Feed back from older guys

Don't get hung up on whether you have much pre-ejaculate drainage or not. Counter-intuitive as it may sound, I can find no relationship between amount of drainage and the urinary and sexual function benefits derived from Aneros use. I have incredibly strong super orgasms that leave my otherwise congested prostate gland feeling relaxed and relieved after a good session but rarely have any drainage at all. I think the key is relaxing an otherwise tight, congested prostate gland with the massage the Aneros produces.

Guys, this has been the most enlightening, encouraging and informative thread I've read. Although technically a newbie to Aneros, I've been on the Planet for 63 years, all the posts you all have made are so appreciated. Thanks...looking forward to the Journey.

Hi @JustBreathe,

Welcome to the Aneros Forum. We are the same age. I have been using the Aneros since early last June and it has been a wonderful journey so far for me. So I wish you all the best in your Aneros journey. I think older guys have years of experience with their bodies and their sexual equipment. For those of us, who are married to a lady or have a male companion, that gives an added dimension that comes from an intimate sexual relationship with another person, perhaps much more than somebody like me who is a confirmed bachelor.

Like many baby boomers who grew up in a small town in the country, I grow up in a restrictive Victorian environment. My parents were ashamed to tell me the facts of life, and even my personal physician when I was in my early teens. What he did, I think, was criminal. So I had find out for myself through my researches at our town library. I discovered masturbation by accident at age 13. That practice enabled me to get to know my body much better. Of course, when the Internet came along for me in 1993, the search for sexual knowledge was made much easier for me.

But it was the Aneros which began to open up for me doors of knowledge of all kinds very recently. I have found working with the Aneros has been both empowering and affirming.

Recently I discovered several weeks ago that there is often a delayed reaction from most of my Aneros sessions. While most of my sessions give me great pleasure, it is after a session that my awakened prostate enables me to carry on despite my Aneros models having been put to bed. I can Kegel away thus giving my prostate and other parts of my body exquisite pleasure.

Thom./BigGlansDC

Thom
Yeah! We boomers seem to carry a common thread when it come to early experiences, self discovery and experimentation. I am about to rediscover bachelorhood, currently in the throws of a divorce after 40+ years of marriage, but honestly I'm sure it will all work out exactly as it should. I will still have the memories and my kids, who aren't kids any more. The emotional trip has begun to take a physical toll, so I find myself in search of quiet solitude and peace and yes....Just Breathe!

The one thing I have plenty of is patience. And by reading the posts all over this site patience and relaxation is essential. I've got the patience and looking forward to the relaxation part... whatever else comes I'll be ready for... or so I think...no pun intended

@JustBreathe,

There you have the essential qualities for successful Anerosing as you have expressed it: patience, relaxation, and being open to what the Aneros has for you. This has been my experience in the five months I have been working with the Aneros.

Thom.

I think the older guys have an advantage when it comes to multiples. I am 19 and a virgin and my random boners and extreme hornyness distract me like nothing else. If anything, I think being older is a good thing when it comes to the aneros ! 🙂

I just did a post in the comment below that I think is relevant to this discussion. "an old guy" topic.


https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/14466/disinterested-in-penile-stimulation#Item_2

I also added to the post mentioned by think75 that has relevance

I just did a post in the wrong place. I think that the old guys might have some interest

" I have stopped focusing on labels. I am who I am. I am a heterosexual that loves my aneros.

Right now, I have another "problem". I have acheived so much success in three weeks I am almost out of control. I remove peridise every morning. During the night before I got little sleep and probably had a minimum of 75 orgasms. I don't even try to keep count anymore. They feel so dsmn good I never want to stop. I have to force myself to get up anf face the world. I do not have a feeling of full statistsction. I always have the urge. Now I have lost the ability to have a wet orgasm which would give me a momentary respite. However it does seem that the more orgasms I have the less urge.

