Water. Like putting your feet or a foot in some when things start rolling. I notice that the muscle that relaxes when you start to get off (at least for me) seems to be the same or near the same one that relaxes involuntarily when you pee. Last time I was having sex I noticed the temp of her vagina kinda made that muscle relax for me a bit. Just a thought.
Have I been asking too much? Seems like no one's saying anything anymore. Have I worn out my welcome already? I bought 5 toys since coming here the first time. Hope you are all well 🙂
Hey @Spanishguy69 ,
Have I been asking too much? Seems like no one's saying anything anymore. Have I worn out my welcome already?
That happens quite often. Maybe your post did not spark interest enough, maybe most of us can't give a helpfull reply. On the other hand, there are question that have been asked a thousand times and still spark lively discussions time and again.
Has anyone tried warm... Water. Like putting your feet or a foot in some when things start rolling.
Not with purpose but I get what you are refering to. I often have unplanned a-less sessions when I take a bath. The warmth and the feeling of being disconnected from the world helps alot to relax the muscles and turn your awareness inwards.
I notice that the muscle that relaxes when you start to get off (at least for me) seems to be the same or near the same one that relaxes involuntarily when you pee.
This is difficult to answer. You have quite a bunch of muscles down there. When you are untrained, you won't notice which muscle exactly is moving. Most of the time it's a couple of muscles moving at the same time. I highly recommend a kegel training regimen and this video to get a better feeling und understanding for what's happening in your pelvis.
Cheers, Unfug
I've had sessions in a hot bath that weren't bad, kept me more relaxed. Particularly noticed relaxation in the pelvic floor, but then my mind was searching for any sensation down there so....
Downsides, the water cooling limited time and positions are limited.
(You can see that people read your post even if they didn't reply right? It's just an odd question heheh)
Yeah I can see the views, lol. I was just being a baby 🙂 Thanks everyone.
honestly this is a pretty cool topic!
I've been trying to get into the whole "weightless" thing while using Aneros toys. And by weightless I mean like floating around in a big hot tub not a bath tub. I got to stay at a mountain cabin once that had a great whirlpool tub outside and it was amazing! But I think the thing that made it amazing was the water temperature, not so much the floating around like a sponge. The toy just kept moving and as my body worked itself around the 100 degree water, it was like the even body temp/water temp brought me to a state of almost sensory deprivation, which made the session/s in that hot tub sublime and out of this world.
I really think the warm water thing is a thing and I'd be interested to know if guys on the forum that use Aneros while taking a bath experience better/different sessions than out of the tub.
Hmmm... now I'm going to have to fix my jacuzi tub just so I can try it!