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(Originally Posted By support)
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Am a little uncertain as to "Threads". It always throws me when encountering 'computereze'.

Was born in 1926 and over years have dropped my pants to many things... but none having as small a set of dimensions as those given for Aneros.

Having read the 'results' obtained by users however, it is apparent something must be happening worth while.

Later today will be calling in with my order, as the mere thought of experiencing just a few of those sensations offered by 'users' quivers my postrate and increases blood supplies to my frontal lobes.

Will keep you informed... and feel free to write.

Jake

If I hadn't tried it myself, I wouldn't believe it.
My girlfriend has her vibrator, now I have this! Have been using it for about 5 months now and I'm trying to make the sensation last. I can draw it out for about five minutes now. any suggestions on how to make it last even longer?

Please make the aneros bigger (especially diameter)!!!!!!
You could always sell two sizes.

hi everybody:

i am new to this also, and have had orgasm with it, but have not had any dry orgasms, or even pre cum, it does feel very nice and have even taken it jogging with me and it feels great down there, i am a 59 year old very good shape male, and want to try and bring back larger ejqculations which i think it is doing, i have had it about a month now, and maybe it will get better, thanks for the forum and if anyone knows how to create dry orgasms, with it, please post..

thanks a lot

djs

I've been practicing with the aneros. It's quite
pleasurable, esp. if I combine it with
penile stimulation. As of late, I've been able
to get to some nice vibrations, but none
of deep, mind-bending orgasms that I'm reading
about. What am I doing wrong? When I do cum,
I do have short moments of quite intense
pleasure, as if all the clouds in the sky
part and a bell goes off in my body. I don't
explode w/cum, more like a long, convulsive
ooze. I want to explode. Any hints?

(Originally Posted By x)
:: Please make the aneros bigger (especially diameter)!!!!!!
You could always sell two sizes. ::

I've done some surfing and seen some larger ones sold overseas on Japanese sites. Not sure if they're available in the States. In fact there are several different shapes as well.

I'm not sure I'm following the instructions correctly...

I've had my Aneros for about 6 months, and invested a lot of time working with it. It's pleasurable, but I'm not getting the mindbending results others have reported.

I noticed recently you made some changes to the instructions, clarifying them in some areas. However, I still feel like I'm missing some of the process.

Regarding Stage 2:
I've got the 20-30 contractions thing down. I think it's more comfortable to do that BEFORE inserting the Aneros. Doing deep contractions on it 30 times becomes uncomfortable, but it feels pretty good to insert AFTER I'm done with the contractions. But that's just my personal taste.

The instructions suggest holding a contraction and letting it quiver, but it doesn't say how long to do this. Also, I can't make it quiver without also flexing my PC muscles at the same time. The instructions then say to make a strong contraction, and it doesn't say how long to hold that.

Is there some pattern I'm missing here? I've tried holding both and I've found it hard to maintain the quiver on a gentle conctraction, and it's just not comfortable on a strong one. Although the gentle contractions feel incredible in my anus, the sensation is not what I'd call an orgasm.

So, here's my point: This thing is really cool to use, and provides me with a new level of intimacy with myself that keeps me coming back for more, but I feel like I'm still missing the main benefit of it.

Anyone else having the same problem?
Support, can you clarify your instructions just a bit more?
Can anyone describe either a prostate or anal orgasm, and how it feels different from a normal one? Like where the pleasurable feelings start from?

(Originally Posted By BlueStone)
:: I'm not sure I'm following the instructions correctly...

I've had my Aneros for about 6 months, and invested a lot of time working with it. It's pleasurable, but I'm not getting the mindbending results others have reported.

I noticed recently you made some changes to the instructions, clarifying them in some areas. However, I still feel like I'm missing some of the process.

Regarding Stage 2:
I've got the 20-30 contractions thing down. I think it's more comfortable to do that BEFORE inserting the Aneros. Doing deep contractions on it 30 times becomes uncomfortable, but it feels pretty good to insert AFTER I'm done with the contractions. But that's just my personal taste.