Here is what blows my mind. Returned from breakfast and, prior to leaving the house I went to take a leak. My cock was hard (I have a Bionic dick..inflatable implant). I touched my cock head and it really felt good. So, what the hell, get my fleshlight and give it a few strokes...and then stick back in my pants and leave. So much for a great plan. In less than 30 seconds i had a huge orgasm whivh almost dropped me to the floor. Shit.. let me try this again.. I had 12 orgasms in less than 10 minutes. I was looking in the mirror and the face was ercontorted etc. Anyone watching would have called 911.

i stopped and left the bathroom. 15 minutes later I was back at it again and had at least 10 orgasms. Then maybe another 20 minutes another 10 or more. I still had the urge.

Guys.. this is no way for an old bastard like me to act. how am I going to functio in the real world? If I was bent on taking over the world I would airdrop billions of devices with instructions and I could invade and find the locals doing their thing in closets everywhere. I would own them just like my peridise owns me now.

So I admit to clinging to my guns, my bible and now my peridise.

Now what was the question I was trying to answer? Don't bother. This is my answer to all hquestions. Damn.. I really feel good. I going to back to the house for another session. And then night will come and back with my peridise. You think I have a problem? Not to worry.. when I grow up I'll fix this.

Guys.. do I have any company?

@thick75

"I am who I am. I am a heterosexual that loves my aneros" - Now that's more like it (see "Disinterested in penile stimulation" thread for context)

"I have acheived so much success in three weeks I am almost out of control" - I am failing to see the problem here. When you actually get to "out of control", worry about it then. It's currently having an impact, and only you can determine whether the impact is excessive. So far, it sounds as if it isn't.

"I have to force myself to get up anf face the world" - So do most of us, and we do it begrudgingly.

"Now I have lost the ability to have a wet orgasm which would give me a momentary respite" - How do you know this has actually happened? Have you been able to make it to the drawer you keep your Fleshlight in and put it to use? I believe you that the non-ejaculatory orgasms you're having are awesome, but if you're looking to hit that "reset switch" (as rumel has previously put it), have at it with the Fleshlight!

"this is no way for an old bastard like me to act" - I know of at least eight "old bastards" who would give their left testicle (and probably their right one too) to be in your shoes right now. The problem is, they want the results, without having to embrace what you've embraced (otherwise they wouldn't be men anymore, don't you know). They reap what they have sown.

"how am I going to functio in the real world?" - With a huge fucking smile on your face, I would say.

"So I admit to clinging to my guns, my bible and now my peridise." - Give up the first two. They're a set.

"Damn.. I really feel good" - There, that wasn't so hard now, was it?

"when I grow up I'll fix this" - It ain't broke.

"Guys.. do I have any company?" - More or less, and they're peppered throughout the forum and blogs area. However, they're likely having sessions now, so they can't answer you at this time. You understand, right? 🙂

you make me laugh!

I am starting my nightly session. Boy, I sure complain a lot!

small note.. I don't worry about particular routines anymore.. I just stick it in and stuff happens. and I am finding out that if you orgasm enough you can get some sense of satisfaction. I promise to stop bitching. Things really are great. Ops.. gotta go.

@thick75

"I promise to stop bitching" - Don't you dare.

"Things really are great" - We know, and good for you.

Don't sweat the small stuff.

These are my comments form my personal daily log. Thought you might be interest...

Last night I used my
Helix. During the might I was wakened by
my Helix. I got myself going with the contractions but quickly went to my
Fleshlight and began fucking. I had about
20 minutes of orgasms and I returned to bed and went to sleep. Then it happened again with the same result.
This morning I had a dentist appt and did not really have time to stay around
for my orgasms. But, lacking self
control, I thought I would try a quickie before getting dressed. It was really intense. My cock was huge and
very sensitive. I had an orgasm starting
on the third thrust. I had several and
had to break away to get ready.

Just walking to the
bathroom was really erotic. I really had
the urge and walking gingerly. I knew I was getting to my backup fleshlight that is in the bathroom.
I thought I might just try another quickie (always turns into 5 to 10 orgasms).
I did and it was just like the last one. I pulled myself away and got dressed
and left the Helix in.

