Last night's session was my first real full blown hands free orgam. I was using my helix syn. I was Getting some real gentle but good feelings. They would come and go. I would get that urge to want to squezze and contract my muscles but I tried the do nothing approach. I tried to just relax and hold off the contractions. The feelings got a little more intense and in longer waves. Nothing to powerfull. It was great feeling the helix moving around a little in my ass. I would get these feeling of slight body numbness and with a gentle tingle in the head of my sick. I just layed there and let it be. All of a sudden I get that feeling of the point of no return. My cock was fucking throbbing it was so hard It felt like it could split from the pressure. I was also wearing a cock ring maybe the cause of the extreme pressure. But omg it felt good and I think really helped me make that step.
My balls tensed up I could feel them squeeze together and rise like just before your going to cum. Than I got a little quiver in them and that tingly feeling came back but started at the base of my cock and slowly ran up my shaft. My whole body tensed up almost pulling me up. I was laying on my back with my knees up. The tensing caused me to lift from the waist up. My back was now off the bed and I was staring at my cock. It was like someone was behind me pushing me up from my shoulders. So here I am on the bed knees in the air my body kinda bent up stareing at my cock with this slowly rising numbing tingly feeling going up my shaft. at about half way I had to close my eyes and try to just breathe to let it be and do what it wanted. The feeling kept going higher up. Getting stronger and better. I opened my eyes and all of a sudden the head of my cock seems like it filled with a huge rush of blood the tingling got really intense and about maybe 10 seconds later I started spewing cum out. It was fantastic having these great feelings while staring at my cock and with out a touch watching it spew cum out. It was rock hard stretched full of blood, every ripple and vein very pronounced. After I came I kept the helix in and just let my erection go down enough to get the cock ring off and a few seconds later this gush of thinner more clear liquid oozed out all over my leg. What a session. My best to date. Now I maybe a little confused on if those first feelings of tingling where suttle dry o's or not. They weren't intense just felt good. I would get hard than it would go away and kept repeating till I actually came. I was thinking that not me I'm never going to have a hands free orgam with this it's just going to feel good and to go to the next level I was going to have to jerk off at the end. I can truly say with personal experience now that the hands free orgasm they say can an does happen. Maybe this wasnt a super o I dont think it was but the feeling was much longer and much greater cumming hands free than a from when you jerk off or from sex. There was a lot more numbness, tingling and force behind the ejacualtion. I didnt shoot cum into the sky it was a normal release it just seems to have so much more force behind it like It should have hit the ceiling. All I can say is I have been at this for 3 years with very very little success until the last 4 months and last night was great. What I milestone to achieve and now know can happen. To the guys who are in the same boat as me. Keep trying dont give up. Stay the course. It will happen. The most important keys that I have learned that you read all the time but just cant manage to let sink in or get yourself to do are
1. DO NOT CHASE THE O: Dont go into a session expecting. Just play, let it be what it turns out to be
2. RELAX AND BREATHE: Dont try to force anything. Try to breathe through the feelings and let them take you. At some point they will
3. COMMUNICATION: Try to talk to someone or get involved in posting on these forums. For me this was huge cause it really wasnt till I started posting questions, comments and started chatting with others here that I was able to jump to the next level. It somehow opened my mind and helped me with the relaxing.
4. DONT GIVE UP: every session I have had has been different. Other than the slight good feeling here or there when I started. Each session has very different feelings and outcomes. I could be very wrong here but so far (my experience) they are like snowflakes. No 2 sessions will ever be the same.
5. TRY TO NOT TOUCH YOUR DICK: for the longest time I at some point couldn't get over the urge. I had to just grab my cock and jerk off to finish. Maybe this hurt me and made this journey take so long or maybe it was just how I needed it to be to get to where I am now and where I am going. But this is important. DO NOT TOUCH. Resist that urge as mush and as long as you can.
