Got my Black Belt in P-spot Orgasms

Wonderful @techpump! The O bomb! Love it. Save the nipples. I use a thin shirt over my nipples or put silicone lube on them. The silicone is the nuclear option 🙂

nuclear option, I love it! Thanks for the tip, will give it a try. They just get sore inside from me tugging on them, the skin is perfect though and irritation-free. I tend to pinch a little too much when it gets going really good 😉

@techpump that sounds absolutely fantstic 🙂 Thanks for sharing!

A thought on the nips - my better half has these relatively inexpensive adjustable nipple claps. You can have constant pressure from nasty mean to nice and gentle. Ever though about giving something like that a go? They have rubber coated "pinchers" with an adjustment screw.

Here is the link if you are interested. Nipple Clamps

@techpump, so let me get this straight. You have been using aneros for 14 years and it didnt click until using a g spot dildo? Or was it your wife being included that made all the difference? What caused the turning point? Curious.

@ineverknew

Not actually. I had used Aneros for probably 3-4 years when I wanted to use a g-spot dildo. I figured if the aneros targets the prostate, and the dildos target the g-spot, maybe the dildo will get me "there?" I needed to get "there," get to the super O that I knew was out there waiting for me. The ones you guys were getting. I was missing out. Aneros alone couldn't get me past that threshold, the "point of no return" for prostate orgasm. It always felt like I was going to explode bigger than from my already monumental traditional Os, but I could never get past that line; I could never have a dry O or super O.

Over the years I'd starve myself of orgasm for days and then use Aneros hoping that my horniness and need to cum would get me there. Never. G-spot dildo was getting me closer, but not there either. Finally, this spring, I wanted to wait as long as possible for a T orgasm. I teased myself, my wife gave me lots of head, we even had sex and I didn't cum, all to starve off orgasm until I was ready. I wanted to wait 2 weeks. On day 8 we decided to play together. I'd start with the MGX and she would caress/touch me and make me feel relaxed. I was getting closer than I had ever felt before. "use the dildo on me" was an organic thing to say to her. She did, and I was closer than I had ever felt before. Instinctively I grabbed it from her, "let me do it, I'm going to cum" I said, and two inward pushes of the toy brought my prostate to its first epiphany. I came. It was like a disco in our bedroom, I felt like I was in the middle of a hot nasty rave. When it ended, I felt so good all over.

So, I think it was being with her, her experience of knowing me and what makes me feel good, and her discipline to not touch my cock or let me touch it that finally got me "there." She was pinching my nipples during that first time too, and I think that unlocked my response as well. Also, not cumming for 8 days probably made it easier, but now I can have P-spot Os in the morning and again at night, and even have a T orgasm in between. I guess after that first time, I knew what it felt like, and how to get there. Now I can cum from anything in my ass (well, almost anything, some toys don't do it). She pegged me a few weeks ago and made me cum like 20-30 times from only her fucking me and no cock touching; it was like an orgasm every 30 seconds.

Last night I had an orgasm my wife tells me she has frequently. While I'm doing her, she'll start cumming and I keep the rhythm the same and she keeps cumming, like for over a minute sometimes 2 minutes. She gets "lost" she says. She says she feels alone in the universe because she is so inherently "one" with it. I was using Slightest Touch e-stim and lightly tugging my nipples and my orgasm started. My cock was over half full, and it felt like electrified cum was shooting out of me, I could feel it from the base to the tip of my cock with every pulse. I got almost fully hard as the O continued. I was murmuring "no, no" and "no more" followed by "yes yes, I'm still cumming" for well over a minute. The aneros kept steady hammering on my prostate, it never stopped, it kept going and going. I'd slightly tweak my nipple play and it would keep intensifying, like the build up to a T orgasm, and then cumming, but then another build up to something even bigger...but it was all just one big orgasm, it never truly stopped. I told my wife this morning about it and she said "yah, that 'lost' feeling."

That's my story and I'm sticking to it! I absolutely love prostate stimulation, and always have, I just never knew how good it REALLY is until this year 🙂

@techpump, well it sounds like things are going good now. 😉 Thanks for sharing. I kinda find myself in a similar drought. Trying different things to get my O's back. Ejaculation abstinence is one of the things I am trying also. I am no on day 19. It may be working because I had a very good session last night. Lots of new and very good sensations.

cool! What I really like is that I don't drain any prostatic fluid with Aneros use. None. Maybe a drop or two, three at best. With dildos I can milk loads out. I feel much more "relieved" after anal sessions if I milk. After serious 1-2 hour aneros sessions, I still feel like I need or should cum normally afterwards. It is extremely relieving and makes me cum a lot, a lot of fluid builds up during my aneros sessions. All this prostate pleasuring talk makes me want to give it another round tonight, I was planning on a traditional session but...I'm hooked on the feeling

what kind of dildo are you using?

it's a glass g spot dildo with like three round large ridges on the other end that terminate into a piece of glass that has a bunch of small raised bumps of a tear drop shape on it. I never use that end, although I should try again it's been a few years...I digress. whoops! Anyway, the glass shaft is totally cylindrical and straight, like almost an inch wide, 5/8" maybe, and has a classic not big and not too small g-spot curve. I've actually seen this dildo in model's photoshoots and videos before lol 🙂