Went to the dentist
and returned home. I then went to the
bedroom and had a session that lasted about 2 1/2 hours. It was
incredible. Many.. Many orgasms. Usually
10 to 20 minutes with a small rest period in between.. Maybe 2 to 5
minutes. An interesting side note: I
watch my clock and make a mental note. I
will have an orgasm or two and look back at the clock and maybe 5 minutes went
by. It seemed like seconds instead of
minutes. WOW!) hen another phase etc. I estimate that I had at least 75 or more
orgasms before I decided to call it quits. During the last orgasms the
intensity was declining although great.
Each orgasm was taking a few more strokes. I was looking for a way to quit. So I just
slowed down and did not "push" for another orgasm. I started to die down and I just pulled
out. I then laid down and got some
strength back. For the first time I felt
a sense of satisfaction. I had a minor and controllable urge that could be
distracted.

Although it was noon, I then fixed
breakfast and watched some news. I then
went to the bathroom to remove the Helix.
I could not resist so I did about
5 orgasms that were really intensive. "I'm back!". I then took the Helix out. I got dressed and left to Community Coffee
where I am writing this.

Summary: I have found a way to get satisfied. Just orgasm a lot. Not very practical but possible at least. I
had been using the peridise and I decided to go back to my Helix when I did not
sense the peridise (the smallest) as much as before. The Helix did the trick. I think I will be alternating these two.

QUESTION: I can do
the usual HFO orgasm with just doing my contractions. Feels very intense. But I do not have the
pleasure of the penis thrusting, grinding etc.
I am not doing the alternating stoking. I do not have the pleasure of
watching my cock inserted working itself in the vagina. I miss the sensation of hitting the G-spot or then the cliteris or both. I miss sideways rotating screwing motion to hit the 11 o'clock and 1 O'clock position in her vagina. And I miss the reaction
of a partner. So I prefer the fleshlight
or a live woman over a HFO. It is hard
to compare but the HFO has the potential to be more intense, but not sure. The HFO technique gives me the result of my orgasm, the actual fucking gives me the sensations and sense of my being in control of providing myself and my partner please PLUS I get the result of the orgasm. THUS I am not really bothering with the HFO anymore. In both cases I am multi orgasmic. The actual fuck is much better for me. The HFO was merely a training or transitional step to re-wire for the MMO. Once rewired I think that the HFO is second choice. Now there are times when I can not fuck and the HFO seems great. But when I am driving and I feel an orgasm looming, what am I to do, turn on a rotating beacon on the top of my car to warn everybody that they are in an orgasm zone? What
is interesting is that I seem to have a choice.

BTW all of my
ranting and concerns about obsession and addiction are not important to me
now. I realize that I have a choice and
ability to stop any of this. I will when
I think it is necessary. In fact since
each session does not ever end of its on,
I am the one deciding to quit or stop.
So I am already controlling my self.
What is left is to begin stopping sooner. But I have to have a reason or I will want to
continue.

LIFE IS GREAT! I am
really sorry for those men who have not figured this out yet. It is in their interest to seek out the MMO.
If they are conditioned to pass on this, it is their choice. I would argue that each man should reevaluate
his own position on all subjects of sex. It least he would be giving himself a
choice.

THIS HAS NOTHING TO
DO WITH SEXUAL PREFERENCE. (I just throw this in.. If I am rambling do not
blame me… it is the orgasms. It is not my fault. My device made me do it.) The
simple question is whether the ability to have multiple orgasms is important to
that man or not. If so, then do it. If
not, continue on.

I am really happy
where I am now. If anyone reading this
has more to say that would add to my pleasure I would like to hear about
it. But it is so good now, I do not know
how I could handle anything better. But
I'll listen.

My usual last word..
To all of you out there trying to have success with your Aneros. DO NOT GIVE UP. It is there for the asking IF
YOU ARE WILLING TO KEEP WORKING, EXPERIMENTING, CONCENTRATING, ASKING FOR HELP
ETC. I think everybody can get this. Not
just the chosen few. In my case I really got serious and did full court press. So I won and I deserve it
because I did it. So if you are
bitching, quit that and recommit. It is there for you. (this is another of my
"last words".. Apparently I lie when I say this is my last word… oh
well.