first time aneros ，please help

How long is a while? 20mins could feel like ages for new users.

Be committed to taking small 'baby-steps' at first with your MGX. I know you want some immediate results and pleasure but keep in mind that the Aneros massagers WILL stimulate your prostate. You may not feel it at first, but, trust me, you will feel the effects. Just continue with your sessions with no expectations and you will be rewarded. Good luck!

thanks could you please tell me how long I should wait before　Ｉ start the next session？

@bodhitree . almost every new users go through their first experience expecting major sensations (as you get when masturbating). Unfortunately, it does not work that way but fortunately patience pays off, trust me. The first rule is to leave all expectations out of your sessions. @goldenboy is right, give it time and you will feel different sensations. Your body is not used to this and does take time to adjust. Do not worry about your MGX not touching your prostate, it is. To feel it yourself, lube up your middle finger and get in there facing your belly button. The walnut size organ you will touch is your prostate. Massage it a little with your finger and you will learn what it feels like. Then, you will recognize the feeling when your Aneros touches it.
Good luck and welcome to the Aneros world!

To answer your question about frequency of sessions, I can only say what I did. When I started with Aneros, I probably had sessions every other day (3-4 per week) for a few months. I also don't think it is unusual to sometimes have two sessions per day. Use your own judgement; how do you feel after a session? Let your body be your guide!

Don't worry about the mechanics of it too much. My theory is that once the arousal builds up, the prostate will swell and make more noticeable contact with the aneros. You just need to work on the early-session stage, keep the arousal going and explore. There's nothing arousing about being all frustrated and impatient, so you've got to master that chill, and work with what ever's happening.

thanks very much for all your reply. So it seems that the sexual energy as stored in the prostate is the key to having a pleasurable session.
In other words,when the prostate is devoid of sexual energy as in the case of ejaculation, the session is unlikely to be successful,since there is no energy to be activated.

Welcome to the group. 2 years here this month. Results didn't come fast for me. I was stubborn though and tenacity paid off. Some would call me an addict because I probably go 5 days a week at least. But it's truly amazing when you get the hang of it. Took about 14 months for me to get a significant response. Yes, over a year. I can't tell you if I had a super o or anything, just that I have had really intense sensations and a buzzing head to toe of tickling pleasure. Endorphin highs that have left me in waves of peaceful bliss. In the beginning all you will ever do is doubt. Right tool right lube right position, blah blah blah. Because I am such a regular aneroser I use sliquid silk hybrid for my sessions. It seems to be safe even with syn models. I usually relube at least once. I don't bother wi th enemas anymore. Most of the time I am clean. Sessions tend to go 2-3 hours. Tools, for your height, just like mine,I use helix 90 percent of the time. Have had fun with maximus too but tab hurts on it so I don't use it much. Your mgx should work fine. You are doing it right , don't worry. Look up information on energy orgasm and do what they say. U should be there in no time.

As far as prostate emptying/ejaculating, some of my best sessions were after shooting off a load a half hour before a session. For myself I notice bottling up just causes me too much pressure and I can't get to the pleasure. With the pressure out of my way I can focus instead on how things feel and I go into a heightened state of orgasm through my lower belly expanding up to my head. It runs under my perineum frequently as well. So the abstaining is a theory and it seems to work for some people. Ad for me it just causes too much sensation to feel pleasure.

As far as prostate emptying/ejaculating, some of my best sessions were after shooting off a load a half hour before a session. For myself I notice bottling up just causes me too much pressure and I can't get to the pleasure. With the pressure out of my way I can focus instead on how things feel and I go into a heightened state of orgasm through my lower belly expanding up to my head. It runs under my perineum frequently as well. So the abstaining is a theory and it seems to work for some people. Ad for me it just causes too much sensation to feel pleasure.

thanks ，btw am I the only one who finds the Perinium tab uncomfortable？ I

I wash with bar soap - until it feels squeaky clean. I use oil based lubes. If there is any smell I anoint it with tea tree cream (antiseptic) and leave for a couple of hours. This replaces any other smell. I can go for weeks/ months without any unpleasant smell. Antibacterial hand soap has so little bacteria killer it's not worth using. It also may leave a residue- a softener for the skin. Traditional bar soap is humans greatest discovery it is a combination of opposing substances - bacteria which survives one gets knocked off by the other.
There needs to be s lather with the hand soap. I wash them in the shower.

HI, I am new here and I would like to ask a question or more. I am wondering if it is possible/acceptable to move about with the aneros inserted? I don't always have time to lay down for long periods.
Thanks.