Hi everyone! I have been a silent reader for half a year now, and am very amazed and grateful for the experiences shared by everyone here. My own Aneros journey has been progressing slowly, and just last week, I experienced my first hands-free orgasm with the Aneros Helix Trident.
I was doing some Kegels with my Aneros, and halfway through, I started stimulating my own nipples. After about an hour in, I began to feel an amazing build up of pleasurable sensations in my prostate, all the time without touching my penis. Before I knew it, I felt a big wave of pleasure hitting me, similar yet different to the sensation I get before a traditional penile orgasm. However, I only "rode" this feeling for what seemed like only a few seconds, before I felt myself ejaculating. All this while, I did not touch my penis at all.
I want to ask my fellow more experienced Aneros users here - was what happened to me normal? I know that most of you have dry orgasms which seem to go on forever, whereas mine died down after I ejaculated. Would you guys have any suggestions on what I could do to stop myself ejaculating during my Aneros hands-free orgasm?
It can be normal. The nipples and the genitals have similar processing centers in the brain. They overlap. So touching nipples can definitley excite you take it to orgasm and ejaculation
@mingll, welcome to Aneros Forum. What @yankeecowboy is saying is very true. There is a definite connection between your nipples and your genitals. Not only has your prostate has awakened through your use of Aneros, but also your nipples. I suggest you play with and stimulate your nipples both during your sessions and also at other times as well! 😉
Agree with both of the above posts! Since discovering nipple play, have always incorporated into my sessions. Over time have experienced the connection between the nips and prostate and anal area. The pleasure generated between all three is enormous! Have had a hands free ejaculation several times and kept right on with session. Sometimes hard sometimes soft.
Would you guys have any suggestions on what I could do to stop myself ejaculating during my Aneros hands-free orgasm?
@mingll, here in the fourm you can find some recent posts about edging / edging sessions and ruined orgasms as helpful methods to separate orgasm from ejaculation.
It's said that you have to unlearn nexuses before you can forge missing links needed for rewiring your microcosmic orbit. Reading the book of Tantra master Mantak Chia about that topic has been a milestone in my journey.
Especially the knowledge about my Kundalini has been similar helpful to prolong and intensify my pleasurable feelings.
Last but not least I recommend to read "Urban Tantra", a very mondane discourse, easy to read even with a western mindset.
Please consider your age as a factor. Tantra teachers give special advice for every decade of a man's life. Many of us here are in their fifties like me or even in their sixties or seventies. You didn't mention your age, why some suggestion might be inadequate to your personal age. I must admit, in the contrary to your situation, I didn't achieve only a single hfwo* since starting my aneros journey two years ago.
(*hands-free wet orgasm)
Good vibes to you and please keep us posted about your further progress.
Mart
Thank you so much everyone! There is just so much to discover and so much to learn from all of you. To answer @SOwithoutAneros , I am a 30 year old guy, not sure how that would affect my experience with the Aneros.
I will try the suggestions on this forum and see where that leads me. Excited!
@mingll, I only can tell what some tantra masters teach about this topic - further discussed in this thread early this year.
Greetings, Mart
[From Mantak_Chia_The_Multi-Orgasmic_Man]
The Taoist ideal is to ejaculate as infrequently as you can, but every man can and should refrain from ejaculating for a period of time suited to him. In the words of Su NU, "One must measure one's own strength and ejaculate accordingly. Anything else is simply force and foolishness." Your strength depends on your age, your health, your state of mind, and your willpower.
Sun Ssu-miao, one of the leading physicians of ancient China recommended that men attain good health and longevity by ejaculating twice a month, as long as they ate healthily and exercised. He also offered the following more specific guidelines.
A man at twenty can ejaculate once every fourdays.
A man at thirty can ejaculate once every eightdays.
A man at forty can ejaculate once every ten days.
A man at fifty can ejaculate once every twentydays.
A man at sixty should no longer ejaculate.