The instructions suggest holding a contraction and letting it quiver, but it doesn't say how long to do this. Also, I can't make it quiver without also flexing my PC muscles at the same time. The instructions then say to make a strong contraction, and it doesn't say how long to hold that.

Is there some pattern I'm missing here? I've tried holding both and I've found it hard to maintain the quiver on a gentle conctraction, and it's just not comfortable on a strong one. Although the gentle contractions feel incredible in my anus, the sensation is not what I'd call an orgasm.

So, here's my point: This thing is really cool to use, and provides me with a new level of intimacy with myself that keeps me coming back for more, but I feel like I'm still missing the main benefit of it.

Anyone else having the same problem?
Support, can you clarify your instructions just a bit more?
Can anyone describe either a prostate or anal orgasm, and how it feels different from a normal one? Like where the pleasurable feelings start from?
::

My situation is similar to yours and I have basically the same questions.

I can, however, obtain strong full body spasms using the device. This happens after doing 30 or more contractions with the device inserted and then holding a slightly less than full contraction for up to 5 minutes or more. At first there are small jerks of the pelvis which then increase in intensity, as I continue to hold the contraction, until my whole body is involved. These seem to last until I release the contraction slightly, then they stop.

The odd thing is that there is no peak, increase in pleasure, or release accompanying these spasms. They're just spasms. The whole experience feels good and often leaves me breathless, but not from pleasure sensations.

Perhaps these are the "dry orgasms" that are referred to, but orgasm implies a release of some sort and that I'm not experiencing.

One other thing. For me, only the kneeling position, with a slight upward pressure on the handle works. Regardless of the kind or amount of lube I use, the device just does not move freely when lying on my side. Gravity does the trick.

Max

(Originally Posted By Maximus)
:: My situation is similar to yours and I have basically the same questions.

I can, however, obtain strong full body spasms using the device. This happens after doing 30 or more contractions with the device inserted and then holding a slightly less than full contraction for up to 5 minutes or more. At first there are small jerks of the pelvis which then increase in intensity, as I continue to hold the contraction, until my whole body is involved. These seem to last until I release the contraction slightly, then they stop.

The odd thing is that there is no peak, increase in pleasure, or release accompanying these spasms. They're just spasms. The whole experience feels good and often leaves me breathless, but not from pleasure sensations.

Perhaps these are the "dry orgasms" that are referred to, but orgasm implies a release of some sort and that I'm not experiencing.

One other thing. For me, only the kneeling position, with a slight upward pressure on the handle works. Regardless of the kind or amount of lube I use, the device just does not move freely when lying on my side. Gravity does the trick.

Max ::

Max,

I'm getting the same spasms you describe, with the same "no peak, increase in pleasure, or release". They don't build on themselves either. Kinda makes me wonder if I'm looking for something that's not there.

I've also tried just relaxing and trying to let it happen, and have had limited success. The best feelings of pleasure have come from very slight contractions and I can feel that in my anus, but it's not climactic, doesn't come in waves, and doesn't build. The upside is that it's without question very pleasurable.

My experience of using the Aneros has been very good, after intitial failure. Learned that time is critical - just relax and let it work. I found this out when I slipped the Aneros in and after a while got on with some work. Subconciously holding it in worked a treat and the sensation was really good. Found the right spot and there was a tingle up my penis. After about an hour it got better still, and I wanted to pee less, and I climaxed after about another 30 minutes. No erection at all, never has been when I'm solo, but my semen flowed so easily and I had a great empty feeling afterwards. Worked this way from then on and all I can say is it keeps getting beter. Noticed as well that my semen is now thicker and a nicer colour than before - when it was yellowish and very thin. Anyone else noticed this happening.

