I have been spending more time with my Aneros and enjoying and understanding it more as I use it. So far for me, letting yourself spend time and get use to it before you actually start to do any contractions seems to work for me. Also the right frame of mind is very important. If you can't focus on what you are doing, forget it. So my journey continues and someday I hope to reach that point of the big O. For now I am enjoying what I am learning about myself and the pleasures of the aneros.
Fizfit
That is a great attitude Fizfit, if you stay there mentally something good is bound to happen. 🙂