Greetings, everyone.
After reading all of B Mayfield's posts, the Wiki and other posts on this forum, I decided to buy a device from my local retailer. I wanted a Helix Syn, but they only had the classic Helix, so that's what I got.
I brought it home, showered and tried it right away. I did the abdominal breathing like suggested and chose to kneel on the floor next to the bed. It was fantastic. After I started shaking, my knees were hurting so I laid on my side, on the bed, and continued. Still really good. Everything was in the right place. I found that using my hand, I could spread my leg a little bit to allow movement that was glorious. I was laying in kind of a half fetal position, with my leg directly on top of the other.
Anyway, things were feeling really good, I could feel everything going on, I was twitching automatically, my muscles were moving it all around. It was great! So great that I actually ejaculated. So now my confusion sets in... I had no penile contact whatsoever in the whole endevor, but I got off anyway with the movements. It felt a little better than a normal orgasm, but that's what it was. I was too tired from getting off at that point to keep going, though I tried and it DID still feel good, but I didn't continue further. This was about an hour and a half in.
I guess my question is why did this happen? I'm not complaining, but everything I've read talks about different orgasms, not traditional ones. I will say that I have experience in no-hands ejaculation (through audio files) and anal play. The audio files somehow tune your body into flexing your PC muscles over and over, leading to ejaculation. I've gotten rather good at them and can do them any time I listen to them when I'm relaxed. The feeling I have with those files was the same I had with the ejaculation experienced with my Helix inserted. I couldn't have a wank afterward, either, so it required a refractory period. In addition, I did wank later and got off for real, and it had a lot more volume than normal.
Again, not complaining. It was phenomenal and I was really glad I progressed so far on my first session, but I still think something isn't as it should be. Is this a normal occurrance? Do you just have to keep going at that point? Maybe take a break for a minute or two?
First off...congrats to you on the start of your journey! Your reactions to your Helix are completely normal for someone new to the experience.
The reason you ejaculated is likely, IMHO, how your brain and body have been trained to respond to sexual stimulation, and the result is an ejaculation orgasm.
Now that you are starting to experience prostate stimulation, you will want to learn how to seperate the orgasm from the ejaculation.
With practice you will be able to isolate your prostate stimulation from the penile stimulation so that you don't ejaculate as a result of prostate stimulation.
By doing so, you will be able to attain the ability to have multiple prostate orgasms over a longer period. That's the prize!
Once you ejaculate, you need to take a break..,don't fight it...the hormones win every time! But, depending on your age, your refractory period could be less than an hour or much more...me being older I often need more time! But after that, there's no reason you can't have another session if you like!
Best wishes to you and your new journey!
TG
Thanks, TG.
I wanted to add that I'm in my mid-20s so my wait out period is something like 20 minutes. Not bad.
Also, I didn't actually ejaculate until AFTER I started playing with my nipples. Up until then I could feel it building up and having my Helix just moving all about.
Also, I'm married and my wife approves of the Helix, though I probably won't use it in front of her. It's too hard to relax and concentrate with her around as if I'm in that state, I'd rather do other things with her instead.
@AsteroidBlues --- You, my man, have the best situation possible! An approving wife, age, and an adventurous spirit! Good for you!
Regarding your hands-free ejaculation skill...That's a cool ability, and a part of me is envious, however, the ability to experience multiple prostate orgasms may necessitate that you put that skill on the back burner for a while! Multiple prostate orgasms really only occur when you don't ejaculate, and instead focus primarily on the prostate sensations.
I'm the last one who would ever suggest that you stop ejaculating all together, but generally, the ability to experience multiples resides in your ability to seperate prostate and penile stimulation.
All-in-all, you are on a great path of discovery and adventure! Eventually, you may see how much MORE fun you can have with your wife while experiencing prostate orgasms! There are several guys on here that say it's quite amazing and liberating!
I may have more to add on that topic later, as my wife just recently found my eupho and I had to come clean! So far, it's all been good!
TG
@Theme_Gasm, your wife didnt previously know of your aneros use?You would be correct! Shenevernew!
TG
@Theme_Gasm, Nice LOL. Ive been at this over two years now, never told my wife either though I do not try and hide them per say. So how did she broach the subject when she found it? I'm just curious as I know the day will come for me too.
I had left my Eupho hanging on the toilet paper roll holder, after taking a shower and washing it off. She walked in, saw it, picked it up, showed it to me and asked what it was...I thought...oh crap...but I told her it was for my prostate health and that I was doing it for preventive health based on my own research. So far she's been ok with it, and I'll talk with her about it more soon! She didn't freak out, which was what I was worried about!
TG
Well it sounds like it went over well. I tend to think my wife would freak out also, but in reality they really dont know what an aneros device is and explaining that its for health reasons, really how can they argue with that? lol I just turned 40, so for me, maybe its a little more believable, I hope.