through erect-flacid states, this is quite normal. New users may take awhile to start to tune into the subtle sensations these Aneros devices generate, you need to learn to be patient with yourself as you learn the process.
@rumel is 100% on this! My session today was absolutely mind blowing. I cycled through erection-flaccid 4 times. I was in complete bliss the entire time!! Please flush your mind of expectations and concentrate on what you are feeling. Two years ago I was right where you are. I would go through an entire session and be so disappointed when I was finished. The rewire process is real!! Today I used nipple stimulation to have extremely hard erections and extremely hard orgasms!! You can’t depend on nipples the whole time. It feels amazing but you have to depend on the autof—k of the aneros to really enjoy Super Os!! Today the Helix Syn was amazing! Please don’t give up. It is definitely a journey! Keep us posted!
10/10/2025 6:54 am
@will704 totally agreee! The MGX Syn Trident is a winner with its smooth contoured head and ribbed stem! When it goes into autof**k mode you will be delirious with pure intense pleasure culminating in a string of Os and the big super O. May take some time but sounds like you’re well on the way!
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10/10/2025 7:49 am
@will704 thank you for the reply and advice. My frustrations are mainly from not knowing wtf my issues are. I don’t mind pleasing my wife orally and with toys at all, my main frustrations are the lack of sensations and not getting/maintaining erections. It was never an issue before my leg issues is why I think I went there with the circulation and nerve damage issues. Could all be in my head as well I suppose. I’ll definitely keep trying with the new device and hopefully I can get her to go along with it.
10/10/2025 11:27 am
@gdhoward one fun and pleasurable experience is wearing your aneros device while going down on your wife. If she’s enjoying what your doing and your enjoying what aneros is doing, it’s a win, win! If you get excited from giving her oral, there is a good chance the excitement with enlarge your prostate as it should when you’re aroused. When your prostate enlarges slightly, it make the device have more contact. When the 2 meet, you will know. Great time to have the conversation about the new device with the wifey while she’s under your spell.😜
I did experience a time in my life where back pain was preventing me from having an orgasm period. I hurt so bad I would loose my erection and could not enjoy having sex or even receiving a hand job from my beautiful wife. Once I got that behind me it’s been great again. My wife did give me some funny looks when I introduced her to me wearing the aneros. She knows what a freak I am so it didn’t surprise her. She benefits from it too when it’s part of us being together. I definitely have my share of alone time as well. Have a good conversation with your Doctor about what you’re experiencing and see what can be done to help with your concerns. You deserve to have pleasure and it’s normal to have the desire to do so. The doctor should be willing to help you with your concerns.
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10/10/2025 1:53 pm
@will704 thanks for the reply and advice. I’ve got lower back pain as well and it’s only gotten worse. I never thought of that being an issue though.
I definitely love pleasuring her orally and most of the time, that’s how she orgasms.
I’ve also been seeing my urologist, he’s the one that prescribed the injections. I’m almost at a loss and damn near willing to try anything. Will definitely be talking with the wife as well.
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10/30/2025 1:59 am
Hi all - I received my new toy two days ago (Helix Syn) and believe I’m seeing results already, though not knowing what to expect I wanted to seek the advice of some experts first of all!
- I only had 30 minutes yesterday; within just a few moments I had what I can only describe as some very ‘pleasurable’ feelings.
- These subsided soon after; I then focused on my breathing. After 10 minutes or so my leg legs and hips started to twitch; after five further minutes, my hips were gyrating almost uncontrollably. If I remember rightly, I could feel a ‘pounding’ inside (is this what they call the ‘autof**k’?) It all felt ‘pleasant’ but not what I would call pleasurable, i.e. orgasmic in any way. But I really enjoyed the experience.
- At the end, I had traces of pre-cum.
- Was desperate to continue, but I didn’t have enough time. Was also soooo hard not to start having a wank!
How is this sounding to you? Am I on the right track?
Is it usual that my hips were gyrating in the way they were without overwhelmingly pleasurable sensations?
What would you be doing next time if you and me?
11/03/2025 2:30 pm
The P-waves just ride them and keep riding them. They come and go and each is unique and they feel incredible when you just relax and let it happen. Yes the auto gyrating is perfectly fine and if you keep it up your whole body just might start shaking uncontrollably. Welcome to the Super-O you're almost there!
The only two things I would recommend is give yourself more time for a session and try rubbing your nipples to see what that feels like in the middle of your session.
This post was modified 1 month ago 2 times by FrostFire
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11/03/2025 7:17 pm
@frostfire is right! The nipples will ramp things up quickly. The autof**k is when you can literally feel the aneros moving in and out due to anal contractions. There is a great description on this site with visuals to show what it does when it’s rocking by itself back and forth. The precum let’s you know your headed in the right direction!!
11/04/2025 10:04 am
Hello chaps, my session was selfishly cut short today by a wife who left work FOUR HOURS EARLY! I’d put aside four hours, only had one 😭
I’m quite sure I managed to get in to autofu** mode, all very pleasant with lots of uncontrollable shaking, quivering, and gyrating, plus this time my lower arms and hands were practically immobilised through numbness. A tiny bit of precum. I’ll have to do further research into these p-waves, I’m not sure whether I’m having them. Hopefully I won’t be disturbed next Tuesday!
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11/15/2025 10:56 pm
@portagefaves It sounds like you’re well on your way to this new enlightening experience! Congratulations! As you develop the ability to fully control your pelvic musculature, you’ll need less time to achieve what when beginning will take much longer. My advice is simply don’t try to rush it. Its a long trip for the majority of us but savor each new milestone as you begin. Read the threads and wiki for guidance but travel at your own pace. You’ll feel new things as you progress and don’t be disappointed if you don’t progress as fast as you think you should or compare your experiences with someone else’s. We are wired to experience penile pleasure and can rub one out quickly but this is an entirely different path to orgasm. Focus on the new sensation and subtle feelings to make the muscle mind connection in your abdomen behind your cock as the massager moves. Slight contractions are better than hammering ones in my opinion but that me and may not be your thing. You’ll definitely know the AF when it happens as it is a result of the exhaustion of the pc and anal sphincters which “compete” with one another pulling the Aneros in and out effortlessly. Wishing you continued success!
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