Hi everyone, i am new to the forum and have been reading lots of topics, however i am about to buy my first ever Prostate Massager and i am not sure which one to get, but first of all i will give you all a bit of history first, just to set the scene so you people know where i am coming from here.
Ok so i am a long time lover of Anal play, but for most of my adult life i have had to pursue this hobby mostly on my own, and i am a creature of clean habits and detest my Anus being hairy, so i always try to be clean shaven around my entire genital and anal regions (usually shave weekly)
I am 58 years old and have been married to my 52 year old Filipino wife for just on 25 years, but my wife is not overly keen on anything Anal.
We tried Anal sex a long time ago (her as the receiver) and she hated it, even tho i did everything the way it should be done, and these days about all i can do with her is tongue her Perineum and sometimes if i am lucky i may get to Rim her for a few moments until she pulls away and tells me to stop, so naturally i sometimes feel a bit disappointed and lose my drive to continue sometimes, however i have always respected her wishes and never try to push the topic further.
She knows that i love Anal play, but she has always been very cautious about doing too much in the way of Anal play on me, tongue rimming and very mild fingertip insertion have been about as far as she will go, and sometimes when she is sitting between my legs masturbating me, she will get her G-Spot vibrator and rub the bulb end around my Anus and insert it, but that is as far as it goes, she cringes when she does it, and she wont even look down there while she is doing it, if i want her to move it around to seek more pleasure she refuses, and just tells me to do it myself, and when this happens i kind of feel let down somewhat because i have always done the things to her that she enjoys, so i sometimes feel like she is not playing the game fairly.
Anyway, i was looking thru some Sex Toy shops online, and have found a few new Toys that i want to buy for "both of us" but i am more concerned about the Prostate Massagers that i like, mostly concerning the size and/or length of them to achieve full Prostate pleasure from them.
Unfortunately here in Australia dont get many outlets that sell Aneros Sex products, however if someone can direct me to the best Aneros device to buy from the following link i would be very happy to buy it and try it.
http://www.sextoys.com.au/aneros?gclid=Cj0KEQiAts-kBRCbgrXc1rnXw7MBEiQAnFqTdmY_DFsepQ02NNbo7MhgGUxH_-vvT8w120m-cEhqiUkaAmPc8P8HAQ
These are some other Toys i am keen to get as well, so any advice is appreciated (she does not know i am buying a few of these toys, it is meant to be a surprise for Xmas)
Couples Delight "Sweet Caress" Vibe for both of us to use (G-Spot & Prostate)
http://www.femplay.com.au/couples-delight-sweet-caress-rechargable-vibrator.html
Maybe this "Anal Fantasy" Deluxe plug (however it has an insertable length of 5" or a bit more which may be a bit too long)
http://www.femplay.com.au/anal-fantasy-deluxe-perfect-plug.html
Euphoria male G-Spot stimulator (4" insertable")
http://www.femplay.com.au/euphoria-male-g-spot-stimulator-enhanced-black.html
Mood Naughty 2
https://onestopadultshop.com.au/anal-toys-butt-plugs/mood-naughty-2
LUX - LX2
https://onestopadultshop.com.au/male-sex-toys-anal-toys-butt-plugs/lux-lx2
Mischief inflatabe strapless strapon (buying this for her as a G-Spot massager, but hopefully i can convince her to "peg" me with it as well)
http://www.femplay.com.au/mischief-inflatable-strapless-strap-on-pink.html
We used to have one of these nice little Infinity Strapless Strapons that she would insert and i would straddle her hips and ride the end of it internally, but it is only short so i was not able to get much more than 2" inside of me while it vibrated, but the bulb kept slipping out of her while doing this so we got rid of it, now i wish i had kept it.
http://www.femplay.com.au/infinity-vibrating-strapless-strap-on.html
@derflapin
Sagging Aussie dollar is not helpful.
There is a good range at a reasonable price at:
http://www.down-undercare.com.au/incontinence-pads/Prostate-Stimulators.html
Around $65 plus postage for SGX (also called PS.2) currently my favorite
Also a good range more expensive at::
http://black-rabbit.com.au/prostate-massagers/aneros/
Around $75 plus postage.
The SGX is the smallest model of the classic shape
Re cost well a $73 Aneros will give joy for years. $75 worth of my morning flat whites to go coffee will give joy for 3weeks- go figure.
Others will give their favorites, mine are the SGX which is small and Progasm Junior which is medium. Many forum member accumulate a collection.
Hi and thanks for the reply, most of those products are pretty expensive for non vibrating models, and for around $80au i can buy a battery operated device like this one here, which i would prefer.
http://www.femplay.com.au/embrace-rechargeable-tapered-probe-prostate-massager-purple.html
The problem i see is the shear variety of similar looking devices, all would appear to do a very similar job when used correctly, so the issue is which one do i buy and try, do i just trust my instincts or what ?
As for length, is anything over 4" too long, and how about thickness of the main insertable body, do i go thicker or thinner.
I also want to try wearing one of these around away from the bedroom, that is while dressed and just hanging about the house, so i figure i need something with a thin or flat curved base that fits snuggly between my butt cheeks, especially while i am sitting down or even driving.
The ones with the ring or Perineum massager on them look like they would be uncomfortable in that situation, i think something more along the lines of the Mood Naughty 2 might be more suited to long term wear.
https://onestopadultshop.com.au/anal-toys-butt-plugs/mood-naughty-2
Cheers
@derflapin, rather depends on what you want to achieve. For me Aneros is a whole of life tool. It has enriched my life in so many other unexpected ways. I have no intention to use anything else. I am some years older but not necessarily wiser but amazed at my performance - I mean wow and have not had a super O yet!
The p-tab is essential for leverage against the prostate. The length is to press against the prostate so for me 3.5 inches is about right. The tail is a nuisance so many shorten it. Price yes expensive but then you get what you pay for - usually.
Down under care also sell unrefined Shea butter which is popular among Aneros users.
Update Down Under care has free registered post in Oz
Hi and thanks again for your reply, much appreciated.
will spend tomorrow making my final decision and will select one with the tail, probably a re-chargable like the Embrace and the Mood Naughty 2 for longer term use, if they are no good i guess i just try something else.
will definately be buying the "Mischief" inflatable strapless strapon, and the "Sweet Caress" for both of us, heard lots of good things about that devise both for G-Spot and Prostrate use, and because it has a completely flexible tail it can be bent to any position, so it can also be straightened and she can hold the thick end and insert the thinner end into me and aim the vibrating tip towards my prostate and bend it to the right angle as needed.
Cheers
@derflapin, welcome! As for length of the anal toy only you can judge butt I can get only 6 inches of my 8 in dildo in my rectum before it hurts. Then it's sheer bliss.
As for marital relations, I can recommend this book ( http://www.amazon.com/Anal-Pleasure-Health-Guide-Couples/dp/0940208377) and this blog ( http://www.allkinksconsidered.com/). The latter is by our own @Organcrackle and @Fuzzyface so you can ask them questions in chat.
Hi, and thx for your great reply, regarding the 6" penetration of your Dildo, i too can get this much inserted using a dildo (penis type or vibrating pencil type) but i dont get much pleasure from that, and the Prostate is nowhere near 6" inside the Anus, it is more like 2" to 3" from what i have discovered so far, which is why i was asking specifically about the length of Prostate massager i shoud get so when i use it, i should be able to hit that spot relatively easy, without the massager going in too far and missing it.
Cheers