Also found that the Aneros works great when having sex with my wife. But she has to get me erect before slipping it in. Seems to "lock" the penis and keeps me firmer for longer. Not rock hard, just nice and taught. Even after I climax I stay erect (ish) for long enought to bring my wife to orgasm through penetration. she's thrilled as before I could never last long enough to do this. Best of all is if I climax using the Aneros about two/three hours before sex with my wife as this seems to clear everything out and makes for a wonderful time. When I climax inside her my anal muscles just seem to clamp down on the Aneros and Wow, it's a new paradise out there.

what i don't understand is how the Aneros works so well in normal intercourse as I'd expect it to hasten a climax.

Kick in the tail is that it was my wife who found the Aneros for me. Her friend's husband uses it and she recommended it to my wife when she was complaining about my lack of control. He'd got a spare, never used, so Christmas came early and I thank her for it every day

And thanks to you to for a great product.

(Originally Posted By PeteGre)
:: My experience of using the Aneros has been very good, after intitial failure. Learned that time is critical - just relax and let it work. I found this out when I slipped the Aneros in and after a while got on with some work. Subconciously holding it in worked a treat and the sensation was really good. Found the right spot and there was a tingle up my penis. After about an hour it got better still, and I wanted to pee less, and I climaxed after about another 30 minutes. No erection at all, never has been when I'm solo, but my semen flowed so easily and I had a great empty feeling afterwards. Worked this way from then on and all I can say is it keeps getting beter. Noticed as well that my semen is now thicker and a nicer colour than before - when it was yellowish and very thin. Anyone else noticed this happening.

Also found that the Aneros works great when having sex with my wife. But she has to get me erect before slipping it in. Seems to "lock" the penis and keeps me firmer for longer. Not rock hard, just nice and taught. Even after I climax I stay erect (ish) for long enought to bring my wife to orgasm through penetration. she's thrilled as before I could never last long enough to do this. Best of all is if I climax using the Aneros about two/three hours before sex with my wife as this seems to clear everything out and makes for a wonderful time. When I climax inside her my anal muscles just seem to clamp down on the Aneros and Wow, it's a new paradise out there.

what i don't understand is how the Aneros works so well in normal intercourse as I'd expect it to hasten a climax.

Kick in the tail is that it was my wife who found the Aneros for me. Her friend's husband uses it and she recommended it to my wife when she was complaining about my lack of control. He'd got a spare, never used, so Christmas came early and I thank her for it every day

And thanks to you to for a great product. ::

Pete, you lucky bum! I've had my aneros for a couple weeks now and I haven't had the hands-free orgasm you described. I think I need to relax more and not try to force results.
I am enjoying the massager, though. Like you, I have noticed a "whitening" of my cum. And sex with my wife has been similar to the experience you describe (see my post in "Unexpected Results" thread of bulletin board). I was surprised that having the aneros in DELAYED my orgasm!

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Hi Newbie, all I can say is give it time and don't tense up. Try to forget what you are trying to achieve (difficult I know). I found that lying and trying just got me annoyed. If you can do something to fill in the time and distract you a little then do. At least it worked for me, but others may disagree. I just didn't have the patience and I was lucky that it clicked. Seems to me that subconsciously I was doing the contractions as I moved about. Getting it right was hit and miss and the Aneros did pop out at times. But it made it more fun to experiment. I'm lucky in that I live in a secluded area and work from home so it isn't a problem to spend time naked. Like others I found lots of lube (KY is fine for me, vaseline has more friction for me) inserted well into the rectum - KY don't do a long nozzle here so I made one from a bit of thin plastic tubing and the top from a tunbe of cat toothpaste. Don't laugh - it works. I use a lot of KY to get that "float".

Good to hear that your semen is also getting whiter - not seen this mentioned before as a benefit. Hope your wife is as impressed as mine has been with the results.

OK guys, I got my Aneros today and had it in within minutes. Maybe I was too excited, but nothing really happened. I mean, I got some pre-cum and all, but no orgasms. Does it matter that I had masturbated earlier in the morning? I used the lube, but maybe not enough. Does everyone use a syringe to insert the lube up the anus? I want this to work.

