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(@theplaything)
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If it takes more than an hour during a session to get your first major dry orgasm, how do you last that long without running out of energy and interest? 45 mins in and I'm getting totally board and a little low on stamina. My mind tends to wonder and things just fizzle out.



   
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(@pslabs)
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It's important to enjoy each ride for what it is, not for what it could have become. I value even the rides where fucking nothing at all happens as an opportunity to release obligations and relax.

Launching a nice O does get easier with practice. It's also gets easier to recognize when continuing a session won't be rewarding. Struggling against boredom or fatigue never works out. Let it go with no regrets, and come back later when you're rested and horny. NBD.



   
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 rook
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@PSLabs

Nicely said and it checked all the important boxes. Great advice for newbies and for us old timers as well!



   
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(@smudgefish)
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Agree. It gets easier with time and practice, and there will still be dudd sessions even then. Knowing when to call it a day and not being too disappointed is important.



   
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(@omgwtf)
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If your mind wanders - you're distracted. Bag it and come back later because you're right it isn't gonna happen that session. Happens to all of us.



   
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(@theplaything)
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Sometimes it's like "I'm bored of this. Let's knock one out", other times it's "I'm so horny. gotta bang one out".

I also know when I'm tired or real world/silly stresses get in the way that the session will be a dud. I'm still smiling for a while after having my helix in but after the euphoria fades I feel a little frustrated.

Oddly enough the most success I've ever had was when I was hungover at Christmas time.



   
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