Pegging is now a Basix 7" Slim pvc cock which feels amazing, by the way, and the Share, it's big for her but after sex for a while she can handle the insert 😉 She hasn't used the Share on me in a few years now, will be doing so next week...will update

yah these nipple clamps, must look into them

it took 14 years for anything to happen though @techpump? wow i thought i was bad having to wait 10 years!

no not anything, some "things" happened during that time. Involuntary contractions and extremely good feelings in my prostate always happened, they just didn't have that certain kick to them that could be classified as an orgasm or something close to it. Traditional orgasm with aneros in was, and still is, absolutely amazing. It is still the most relieved I've ever felt after an orgasm. Sometimes I'll cum normally for a week or more and near the end I'm shooting blanks: the orgasm pulse is there but no cum comes out. I'll do an aneros session the next day, and milk P fluid out with a stimulating g-spot dildo. Then cum with the aneros in and drain myself silly 🙂 But the for real dry orgasms and super Os, they didn't cum until May of this year. Before it was aneros movement="that felt good" to now its aneros movement="oh my god I'm cumming!!!" or "OMG I JUST CAME!!!"

It's the same for me! However I haven't had the dry o yet, what changed, or rather what did you do differently to enable dry orgasming? Just one day *poof* they happened just from your usual techniques? @techpump

@HopefulMMOer I have not attached the clamps during my sessions - yet. I have given it some thought though. I usually don't do a lot with nipple play as I focus myself inward. I always pay attention to my prostate and all the rolling sensations I get. I haven't had any O's of any kind yet unless it's a Super-T.
But my god I love all these sensations. Nipple play always feels nice to me, but it seems to 'distract' me from my internal focus and pleasurable sensations.

@HopefulMMOer So we use honey and small animals? That should encompass most of those sensations, right? Lol 🙂

@inhope
Someone posted here a few weeks ago if we have always maybe had dry Os or something similar all this time, only we just didn't know that's what they are. Like having dry Os without Aneros or any prostate stimulation. I started to think, "did I have dry Os all these years leading up to my first super O?" I don't think I did. After a dry O, there is a calm moment of clarity, like the 3 or so seconds after a traditional orgasm where its a "mind goes blank" along with a serene happy "nothing" kind of feeling, and then I smile and say to myself "god I just had an orgasm 🙂 " The way the aneros hits my prostate now, it's not anything different than before, it just feels like my prostate is okay with cumming on its own. This is all very, very hard to write about, and I do a lot of writing for a living!!!

I also opened up to dry Os much more when my wife gave me a Lingam massage with the MGX in me. In her hands, while she was massaging my rock hard cock, I had over 100 orgasms and was just pumping loads and loads of precum out. It was like a faucet! She brought me to traditional orgasm after almost an hour of this bliss and it was good, but not as good as all those Os. Not sure if you have someone to give you a massage like this, but it is very zen-like and centering, its not a cock-focused event it's a sex-focused event and your whole body, every part of it, is effected and plays a part.

I also modified my aneros mgx. I added an epoxy putty (safe for plumbing and its NSF potable water safe and tested) to the P-tab to make it more of a ridge that won't slide from side to side towards my legs. It would always wind up to one side of my perineum (mine is like a big thick wide ridge) and once I did the epoxy trick, it stays perfectly centered. It now also stimulates much more of my perineum and it is definitely making me have dry Os and more super Os now as a result!!! I just did this mod to my Eupho, it now makes me cum way more than before. I think the MGX now sits a little further away from me so when it sucks in during contractions, it hits my prostate a little more shallow and makes me get off way harder. It used to go a little too deep, that head part would always stay too far in and not interact with my prostate. I like the tip of it sliding across my prostate, that's what makes me cum inside. I think that's why I like penetration from dildos so much: feeling something hit and pass along my prostate is most pleasurable. I am using the Slightest Touch e-stim lately, but can have Os without it.

So @inhope I wouldn't say they just happened from my usual techniques, some things changed. It was a lot of old things mixed with new ways of doing it. Maybe I reached a point in my brain where it was finally open to relaxing and letting things move the way they need too? I'll think about this more and see. Last night was another champion night with my prostate, I came dozens of times and had a super O that made me not want to do anything else. Keep trying but don't try too hard!!!

for me it's slight/light pulling on my nipples along with pinching. It doesn't distract me that much, but I am more consciously aware of them and as my prostate starts to ramp up with pleasure and the aneros is in involuntary mode, I know I can start stimulating my nipples and it will bring me to orgasm. I then do it and I cum. Its kind of like when a woman is getting sex from a cock and she's almost cumming, but then reaches down to rub her clit and BAMMM its orgasm time. My wife said it can be like that, although she doesn't need to rub her clit during sex to cum 😉

The clamps look like they'd be fun, but I don't do continuous stim on my nipples, it varies and I play with them and the pressure/technique/frequency a lot. Sometimes I'll lay off them for minutes until I'm ready, then I'm on them for 5+ minutes non stop. Its all so fluid lately, I just go with the flow 🙂