Originally Posted By: John
OK guys, I got my Aneros today and had it in within minutes. Maybe I was too excited, but nothing really happened. I mean, I got some pre-cum and all, but no orgasms. Does it matter that I had masturbated earlier in the morning? I used the lube, but maybe not enough. Does everyone use a syringe to insert the lube up the anus? I want this to work.

I was disappointed too--tried it yesterday, following the instructions as best I could, but the sensations were nothing special despite regular and prolonged anal contractions. I ended up stimulating myself manually, and even that was a disappointment. Today I'm sitting on pillows because my butt hurts like hell.

i dont know if anybody has tried this technique. i lubed my anus and the aneros with plenty of ky and inserted. i then waited 15-20 mins. i then sat down on a short(approx 24 in.) slightly padded stool, with my legs spread fairly wide with my knees paralell to the floor, like on a bicycle. i sat up straight and arched my back slightly. i then started moving my hips forward and backward slightly, wiggling, i guess you could say. i wasnt prepared for what was next! my body then took over and i started gyrating faster and faster and faster untill i exploded. without ever touching my penis i came all over the place with extreme intensity in about 3 minutes.ive been using the aneros for some time and never been able to reach the orgasms ive heard others talk about untill now. i guess the gyrating moves the aneros easier than just contracting the muscles. i was physically moving the aneros by using the stool. it worked great so some of you might try it you might like it!

Im in a familiar situation as it sounds. I have been using it for about a month and have has the super tingle Ive read about. However, the build to orgasm is not there, Im not sure if thats the end of it or not. I try to maintain the 1/2 to full contractions, and the quivers begin, but not much after that. Also, the breathing exercises make you light headed which enhances the "out of body" feeling. Can someone please reply with some good feedback on how to achieve the "full body orgasm" or the dry orgasm is what Im really looking for. Although, this is a great product, my wife is truly happy as well...thanks

I have been using the aneros for about a year. I haven't had the super-orgasm yet, but I have gotten some intensely pleasurable feelings. The secret does seem to be just to let the aneros take over, to disconnect yourself from controlling it and just let the feelings come. My problem seems to be that when things get really pleasurable, I instinctively try to take control of it when it moves, to keep it in a position that felt really good just a second ago, when usually if I just let it do what it wants and be patient, the pleasure will eventually start to build again.

But anyway, I have a suggestion that I think would help new users. The instructions on the site are very helpful, but I found that thinking about the instructions took away from just letting the experience flow. I would suggest putting up some lengthy audio instructions, perhaps an mp3, that would guide a user through the experience starting with relaxation and breathing, and moving through the different phases. This would take care of having to wonder, 'have I left it in and relaxed long enough?', 'Have I done enough contractions yet? I lost count...' etc...

I know you have all heard it before but the trick is to relax. Having had my aneros for about two months, I too had the frustrations that you are experiencing, I was getting up to a peak then could go no further, it was not until last week that I managed to achieve the earth shattering dry orgams that this thing gives you. It is difficult to put into words how to achieve it, but the best thing I can say is that you have let yourslef become accustomed to it - I sit down with it inserted (I have removed the loop for more comfort) the anus then accomodates it - if you sit with your legs crossed you get a better sensation. I tend to feel my prostrate pulsating as it is stimulated, as this happens carefully control the aneros with your sphyncter muscles so taht the pelasurable sensation is intensified, keep doing this until your prostrate is reall sensitive. I then go into the side feotal position and let this continue, I find I get two sensations, either one in the penile shaft or around the anus, control the aneros at the pleasure point but do not let the sphyncter muscles drag the aneros up (you stop it by realxing), you will suddenly reach an immense rush, keep it there and over the edge you will go. In the short time I have been suceeding I have found my prostrate is now really sensitive, I can almost have an orgasm with the aneros in. The orgasms I am experiencing are getting better by the day - I just can't leave the darn thing alone. To be honest once you found the answer you wonder why you couldn't do it before. Keep at it, they will come and yes they are amazing. The best bit of kit ever invented!!!