Happier, positive and making great progress

glad to hear everything is going well 🙂 Following the pleasure is probably your best bet and I would stick with that. For me, when I use the peridise, if I pull it out after things stop and reinsert it, for some reason it kicks things back into motion. Though they do stop again but it does prolong the pleasure.

@inhope --- You have clearly had a change for the better! I don't detect nearly the level of frustration expressed previously! I'm very happy for you and wish you continued success!

You're a great example of how unique this journey can be to each man!

Not having seen posts from you in the last couple of months, I was hoping you had found YOUR path and were enjoying things more! It appears I was correct!

Way to go buddy!

TG

@inhope,terrific news! I'm so glad to hear that things are working out for you at long last. It seems that patience is paying off after all. I must say though, that i'm not all that surprised to hear that it is the P3 that is doing the job for you. This one was my favourites for at least a year but am now finding that the P4 (smallest one) works even better.

Something for you to look forward to perhaps?

Thank you guys, nice to see you all again and that you're all still active here 🙂

You're right i don't feel frustration anymore, it does stem from the fact i now feel something in each session, which was my goal in the first place, took me nearly to my tenth anniversary with the aneros to get to this point but thats why i guess its called a journey!

The only thing i feel aside from happier is a little aneros dilemma, when i reach for a device i find myself so unsure at times which i should use, do i go for the one that gives me lovely pleasure but only when i have erections which never really last longer than half an hour? or do i try to get used to/make progress with another device that may or may not result in a poorer session? I guess there are harder decisions in the world! haha.

I do have one different question to ask those veterans here; i feel my prostate daily now, aneros or no aneros, i often get chairgasms too... anyway, is it possible to loose this feeling if one were to not have sessions for months at a time, do you need to 'renew' your rewiring so to speak? has anyone tried this?

Thanks guys!

Sounds great @inhope!

I don't think the feelings are going to vanish in a way that you have to start over. Sometimes maybe we just need to wake things up again. Like riding a bike, I think your mind knows what to look for now. Chairgasms are awesome, and for me they intensify with increased session frequency. If I take a break for a week then Aless is more difficult to conjure up, but I know it is there if I want it.

Good luck with this new phase of your journey!

In the Wiki, in the section labeled "Understanding Your Body", under "Rewiring"...is the phrase..."Becoming permanently responsive to non-penile forms of stimulation, as associated with the prostate, perineum, nipples, anus and rectum."

I'd say, with the length of your journey...It's going to be PERMANENT!

I know it's permanent with me already...and I LOVE IT!

TG

Great to hear Theme_Gasm, everyday is a prostate day it seems for me.

I decided on a whim to try the eupho again. I did the old 'do nothing technique', i had several rising arousal feelings in the prostate which also created super-E's as always and these lasted around 20-30 secs each. Each time though the erection and arousal would then fall, so to bring the arousal back I varied my technique such as a mild holding contraction at 10% or stimulating nipples or even just moving my legs somewhere new. Like a little break in-between each 'arousal' build-up. (note: the contraction of 10% would almost create its own arousal feeling, like i was watching some intense porn or something, like i said previously the contact of aneros to prostate equals an erection, which in and of itself is arousing!)


The 'orgasms' (not too sure if i can label them as such, but whatever they are... damn they're good) just got better and better, moaning more and more until the last one felt awesome, my cock pulsing, super erect like i was cumming nearly, but no semen (the cock could be because my cock is so hard, but I'm not sure). It then fell for the last time and the session was over (had to pee!) So i had what you could say is around 4-5 parts of my session that was really lovely, i seem to need real mental focus as in-between each arousal/erection i could easily quit thinking it was over, it was not so as i forced myself to try to stay focused and arouse myself in different ways using different methods. i wonder if there is a way to keep the nipple aroused after its been overstimulated? or is there more erogenous zones i could do things with (not penis/balls though)?


So the eupho has the same effect as the peredise, however it requires more mental focus and physical stimuli for it to be as productive as the peredise, which for me seems like an instant pleasure wand at the moment!


I feel i have some involuntary movement as well but not much , my goal is to get the prostate awake and generating its own feelings without so much effort from me, i think i have a way to go before i am fully rewired.

