Eupho syn trident and 3 "ruined orgasms."

I can’t but agree, @Reddog152, it‘s such a pleasurable technique! 

As some dominas disclosed on their web sites, they‘ve found out when teasing their subs, there are about 15 to 20 seconds to wait before continuing edging after ruined orgasms to avoid full orgasms thereafter. To wait these seconds without any stimulation at all indeed feels like a set back to zero and I love it to start over vigorously at once when the countdown is over. Although already having oozed some semen just seconds before, it‘s such a joy to go on with jerking my still fully erect member with no chance for another release until the arousal slowly has built up again. Using my pelvic muscles like when suddenly stopping peeing - but only in a weak attempt - often helped me already to avoid any spurting or contractions that would have been leading to a full orgasm, instead keeping it a ruined one. Thus I made it to about a dozen ruined orgasms in a row on a good day. Sometimes it worked better to leave it at two ruined ones in a row perhaps every other hour or so - building up an extreme arousal during the whole day. It’s a wonderful way to learn to separate ejaculation from orgasm. I feel most excited when I make it to some continuously slowly oozing of semen for some seconds, by chance even with some short breaks in between. It’s not the ejaculation, the arousal makes us high! For a multiorgasmic approach it‘s better to cum later or even not at all. 

Keep him up! 😉

Is this the same as edging? I've just started edging today to help up my arousal.

Posted by: @blacklotus

Is this the same as edging?

Not exactly, although edging is usually part of the process. Please see the articles Ruined Orgasm Training & The "Ruined" Orgasm for more details.

Good Vibes to You!

Thank you, @rumel, for those links, Samantha seems to be a very talented expert.

If anyone want‘s to read more, „ruined“, „orgasm“ and „manual“ or „instructions“ are the keywords for best search results, like one of my favorite sources smirkingly named „A Lazy Domme‘s Guide“. (NSFW)

Another interesting source I didn‘t already check further may be an astonishing long list of instruction videos and even asmr audio files on pornkay like an amazingly exciting whispered diy instruction by a gentle female voice. (NSFW)

The kinky attitude of these examples should not hinder anyone to give ruined orgasms a try. Including female domination (femdom) or female led relationships (FLR) isn‘t a must to learn and  enjoy your ability to control your ejaculations like an expert giving you access to unknown heights and duration of your arousal by discovering new realms of horniness and bliss.

Good vibes!

Mart

Posted by: @blacklotus

Is this the same as edging? I've just started edging today to help up my arousal.

If you like, I have two NSFW recommendations for you: 

1) edgemeplease.com - automated text based online commands taking over control of your edging and thus helping you with letting go 

2) Cock Hero Frenzy - my favorite edging video - without those enervating beats per minute.

Keep strokin‘! 

Mart

@sowithoutaneros

Thank you for the shared material. I like the look of the edgemeplease.com, as well as the instruction vid from pornkay. So there are others like that on pornkay? I've never heard of that site.

Also thanks @rumel I will be reading up on it. Like one thing I'd like to learn about is how/if your edging endurance/sensations improves over time. I can't believe it took me so long to find edging/ruined orgasms, even though I've been peripherally aware of them forever!

Posted by: @blacklotus

So there are others like that on pornkay? I've never heard of that site.

You're welcome, I'm glad you like it too. I've never heard of that site as well. As already mentioned "Cock Hero Frenzy" is one of those few videos of this "Cock Hero" genre that comes without enervating beats other videos use to make you speed up or slow down your bating, mostly at some silly rate.

Now, that Pornhub has removed millions of user-uploaded videos to fulfill demands from Visa and Mastercard, who both recently cut ties with Pornhub, making it impossible for Pornhub to process payments other than through cryptocurrencies, all these videos - formerly found on Pornhub - too are gone if not perhaps with a bit of luck uploaded elsewhere. Actually you'll now have to verify your person first to get any videos or even pictures uploaded. Well, I guess, that'll be almost the end of most self-produced content there and elsewhere as other sites might follow. Who t. f. wants to verify his person to upload his pornographic selfies? 😉

(Even @shockedwaves fabulous handsfree ejaculation from nippleplay - all gone.)

Cheers, Mart

P.S.

Btw, couldn't but save that vid to my harddisk, for good measure. And couldn't but go for that 36'21" session of edging too. Indeed I've been a little surprised how intense it felt, maybe re-wiring has even stepped up my game? @blacklotus, did you really make it or did you only get a sneak peak at it? If you really made it, I only can recommend to also obey to the 24-hours-denial order and go for it again tomorrow. You will love it! Pay attention to your prostate area when you feel the frenzy again! Good vibes!