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07/07/2016 3:52 pm
Ever seen Armageddon? Remember the iconic line by the great Owen Wilson where he talks about being 10% scared and 90% excited, or maybe it's 90% scared and 10% excited, but that's what makes it so awesome? Well, that's how I feel.
First off let me say this (and I'm not sure if it's needed, required, or useful): I am a heterosexual male. I have had a total of one partner in my life, who I am currently married to for 8 years now. She is the same. I am in no way attracted to men. The thought of putting something in my butt is something that I have stayed away from for literally my entire life. For years now my wife has talked about using a finger or something to do a prostate massage. I've always been opposed, although my wife and I routinely have anal sex (we use me, a butt plug, a vibrator, or just my finger).
Just last night, I had a close friend over who recently went through a divorce. We got on the subject of sex, and he brought up his butt plug. At first I thought he was talking about one he used with his ex, but quickly realized he meant that he has one, and uses it...frequently. During sex. After sex. Alone. Casually. Basically all the time. He told me to not knock it until I tried it, and today, I ordered a Aneros Helix Syn from Amazon. My wife is excited, and after reading reviews and doing research, I'm excited also.
As I said, nothing has ever been in there. No, I'm not lying. I've never experimented as an adolescent and it's NEVER been a desire for me as an adult. So, I'm a little nervous. What should I expect? How should I do it? Do we start off smaller (with say, a finger)? Lots of lube, I'm assuming? Does it hurt? Is it hard to get out after orgasm? Will it prolong/increase my orgasm as I've read? Best position to be in? Can we have sex while it's in me, and if so, recommended position?
Thanks to all for reading and any input you may have. It arrives Saturday, and I'll be happy to report back at that time.
Thanks
07/07/2016 4:57 pm
Oh, I'm jealous! You are embarking on a great adventure with Aneros! You didn't say you age, but I started when I was 64 and have been doing Aneros for only about 5 months now. There really is nothing to be afraid of. Aneros products are well-designed, constructed and SAFE. Just be sure to follow the instructions from the beginning and when you have some free time, read through the WIKI to get some ideas and know the various terms used. After that, just take your time and enjoy! Don't hesitate to continue to ask questions here on the Forum; that is why we are all here.
BTW, my wife never really approved nor had any interest in my Aneros use and still doesn't. However, that hasn't stopped ME from experiencing the most satisfying sex ever (sex without Aneros that is). Sex WITH Aneros (with wife's blessing) I can only dream about! Looking forward to reading more about your journey!
07/07/2016 6:28 pm
Make sure you lube up and insert it slowly relax and it'll go in just fine. Take a few moments to feel it inside you, it's hardly noticeable, I too have the helix syn and it is super comfortable. Don't worry about any of your nerves just relax and you'll find your fears were totally mistaken!
As for sex position I would say misionary you on top or doggystyle would be great for it. Just remember that all the pleasures you have read about come from experienced users who have been at this for a long long time. Solo sessions may not bring much pleasure but with a partner it might come quicker.
Normally the penis is to be left completely alone because it detracts from the prostate experience. But it seems to me your looking for only use with a partnwr in which case it might be the sole purpose to touch the penis which is fine.
Enjoy let us know how it goes!! We are a very friendly community who love to help! So let us know
07/07/2016 8:25 pm
Does it hurt?
No. And if you feel any pain you should stop and figure out what you're doing wrong. If you're using enough lube, and relaxed enough to let it in, you're all set.
Is it hard to get out after orgasm?
It can be. If you've only used a coat of water-based lube, and you've had a 2 hour session, the lube may have dried up... and that can be hard to take out due to the friction. Many of us incorporate other types of longer lasting lube (oil based, etc.). There's also the question of muscle control. I remember early on, I'd have my ass muscles not cooperate with me, grabbing on to the aneros when I was trying to take it out, but that was probably made worse by the lube having dried up. In those cases you just have to take it slow.
07/07/2016 9:30 pm
Also NO silicon based lubes with the SYN models. They wI'll react wit the silicone used on the aneros, any water based or oil lube will work
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07/08/2016 12:52 am
I am 29 (for the record) and the Aneros will be used exclusively with my wife and I. I don't do anything solo, so this will be for when we're together. Not sure how much/if that changes anything. Thanks!
07/08/2016 9:52 am
Great to have discovered prostate massage that young. You have a long enjoyable sex life ahead of you.
BTW, sometimes solo sessions are the best; no distraction so you get to appreciate all that your body can give you.
Enjoy!
07/08/2016 10:42 am
Enjoy the ride!!
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