@inhope - Love my new Eupho! Smaller is better in this case I don't have the paradise set yet... something I get to look forward to. 😛

Small is definitely better for me, though i tried the progasm recently and it created permanent pressure which was lovely!, but i think it created more anal feelings than prostate, ultimately it stopped things, overloading my prostate nerves or something. I find that even the SGX is too big, too wide. I need narrow, small and possibly shorter devices. Eupho is pretty much just right and peredise is.... awesome. Just wish it was a massager and not an anal toy.

IMHO, any sense of being over stimulated, could be countered with a refocus to other places of stimulation, and then come back to your nipples later...works for me!

Yes, you are having orgasms! Orgasms don't all need to feel the same! Some big, some small...but if they feel as good as you described...they are orgasms!

Rewiring never really finishes, it only continues, on and on! Don't worry whether you are or not, you're making great progress!

TG

That's what I was asking theme_gasm, what other things can I do, what other things can I focus on to stimulate, what are these other places that you speak of? Always good to add new techniques to the repertoire!

Focus on any other place where you feel a tingling or any kind of stimulation. For example, when I get p-waves, my skin over much of my body become more sensitive, my feet become more sensitive, so I change focus all around my body, inside and out!

TG

Ah you mean mental focus, I thought you meant somewhere else I can touch. When I get sensitive or I get orgasms my feet get hot and the back of my legs get warm. That's about it. I am curious as to where the super o lies and what it might feel like, not that I'm chasing it yet.

I have a little update and another great session experience to share;

So there i was feeling super turned on today after my session yesterday, i didn't feel fully satisfied but the stimulation, pleasurable though it was, so today i could tell which kind of horny I was. This is another thing; I now know when I'm a certain kind of horny, for ejaculation or MMO horny, at first it was hard for me to differentiate, but now its way more obvious.

So it was the former i needed and didn't feel guilty when i masturbated to a lovely ejaculatory traditional orgasm. After a few hours i found myself MMO horney, its the time when my prostate 'fills up' post traditional orgasm when i notice it being more active.

There i was lying on my site, legs together up by my chest feeling incredible things. My prostate is warm, aching with the feeling of orgasm in there. My legs feeling hot, very close to what sunburn feels like, except not painful! All totally aneros less. No matter what the position i noticed, i have this contasnt river of pleasure in my prostrate , this is what i feel is missing in my sessions is that i need to focus to get this river flowing, the prostate energised as it were. This time however it was automatic and the contractions on helped to intensify the feelings.

Reading some erotic stories i found myself nearing orgasm, which did not materialise but damn it was good. I introduced the peredise and have different feelings, then the eupho which finally ended the session shortly after (wish i had left the aneros' out of this session)

A great experience and also, different to what I'm used to as well.

I have sessions every day now and it seems to be different each day as well.

I have to remind myself that what i experience is merely the tip of the iceberg.
I decided to put this popular video on my TV and followed what was being said in another session this evening, as i did so i was caught in a wave of total sexual excitement and thought it would lead to my best session ever:

http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=7eYaC-S767-#.VChM6FZhOf 0"> http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=7eYaC-S767-#.VChM6FZhOf0

I notice my rising and dipping arousal levels which means there is a break in my sessions, very often, unlike the river of pleasure running through his, which seems tied to his nipple stimulation, which as i say is an issue for me as mine become overstimulated too easily after a short time) The twitching and feeling of prostate dancing is noticeable too. It was a weak session, i faired better with my eupho and doing some mild contractions, which i believe are necessary for some as this is what gets the process of rewiring going.

One thing; his penis is more or less erect when he feels his orgasms, which is more or less the same as i what i experience. I know were not supposed to compare our own sessions with others but this guy at least explains a 'typical' session with the aneros and does so very well.

In another video (posted these before a few times) has full on erection of the entire length of the session, i feel it is a little more 'normal' an occurrence if this happens, i am little less hung up on this as an issue http://xhamster.com/movies/1623746/super_orgasm_with_aneros.html

Thoughts?

Another interesting byproduct of this journey, or rather my own journey.

When i now get an erection, anerosless for example getting ready to have sex or if i see something arousing I get pwaves similar to what i get in my aneros sessions, those that call what I've been experiencing 'orgasms' are then what i experience out of session and just getting a hard cock. Its good!