first two sessions with the aneros helix syn

The early on feelings you are having are natural as your body is unaccustomed to having something at that position, over time your body will begin to accept the pleasure tool and it will disappear into you, becoming part of your self. Once you reach this point things will start to change as you are no longer paying attention to this thing in your butt, even though you may not think you are.

For most, but not all, the first few sessions will yield not much in the way of any type of pleasure, just a wtf? why isn't this working. Your body and mind is trying to figure out what the new sensations are and not sure what to make of them since these are nerves that don't normally get stimulated on the prostate, since you are not new to anal stimulation the tool being inserted won't do much right off as it is for the most part just there and not moving, but that will also change over time. I can now feel my pulse in the anal ring wrapped around the pleasure tool and when I do that induces movement causing the tool to rhythmicly move against my prostate.

Kegels are good, since these tools were originally designed for prostate massage, so a slow clench and release allows the tool to rock into and press on the prostate thus stimulating the nerve bundles and the prostate. It took me several weeks before I felt something using the pleasure tool. For me I found that doing kegels for a bit than doing nothing worked well.

I love porn but have basically given it up as I find it does nothing for my prostate pleasure sessions. Almost like it's to much visual stimulation? but wmmv, if it works for you keep at it.

Boredom is a sign it's time to stop. Because after that frustration sets in and that is even worse. Try not to recreate a previous session, it never works, I've tried and so have many others. Only recreate what you were doing (kegels, do nothing, breathing, etc) when you had sensations

Nipple play and other body touching is also highly encouraged. You will become astounded at where other places touched will cause excitement and pleasure.

Have you discussed this with your gf? I have read where this has opened up several avenues and helped things along. Unless you ejaculate there is no edge per say, it either keeps going till you stop it or your body winds down.Try not to label what the sensations and feelings you have are, enjoy what your body experiences and gives back to you.

Most definitely indulge in your fetish. I too have some silky under pants for wear during the winter and will sometimes put those on with nothing else and just revel in the slippery sensations. it's even better right after shaving when your balls and perineum are super smooth, slip and slide against the silky smooth fabric. Very tantalizing and sensual. Gets me excited just thinking about it.

As for using vibes it's all good as long as it doesn't cause you pain. I remember one thread where the poster said he basically forced an orgasm using a vibe and after he could induce orgasms without. I've tried vibrators and for me they are to fast, drives the sensations hard into my prostate almost numbing it giving me a feeling of holding a palm sander for tool long, you know that fast pulsing sensation but just in my prostate. What I did find to work was lightly dragging my finger over the handle very slowly. My finger print ridges would induce a vibration that gently stimulated my prostate and started an orgasm.

Have you considered reading some of the blog entries, or going back in the forum to read old posts? I know there is what, over 1000 pages. Here is a link to my blog if you are interested.
https://community.aneros.com/blogs/somebody/page/2/ . scroll to the bottom to get to the first entry. Hope this helps, and above all else enjoy.

Greetings @bensor310, You are well on your way my friend.. The journey is at hand. Well in a "hands free" kinda way that is.. ha! Good job documenting your experiences. Being descriptive, in tune with the details is all a part of it.. within your body and in your mind. Your desire, focus and those things which make u say, Omg that feels so fucking gooooood!! It's a state of mind, focus on your body and how it gives pleasure back to you. Take Notice of how this is so with just a thought. Dig deeper into how your mind and the pleasure of your body give to each other and need each other. As your prostate is getting used to being loved on, your mind is preparing to express and release itself using your body as it's vehicle! I say this as to take the pressure off of you, eliminate your frustrations if there are any? It's not up to you when it happens. When it does happen you will know without question and will not be able to deny it! I can remember early on my journey, I would experience very intense p-waves from time to time. My cock would become hard, it felt really good but never reached the "finish line" as if there was to be some type of dry ejaculatory experience.. extreme pleasure and then a release of some sort.. a grand finale. I was burdened by some very common questions.. Was this a super O? Is that it? I must be doing something wrong?! Then the good ol' urge to pee.. I give up! Ya gotta love it right? Lol. Seriously ya gotta love it because it's all a part of your training. Your going through the Aneros boot camp. Hang in there man, graduation day is pure orgasmic bliss! As your prostate becomes more and more aware of the pleasure that it's receiving, that it is in fact a sexual organ.. something very beautiful begins to happen. Your body starts to associate the act of sex with your prostate. Creating it's own network. In addition to hard-on's, suddenly you can have ass-on's.. a sexual thought or spotting a lil' hotties sweet ass in yoga pants at the mall, the nerve endings in your ass begin to tickle, spiraling.. surging deep. Like a hard throbbing cock, your ass will ache for pleasure. Your prostate is hungy and has it's own unique appetite! Like a boner rubbing against a pair of pantyhose (I love women in hose too btw) your prostate is capable of getting "hard on" a sexy pair of pantyhose as well! Your mind learns to transfer and direct those horny emotions to your prostate. The term "rewiring" used to make me uneasy, to me it sounds so permanent. But I'm happy to report that it has not affected my ability or desire to have good 'ol fashioned sex! Thought I'd throw that in, incase it was of any concern. From my POV, you are in the right place. I encourage you to keep on doing what your doing. Your opening new doors and treading new territory. If you get discouraged there's no harm in putting it down for a few days. infact, I believe it to be beneficial, even necessary in the rewiring process, IMO. But not letting it be far from your thoughts. Continue with your exercises. These things I relate to you from my experience with the hope that super O's will just click in for you and become natural. When it does, you will wonder what took your mind and body so long to figure it out! Best of luck on your journey.