Fingering the prostate

i haven't had luck with it either. i wonder if it is to do with how deep u can get your finger? i have a long torso, so have a little difficulty getting in there comfortably.

can you forward the redditt forum? maybe they suggest positions?

Darwin

I know what you mean.
The only time I may have found the prostate was with the njoy pure wand. Well, at least I think I started to feel it. I could be wrong.

Since being rewired i actually prefer to use my finger. Actually not necessary to stroke prostate. I just relax into it after inserting and amazing p orgasms start. As well as anal orgasms. I just slightly move my finger sometimes.

i lie on my left side, and insert my finger from the back. So the nail is pointing at the prostate, so difficult to feel it anyway. It is really incredible to feel with your finger inside when orgasms start.

The best way to find your prostate for the first time with your fingers is to make sure you are fully aroused and close to climaxing. Your prostate will be engorged and enlarged making it easy to feel. Once you know where it is, the next time just stroke that area and you will feel it grown again from internal stimulation.

For the extra data point - i consider myself rewired too and an orgasm expert 🙂 -- but never have really known if i felt my prostate or not, and have never given myself an orgasm by feeling it.

also - it just doesn't seem that comfortable a position to be in stretching and reaching to get a finger up there. part of the process to orgasm and do this is to really relax and be comfortable, being able to feel subtle feelings. that just doesn't happen as easily if im in an uncomfortable position trying to reach my prostate.

Well last night I felt like trying it.

Lubed up and out my finger in, rather than massaging I let the muscles do their thing like it was an aneros in there.

I got some really nice organic response! I then stroked in various places and locations and could not find anything anywhere however at one spot I noticed it gave me a strong and constant erection.

After removing the finger is when the fun started. I had the most intense aneros less session ever, playing with nipples too, moaning for and hour at least. Pretty much as good as any aneros session. I then introduced a helix but aside from a few nice feelings it just didn't have the desired effect sadly. After it's removal.... back to the pleasure! I only stopped because it was late!

So it seems that this method is a prostate priming tool for me in some way?

Quite a while ago, long before my Aneros days, I did some anal and prostate play with my finger and distinctly remember once bringing myself to a hands-free ejaculation!

I have tried to self-finger my prostate in the past - couldn't with my middle or index finger, but could get close with my thumb. Not long enough to reach it, but got hear it. Early in our marriage my wife would often massage my prostate with her gloved finger. That stopped with kids - time pressures, less privacy etc. I hope some day that will come back 🙂

Here is how I find my prostate:
I lube up my middle finger and I fold my legs so one knee is on the floor (kneeling down), my ass cheeks are resting on my heels. My other knee is off the floor and my legs are opened up. Through the front, I slide my lubed finger up my butt hole facing forward as far up there as it can go. My index and two remaining fingers are behind my ass and my thumb is facing forward beside my balls

When pushed forward, the tip of my finger easily finds my prostate and i'm able to stroke it up and down and sideways. It is easier if you are leaning forward a little and more so if you are horny as the prostate is enlarged a little.

I hope it works for you too.

it is very hard for me to reach myself effectively but
wiffy is the expert, she could find my prostate and give me a prostate orgasm within 2 min of insertion