I've been using the Aneros for awhile now, and I always get to the point of getting so horny that I feel like I have to masturbate. Which seems to end the session. If I ejaculate, though, does that mean that I should give up? I often get frustrated and do.
ejaculating before a session may reduce your libido and hence not make it very exciting but you can try and see. As for abstaining, my advice would be to just tell yourself before a session, no matter what you will not masturbate and just stick to it. I know its hard, but the rewards will be much greater in the end.
I suffer the same issue, the session makes me very horny and I get so close, so very very close to 'something' but not get there, just left with super hornyness that is too hard not to masturbate
FWIW...The only reason I abstained (past tense) from ejaculating during my early rewiring period, was so that I had the extra energy available to support the length of sessions I desired, either shorter or longer.
I believe it helped me learn faster, as my journey was just starting.
I'm not bragging, only suggesting how your experience may evolve, using myself as only one example...because, after a three hour blissful orgasmic state yesterday morning, I was soooo horny that I ejaculated twice in 15 minutes starting only 30 minutes after the end of my Aneros session. And, this morning, I had one of my best Aneros sessions, even after yesterday's double ejaculation! My point is, all things being equal, once you reach a certain level of rewiring / skill / awareness it MAY not matter AS MUCH how frequently you ejaculate!
TG
@inhope, spell check again 😛
@Theme_Gasm, you are bragging lol, but its ok. I would too if I were having all the success's you were having
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Only once have I had an superO directly after ejac. Never happened again. SuperOs for me now only come on the third or fourth day after ejac. Aneros sessions before 3./4.th day only tend to be buildips to the super.
@Slipstream In my experience aneros pleasure doesn't seem to be fuelled by libido horniness even though libido can make you hungry for a session.
I often ejac 30 min, to an hour before sessions and even though i'm not horny alot of the time the p~waves will flow as it seems p~waves are not powered by libido horniness like the male penis is.
The p~waves will often make me horny so it can be argued that the p~waves power the libido horniness and "not" vice versa with the horniness powering the p~wave as you suggested.
The above can be observed by those claiming that aneros use has cured there erectile dysfunction and from normal users that claim aneros use gives them raging boners or super-e's (e=erection).
Tre' @};-
@Trei --- As we're often reminded, our journey's can and do evolve! My p-waves significantly influence my arousal! It didn't start out that way at all! That's one of the most intriguing and exciting things for me is how things evolve!
TG
I prefer to reserve my ejaculations for post-session horniness should those feelings be particularly intense after the session. For me ejaculation does not seem to inhibit the pleasure sensations and ability to Super-O when a session follows a few hours later. For example, post Peridise session ejaculation 12:00AM, follow-up MGX session 5AM that progresses wonderfully to Super-O land. Like others have shared, I like to go a couple of days between sessions and avoid ejaculations to help build desire for the next session. :)>-
@Jaxsun,I know I shouldn't express envy but I can't help feeling my age as I read your post.
You are obviously a lot younger than I am, which makes me a little sad that I wasn't around to learn about all this fifty years ago!
Good luck to you and enjoy the blessings your body has to offer!
Pommie, thanks for your kind and caring comments. I've been using Peridise, Tempo and MGX Classic for about 10 months now...I've lurked in the background here till now, benefitting immensely from the wealth of experience and unselfish support that many, like you offer. I guess I recently thought maybe It might be time for me to help others as well with some of my relatively recent successes.
I am not that young physically, 65 yrs. old, however the mind still thinks in many ways as it has in the past when I was a younger man.(one of the reasons I began the journey in the 1st place).
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience with us all...I always look for your comments because they have helped me along specifically. All the best to you my friend.
pommie: don't worry i started this journey when i was 24 and the aneros wouldn't work for me back then you needed the widow of age to understand the proper use of the devices. Now at 33 nearly I'm getting somewhere with the devices and its taken me THAT long to get there.
Ejaculating beforehand can be beneficial in some cases - it's essentially if and how much sexual energy is blown on it. I'm usually struck with guilt/regret during the following refractory period, but after about 4-6 hours my arousal jumps back to nearly the same height as before.
I typically end my sessions ejaculating nowadays anyway. It stops me being on edge, and takes me back to reality.
Ejaculating beforehand can be beneficial in some cases - it's essentially if and how much sexual energy is blown on it. I'm usually struck with guilt/regret during the following refractory period, but after about 4-6 hours my arousal jumps back to nearly the same height as before.
That makes alot of sense. get one off, then wait several hours. It should make you more patient in your session and hopefully not be in need of a typical O
second orgasm takes longer and better for our partner. My staying time 2nd go is 20-30 minutes enough time for her to get 2-3 orgasms. Even get a hand or more on the first one, someday pegged first but hasn't happened same day, we can all hope