6. EXPERIMENT: try different things, postions, toys, breathing techniques, underwear on or off, music, porn. Etc.
7. EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT: there is no road map. No instruction manual. Your not going to read, this is how you get here or do it. Every person is different in what they feel and how they feel it.
what works for me might not work for you. You have to listen and feel yourself. Figure out what you like and works for you and adjust. You have to write your own map and that can take time patience.
well I know this has been kind of a long read. Thank you very much for reading my journey. I will keep posting cause I'm sure that I still have a ways to go with different experiences in my sessions and this sharing helps. I am also no expert like rummel and a lot of the others (sorry I cant remember your names) who have tons of great advise and info. My posts and advise are from info I have read from those guys and others and mainly on from my very own journey. Mainly what works or worked for me.
oh and I know some will criticize me for leaving out AROUSAL. I can say that yes it is important to be aroused. Again I am not an expert here just my experience. Almost always my sessions start without me being aroused. I have a pretty good sex life with my girlfriend. We have sex almost 2 to 3 times a week at min (Somtimes while I have my toy in. she is ok with it and supports me. That can be another conversation for later if you like). Anyway I will get aroused during a session. Maybe not being aroused is also another reason what took me so long. Until I get aroused and have a session I cant personally compare the difference. I am almost certain that it will help. I just feel that even if your not aroused when you start a session you will be come aroused in no time. So for me at this point in time that is why it was not in one of my steps.
again thank you for reading. And all comments are always welcomed.
@Dogmen Congratulations! You have achieved something very special!! And thanks for writing a vivid and detailed post. This is truly inspiring.
What a session. My best to date. Now I maybe a little confused on if those first feelings of tingling where subtle dry o's or not. They weren't intense just felt good. I would get hard than it would go away and kept repeating till I actually came.
Congratulations on finding a new experience on your Aneros journey. I think it is important to remind ourselves that ejaculations are separate events from orgasms even though through traditional penile masturbation we learn to conflate the two events. IMHO, yes those initial '... feelings of tingling where subtle dry o's...'.
All I can say is I have been at this for 3 years with very very little success until the last 4 months and last night was great. What I milestone to achieve and now know can happen. To the guys who are in the same boat as me. Keep trying dont give up. Stay the course. It will happen. The most important keys that I have learned that you read all the time but just cant manage to let sink in or get yourself to do are
1. DO NOT CHASE THE O: Dont go into a session expecting. Just play, let it be what it turns out to be2. RELAX AND BREATHE: Dont try to force anything. Try to breathe through the feelings and let them take you. At some point they will
3. COMMUNICATION: Try to talk to someone or get involved in posting on these forums. For me this was huge cause it really wasnt till I started posting questions, comments and started chatting with others here that I was able to jump to the next level. It somehow opened my mind and helped me with the relaxing.
4. DONT GIVE UP: every session I have had has been different. Other than the slight good feeling here or there when I started. Each session has very different feelings and outcomes. I could be very wrong here but so far (my experience) they are like snowflakes. No 2 sessions will ever be the same.
5. TRY TO NOT TOUCH YOUR DICK: for the longest time I at some point couldn't get over the urge. I had to just grab my cock and jerk off to finish. Maybe this hurt me and made this journey take so long or maybe it was just how I needed it to be to get to where I am now and where I am going. But this is important. DO NOT TOUCH. Resist that urge as mush and as long as you can.
6. EXPERIMENT: try different things, postions, toys, breathing techniques, underwear on or off, music, porn. Etc.
7. EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT: there is no road map. No instruction manual. Your not going to read, this is how you get here or do it. Every person is different in what they feel and how they feel it.
what works for me might not work for you. You have to listen and feel yourself. Figure out what you like and works for you and adjust. You have to write your own map and that can take time patience.
All excellent points which just reinforces the mind set needed for the Aneros journey to fully manifest.
oh and I know some will criticize me for leaving out AROUSAL. I can say that yes it is important to be aroused.
Well you didn't leave it out, you did mention it and I agree with you, it is '...important...' ! The manner by which you self generate that arousal is as individual as each man, I think the point to note here is that the term arousal as used here in the forum does NOT refer to one's penile erection state.
Good Vibes to You !